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News & Reports 2004-06
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Gay
Rights in Thailand 2007
1
Thais Better Know Where Their Children Are--Curfews are back 2/04
2 The Story Utopia Tours Never Dreamed They Would Have to Publish 3/04
3 Film Tells of Kickboxer Who Had Sex Change 4/04
4 School gives transvestites own restroom 6/04
5 Thailand's Cultural Ministry "Declares War" on Homosexuals 6/04
6 Love, Fantasy, Money and Betrayal-- A Sad and True Report 7/04
7 Gay activists form political movement, plan talks with governor hopefuls 7/04
8 World AIDS Meet Ends With Dire Warnings on
Humanity's Worst Pandemic 7/04
9 Thai group launches (absurd) bid to stop Singapore from snatching its pink dollars 7/04
10 Sex:
Younger and More often in Thailand 10/04
11 Phuket,
popular with gay tourists,
struck by tidal wave 12/04
12
Thailand's gayest resort--Patong Beach--not so gay this New Year's
1/05
13
Aftermath of Tsunami: In Land Built for Tourists, Only Thais Are
Left (Background
story) 1/05
14 No risk to visit Phuket or Patong--Beaches cleared after three days 1/05
15
Group Provides Services for Male Commercial Sex Workers 1/05
16
Thai Gay Resort Recovers From Tsunami Disaster--Phuket
Gay Festival
scheduled 3/05
17 After the Tsunami, Phuket Rebuilding Paradise 4/05
18 Singapore's 'Nation Party' moved to November 4-6 in Phuket, Thailand 6/05
19 First international conference on Asia's gay communities begins in
Thailand 7/05
20 Thai world boxing champion knocked out
in gay porn scanda 7/05
21 Thai
boxer convicted on “obscenity” charges,
police clampdown on
porn sites 7/05
22 Thailand OKs Gay, Transsexual Soldiers 8/05
23 Gay's In Thailand Mirror American Counterparts In Spending
24 Thailand wins as Singapore's brief gay fling grinds to a halt 11/05
25 Thailand registers first official gay association--Rainbow Sky Association 2006
26 Join Gay Pride Festival Parade November 5 11/06
27 Thai AIDS survivors ostracized 11/06
28 Bangkok’s MSM HIV explosion –a precursor for Asia’s mega-cities? 11/06
29 Surfacing For Lesbians, the Party Never Stopped in Bangkok 12/06
New
York Times,
http://www.nytimes.com/2004/02/27/international/asia/27THAI.html?ex=1078937966&ei=1&en=98a2c12a3ecb9326
February
27, 2004 1
Thais
Better Know Where Their Children Are--Curfews are back
by Seth
Mydans in Bangkok
Imagine
a city where bars, nightclubs and even movie theaters shut
down early,
where young people are off the streets by curfew, where universities
stage
surprise drug tests and where a woman cannot enter a restaurant
without a male escort. That wouldn't be the racy, all-night Bangkok
that
people like to call "fun city."
But it
is Bangkok - and the rest of Thailand - as imagined by powerful
government reformers who have
already begun to put a crimp in the fun. Nearly three years
ago, they began what they call a "social order" campaign, enforcing
a 2 a.m. closing time that nobody had ever bothered about and by
raiding nightspots and testing customers for drugs.
To almost
everyone's surprise,
the politically popular campaign has persisted despite
the resistance of powerful businessmen and the complaints of Western
tourists. Now
the screws are beginning to tighten. On March 1,
most nightclubs, bars and discos will have their closing
times moved back
to midnight, one
of the most stringent curfews in Asia.
After
March 29, under another new regulation, all youngsters under
18 will have to
be off the streets
by 10 p.m. unless they are with their parents.
This month the Interior Ministry announced a 100-fold
increase in license fees that, if put
into effect, is sure to put scores of restaurants, ballrooms,
massage parlors and other entertainment places out of business.
With Prime
Minister Thaksin Shinawatra intimidating the press;
packing the courts, the police and the military; and all but eliminating
political opposition,
and with social order added to the mix, Thailand could
begin to be a somewhat different place. There are those, indeed,
who warn of
a creeping dictatorship as the popular and powerful
prime
minister moves
systematically to bring the country into his grip. "There is
a very troubling hint of a yearning to gradually
turn Thailand into a
police state," wrote Pravit Rojanaphruk, a political commentator,
in the English-language daily The Nation last week.
"The
state is now trying to become big brother, and if this occurs without
any
resistance from both young and old it is not too
far-fetched to imagine that the government will impose more
measures dictating how people should or should not behave." Government
officials are not shy about saying pretty much the same thing. "I
want my children to grow up in a polite, peaceful and orderly society," said
Purachai Piemsomboon, a former interior minister
who instituted the crackdown,
in a television interview last year.
Curiously,
polite and orderly Singapore is moving in the opposite direction.
Last
summer the police announced that bars would be allowed to stay open
around the clock
and that patrons could dance on tabletops. As
soon as it was started, Thailand's campaign was
widely popular, with polls
showing that 70
percent of the public backed it. For the moment,
Mr. Purachai, became the most popular politician in the country. "Students
are reveling without a limit," he said. "Dancing is not
dirty, but how they behave matters. They must not have sex in lifts
or toilets.
That's pathetic." This is a time of wrenching
change in Thailand as traditional social and family
structures give way to the modern
world. Mr. Purachai
was voicing the fears of many people who see their
country, and their children, running out of control.
On the other hand, there are critics
who say Mr. Purachai and his fellow reformers have
gone a bit out of control themselves.
At one
point, a police district in Bangkok, resurrecting
a long-forgotten law, ordered entertainment places
to turn away any women who tried to enter without a male escort. "If
a girl walks alone in an isolated place police have to check on her," Mr.
Purachai said, although the orders are never
likely to be enforced. "This
isn't infringement but a precaution." Early
last year, the police raided movie theaters in
a shopping mall and ordered them to close
at midnight, citing an old martial law
curfew that was still on the books. "Although
the law was established 30 years ago, it is still
practical, especially for today's generation,
who face too
many temptations," said
Somchai Petprasert, a police colonel working
as an adviser to the Education Ministry.
It is
only a little more than a decade since Thailand was
ruled by generals, and the rights and freedoms
of its democracy are still fragile. It was only at the end of 1997
that these were codified
in a new Constitution. Mr. Thaksin's six-year-old
government has been systematically rolling back those reforms, weakening
safeguards
against
corruption and electoral fraud, muzzling government
critics and using economic pressure to stifle the press. Public
morals and social behavior
may prove to be a greater challenge,
though. There is a forlorn hope that the problems
of a changing society can
be corralled by crackdowns. "We
are helping them keep their virginity," explained
Nikhom Jarumanee, an Education Ministry official,
when an experimental curfew was tried
on Valentine's Day two years ago. Plenty
of people here think this is balderdash.
The Bangkok Post, an English-language daily,
summed up the mood in a sarcastic headline
last week: "Lock
Up the Young, This Is Thailand."
Utopia
Tours. Bangkok
25 March
2004
2
The Story We Never Dreamed We Would Have to Publish
News travels fast and you may already have heard that our two
offices in Bangkok were raided by Thai law enforcement authorities
on Friday,
19 March 2004. Computers and administrative files were removed. Except
for our female bookkeeper and and Douglas (who was at an outside
meeting), everyone who was in the office at the time was
detained.
Virtually
all of the items removed from our offices were returned later in
the day.
Following a sensational news conference staged by Thai immigration
police on Saturday morning, 20 March, six Thai newspapers published
separate accounts of the incident. All of these stories included sweeping
inaccuracies and some were filled with total fabrications. The stories
claimed that a variety of very serious charges had been filed. In
actuality, no charges had yet been brought against anyone at the
time of the news
conference.
Later on Saturday, some allegedly-obscene items were found in the
home of our director Robert, who was later charged with "cooperating
in the trade of obscene materials." A management trainee was charged
with a work permit violation which was quickly resolved. Our partner
John was also taken into custody for a work permit technicality (which
was later dropped) but was subsequently charged along with Robert even
though there was no evidence of any crime. He has since been released
and it appears that no charges will be brought against him.
We have not seen any of the alleged evidence against Robert, so we
can not comment or speculate. However, we believe that the
raid on our company was entirely due to an investigation of charges
against
Robert, which originated at the Australian embassy in Bangkok, and
that the other members of our corporate family were unfortunately
swept up into this inquiry.
(Robert
is a former high-ranking Australian diplomat
who has lived in Southeast Asia for almost 25 years.) Robert remains
in custody.
Robert has resigned from all positions he held within the company.
Utopia Tours has neither been accused of nor charged with any crime
whatsoever. We are open for business as usual and there has been
no interruption in customer service. Our customer data remains
under lock
and key. Future reservations are not in jeopardy.
Those who know us personally or have been our customers know that offering
positive alternatives to sex tourism is the very foundation of our
business. We are not now nor have we ever been
involved in prostitution, the production or distribution of pornography,
or in the exploitation
of children in any way. Although other companies have been tempted
to use sex to attract customers, we have deliberately kept our
standards high and our hands clean. Everyone knows that. To suggest
that Utopia
Tours has behaved in any way that is unethical or morally irresponsible
is simply untrue.
Associated
Press
April
16, 2004
3
Film Tells of Kickboxer Who Had Sex Change
Singapore (AP) – A film about a real-life champion Thai
kickboxer who hung up his gloves to undergo a sex change operation has
meant more than box-office receipts to its subject – it's given her peace of mind.
The recent Thai release of "Beautiful Boxer," a dramatic film about
her life as a transvestite and transsexual, has helped people understand
the tough choices she's made in her life, former prizefighter Parinya Charoenphol
said at a news conference Wednesday.
"After the movie came out, it seemed like people could now understand the
reasons why I made certain decisions," Parinya said through a Thai translator,
referring to the sex change operation she underwent in 1999.
"They have given me a lot of encouragement," said Parinya, decked out
in a white satin blouse, floral skirt and sharp-toed boots.
Parinya has been offered several acting roles and has accepted parts in four
Thai television soap operas and an action movie.
"Beautiful Boxer" opens in Singapore on April 29.
Associated
Press,
http://www.chicagotribune.com/news/showcase/sns-othernews-0621bathroom,1,579903.story
June 21,
2004
4
School
gives transvestites own restroom
Bangkok, Thailand – Snubbed by both men and women, transvestite
students at the Chiang Mai Technology School just wanted a restroom to call their own – and
were granted their wish.
Dubbed the Pink Lotus Bathroom, the facility is exclusively for the
school's 15 transvestite students and features four stalls, but no
urinals. On the
door hangs a sign with intertwined male and female symbols.
"They would come in the morning and use the women's bathrooms, but the women
were annoyed, didn't like it or played pranks on them," said Posaporn
Promprakai, registrar of the school in Chiang Mai province, about 360 miles
north of Bangkok.
The transvestites – who must wear male attire at school but are allowed
to sport girlie hairdos – switched to the men's bathrooms, only
to run into more trouble.
"The men teased them, chased them, and they came screaming and in tears
again," Posaporn told The Associated Press.
So Posaporn designated a lavatory just for them, telling the vocational
school's 1,500 students to just use their own restrooms.
The transvestite bathroom opened last fall, but this week attracted
the notice of local media. Gays, cross-dressers and transsexuals are
generally
accepted
in easygoing Thai society.
"We don't support their decision to be transvestites. We are just trying
to solve the problems of one group that is unhappy at school," said Posaporn. "They
don't get teased in the bathroom anymore. They're much happier."
From:
info@utopia-asia.com
Thai Rath
newspaper, Bangkok, Thailand June 5.
2004 5
Thailand's
Cultural Ministry "Declares
War" on Homosexuals
(English translation from the front page
of today's Thai Rath newspaper)
Cultural Ministry Irate Over Gay
Civil
Servants, Blaming TV Media as a Distributing Source.
The Cultural
Ministry has declared an all-out war on people who have homosexual
behaviors, e.g. transvestites, gays, lesbians or dykes. The Deputy
Minister has announced that they will absolutely not accept these
abnormal people to work in the department. The ministry has prepared
to overhaul
the system by wiping out civil servants and officials who are either
handsome women or queenie men to set it as an example for the society.
This
changed value of the society is due to the broadcast of transvestite
actors
by the TV media, causing a fad for people to emulate. The
ministry department has started an offensive campaign in disciplining
homosexuals
as a result of inappropriate behaviors conspicuously displayed
through various media which are bad examples for the posterity,
by beginning
to screen its civil servants and officials.
Mr Kla
Somtrakul, Deputy Cultural Minister, revealed on June 3, 2004 that
the current
campaign
against the distribution of pornographic materials is satisfactory.
Parents, guardians and students alike have begun to look into
this problem caused by pornography, including other resources from
the
Internet.
Another
heart-burdening problem is that there is an inappropriate
display of affection among homosexual youngsters, be it between women
and women, men and men, or gay groups, katoeys, or lesbians regardless
of whether
they are in public places or workplaces, unashamed of the
eyes
of others. Also, there seems to be an increasing number of
these homosexuals,
partly as a result of the media that has become more accepting,
especially soap operas with homosexual cast that may set a negative example
for children.
The deputy
cultural minister was quoted as saying that this
homosexual trend has nowadays become a fashion eventuating
in youngsters form cliques at various schools fighting over their
lovers, the same
pattern of delinquency found among university students.
Female students fight over other females whereas their male counterparts
get into
brawls over other males. In addition, many other prostituting
homosexual groups
negatively affect Thai culture. These behaviors are not
normal and although are considered private rights and do not cause
trouble to
others, they should only be expressed in private places
or personal homes and necking, touching or frottage in public places
such as
Chatuchak park, Lumpini park or Sanam Luang park or even
in educational institutes
should be avoided.
Although
some same-sex groups have quoted the Constitution as granting
them rights, the Cultural Department
cannot
accept it and
would like to stand on the opposite side. Mr Kla continued
saying that the Cultural Department would take a serious stance
on this
campaign
regarding homosexual behaviors. Although the
Department can't arrest homosexuals or levy any legal
punishment on them the
same way as
other pornographic distributors, it encourages the public
to keep the homosexual
pandemic under control and prohibit the media from broadcasting
any homosexual acts by sending a letter to every TV station for
cooperation.
The Cultural
Department itself will be stricter in its recruitment
policy by not allowing people with homosexual behaviors
to work at the department. A stricter recruiting system must
be set
up because
in the past the behaviors of homosexual officials were
not initially obvious and it took some time to know their true
nature. The Cultural
Department should be a role model for the society or else nobody
would listen to it any longer if they themselves cultivate these
people.
Martin
Foreman web site; www.martinforeman.com
July
2004
6
Love, Fantasy, Money and Betrayal-- A Sad and True Report
by Martin
Foreman
I've written about the Little Brother before, but as a bit player.
This time I want to place him at the centre of the column. I
met him last year shortly after I arrived in Thailand. He was
24, from
the North East, good-looking in a wide-eyed innocent way, spending
10 hours a day 6 days a week working in a restaurant. His English
was poor and my Thai was non-existent and with dictionaries in
hand we would struggle to understand each other. We had almost
nothing
in common, but he was quiet and friendly and enjoyed each other's
company. He fell in love with me, and though I was flattered,
I did not reciprocate - in life I want my partner to be my equal
in many
ways that he could never be - but the affection we felt for each
other was strong enough that we began to call each other brother.
Like many other young men in Bangkok, he was desperately poor – earning
6,000 baht (£90 / $150) a month, out of which he had to pay 2,000
baht rent. That left 4,000. Sometimes he would send his parents 1,000
or more baht, leaving him with no more than 100 baht (£1.50
/ $2.50) a day for travel, clothing and of course food. You can
survive
on such a sum in Bangkok, but only on subsistence level; the
luxuries that the rest of us take for granted, such as television
and holidays
are something you will never have.
There are various options of course. Get a skill - but that costs
money and he had already had to give up a vocational course that
he could
not afford. Go back to the province where you grew up and live
with your parents on even life less money. Take up drug-dealing
or crime.
Or prostitution, formally in the go-go bars where customers pay
for an hour or more of your time, or informally hanging around
the parks
or bars in Silom.
Not that it would have mattered if he did. I have no problem
with sex work as long as both partners enter the contract with
eyes
open. It’s
a more honest way of making a living than many others. Unfortunately
some clients and pimps and bar owners exploit the young women and men
who have few other options in life. And of course some young women,
men and transgenders are more interested in taking the money than in
giving the service they advertise. And on both sides of the counter
there are people who confuse sex with emotion. But to sell yourself
you need a certain kind of personality – a brashness, a liking
for sex irrespective of your partner’s attractiveness and a willingness
to flatter or even lie – and the LB had none of these qualities.
It was a lover he wanted, not a bank account.
It took time for me to trust the LB. I’m suspicious by nature
and assume that the people I meet, no matter how honest they appear,
are as likely to lie as tell the truth. And like many Thais, the LB
tends to be secretive and unwilling to talk about himself. But as the
months passed and I got to know him and compared him with others of
his generation, it became clear that he was what he seemed – a
young man from the country with few skills, hoping to improve
himself and not quite knowing how. In the words of my mother
who met him in
February, a gentle, simple soul.
I knew the stories, of course, of wallets left open and becoming
suddenly lighter, of innocent-sounding stories of financial difficulties,
of
strong hints of poverty and "isn't that shirt nice?" I
waited for such events but they never occurred. Instead, I learnt
that if
the LB said he would do something he would do it, if we were
to meet at a certain time, he would always be there, if I gave
him money to
go shopping, he gave me the change and the receipt unasked. I
had friends twice his age who were less reliable. This was someone
I knew I could
trust.
Of course the fact I had more money than he did was part of my
attraction – I
paid for us both in restaurants and cinemas and paid his rent when
he was out of work – but he never asked for money, was
embarrassed when I gave him some, always thanked me when I did
and suggested, when
he knew my bank account was low, that we should stay in rather
than go out, and watch television rather than a film. As for
sex – it stopped at my request when I made it clear that
I was not going to spend my life with him. After that he came over
twice a week; sometimes to cook and sometimes to go out together
to a film or a karaoke bar. As regular readers know, it’s not
my favourite form of activity, but he has a good voice and enjoys
singing
and I can boost my ego by reading the Thai on the screen. At the
end of the evening we collapse into bed. He’s usually asleep
within five minutes while I read the New Yorker or struggle, for
the umpteenth
time, to remember the vocabulary in Thai for Beginners.
It was his 25th birthday at the beginning of April. He went home
and, after the traditional ceremony in his parents’ house, became
a monk – a ritual that only rural Thai men now seem to perform.
He first asked me to be there, then decided that he didn’t want
his family to know he had a farang friend. They would pressure him
to ask me for money – something that he didn’t want to
do. So I wished him well; he returned a month later, half ashamed of
his still short hair, happy and proud of the photos that showed him
shaven-headed, yellow-robed and surrounded by family and neighbours.
To become a monk – something he did more for his parents than
for himself, although he admitted enjoying the experience - he had
had to leave the restaurant. Back in Bangkok he was jobless. I encouraged
him to find part-time work that would give him time to take a course
in some skill, that would improve his earning potential. He tried 7-Eleven,
Tesco Lotus and every range of shop along Rama IV and Sukhumvit Roads,
getting interviews in chains as disparate as opticians and sports clothing.
But there are thousands of jobless young people in the city and nothing
came his way. He began to get downhearted and talked of going home.
In the meantime I had helped him to set up a profile on gaydar
(a dating site, for the uninformed among you). It was ideal for
someone
who could
offer and receive affection but who did not like the bars in Silom
where potential mates could be found. So he went online with pictures
that were pensive and erotic and the messages began to flow. The
first week he received 20 messages, but too shy or uncertain, he
replied
to none. Gradually and with my help – he was mostly online in
my apartment at times when I was glad to push the computer aside – he
learned to respond to those that interested him and click No Thanks
to the rest.
His English is poor and he has little to offer except enthusiasm.
But to some that is an attractive combination and to them he gave
his Hotmail
address. And so correspondence began with half a dozen men. Often
they would proclaim their love and affection, and he – never the first
to initiate such emotion - would reply in kind. I did not see all the
e-mails, but he would sometimes ask my opinion of someone’s face
or their letter. Always sceptical, I was torn between wanting to protect
him and reluctance to malign men that I had never met. I pointed out
those who only wanted sex and tried to be diplomatic about those who
seemed too good – or too naive – to be true. If he asked
me what to write, I would return the question: “what do you think?
do you like him? do you want to meet him?” and leave him to make
his own decision.
He met some men he had corresponded with, but often he canceled
at the last moment. That irritated me, because it was like condemning
people before meeting them, but I accepted it as part of his basically
shy personality. He told me a little about those he did meet, a
USAmerican
and an Austrian and others whose nationality he did not remember,
mostly farang, but also at least one Thai. Some obviously met him
and decided
that there was no spark between them; others were more interested
but in his eyes they were too old or he didn’t quite trust them .
Others wrote from abroad, claiming they would be in Bangkok on
a certain date. One - Barrie from Spain - hearing of his problems
in
finding
work, claimed to send him 1,000 baht (£15); neither I nor the
LB were surprised when the money never arrived. Then there was Kevin
Roberts, a Brit whose e-mails became more and more romantic and who
offered him 30,000 baht (£450 / $750) if the LB would spend a
month as his companion and guide when he came to Thailand for a month.
The LB showed me the letter and asked me if it was true; my first thought
was the man was a fool if having read the LB’s e-mails he thought
he would be a good translator.
I told the LB that Roberts was probably willing to give him 30,000
baht if he fell in love with him, but if they met and did not like
each other, the promise would be worth no more than the cyberspace
it was written on. Or Roberts would spend the month with him and
then find an excuse not to pay. Or, to give him the benefit of
the doubt,
Roberts could have been a lonely individual genuinely looking for
comfort; it would not be the first time that money was offered
for companionship
- until our grandparents' day it was the foundation for most middle-class
marriages. And so the LB wrote back non-committedly. He explained
- several times - that he was afraid they might not like each other.
Roberts reassured him. The LB pointed out that he might not be
free because he was looking for work; several times Roberts mentioned
a
friend called Edward who had a restaurant in Bangkok and who would
try to help him. Not sure what to believe, but excited at the thought
that someone might be coming halfway round the world just to see
him. the LB looked forward to meeting him.
And so on 16th June, carrying a large sign with Roberts' name that
I had made for him, he set off for the airport. At 4.30, 90 minutes
after the plane had landed, he called to say there was no sign
of the man who had wooed him and that he had not answered the Thai
phone
number
he (Roberts) had given him. I was disappointed but not surprised
and suggested he come home soon. If there was a problem and Roberts
was
genuine, he would telephone.
Of course, dear reader, you have guessed that not only did "Kevin
Roberts" not telephone, but he did not even exist. He was not
registered at the hotel where he had said he would stay and the phone
number he had given was answered by a woman who spoke neither English
nor Thai. The LB, depressed at the thought that someone who had said
he had loved him (read the e-mails here) did not exist, did the best
thing in such circumstances: got drunk on two Bacardi Breezers while
watching a DVD, went to bed and fell into a deep sleep. The next day,
he cursed "Roberts" a couple of times then put him out of
his mind.
I, meanwhile, was curious. I sent "Roberts" an e-mail which
was as pompous as I was irritated, demanding an explanation for his
behaviour. The response was less reasoned than emotional, as the following
extract shows (emphasis and colour as in the original, which you can
read here):
"
I have a feeling I know your adoptive brother better than you, he is
a thief 'did you know that'???, he also likes to extract money and
play on the emotions of older men as well, I guess you enabled him
to do that by teaching him the rudiments of Computers when setting
him up with an E mail address, what for?? Well he thought MONEY MONEY
MONEY. £, $, bahts, any currency actually.
" It was his [LB]'s greed that took him to BKK Airport, and nothing else,
Read those E mails again, he is a prostitute, nothing more, nothing
less."
It went on a similar vein (you can read the whole correspondence
by clicking on the link above), and ended (emphasis as in the original): " I loathe the name Kevin, that's why I chose it. I shall doubtless see
him again soon. " One wonders if you are actually deluded???? but only you can seriously
answer that question. " George Fred Mathew Edward David John Peter ?????? = Take your pick."
I assumed that "Roberts" was someone familiar with Thailand
who had been on the receiving end of Thai deception in the past and
who was taking his revenge on a stranger he had met on the internet.
The correspondence continued for a couple of days. I repeated brief
requests for information and received similarly unfocused replies rejoicing
in the hurt that he had caused the LB (the hurt had lasted approximately
24 hours). I gave him the opportunity to apologise and donate 30,000
baht to the Thai Red Cross. I was not surprised to receive what was
becoming a familiar litany, similar to a child thumbing his nose and
going "nyah nyah nyah".
But I am, if nothing else, a fair man, and if someone makes accusations,
no matter how ludicrous, the evidence should be looked at.
First
the suggestion that the LB was only interested in MONEY, MONEY,
MONEY. The reality is that "Roberts" mentioned money
in one e-mail and hinted at other presents a couple of times, but
in the vast majority
of his e-mails, love and affection was the dominant message. And
when the LB told him again and again that he needed to find work. "Roberts" repeatedly
reassured him that this friend Edward would help him. In other
words, the accusation of prostitution was based on the LB responding
to offers
of affection and help.
More than once I asked "Roberts" for his name - I did not
get it - and for facts - I did not get these either. Instead the allegations
got more colourful in every sense of the word: "Why not ask your
adoptive brother to tell you what he does when he enters Internets
cafes, similar to a cat that sits around the House all day and turns
into the veritable Tiger when let out, he preys on farangs, something
you allowed him to do when you set him up with those E mail accounts".
I laughed at that one, the image was so incongruous, as I did when
I was accused of being a "PIMP". ("Roberts" didn't
seem to understand that to be a pimp, I would actually have to receive
money from the LB.)
"
Roberts" had one card that he tried to play - the 1,000 baht from "Barrie" that
never arrived was supposed to be proof of the LB's greed. I doubt the
money was sent, but if it was, it landed, in the hands not of the LB
but of one of the office managers or several hundred tenants who share
his building… Meanwhile, real evidence of the LB's purported
dishonesty and perfidy, like "Roberts"' real name, never
came.
It is theoretically possible that "Roberts" was right. I
do not spend my days following the LB and out of my sight he might,
Clark Kent-like, transform into a "veritable Tiger", but
if he does, he is an actor on a par with the best. And so the LB could
be as rapacious as "Roberts" suggests, but by the same logic,
my elderly mother probably spends her days wandering the streets of
Edinburgh pickpocketing from tourists and my Ex in London finances
a cocaine habit through pornographic videos. Common sense – not
to mention justice – tells me that if I have to choose between
nine months' evidence of my own eyes and ears – or half a dozen
anonymous e-mails from someone who takes delight in hurting strangers,
I know which I believe.
I tried other means of giving "Roberts" the benefit of the
doubt. I shared the correspondence with friends, some of whom know
the LB. Their reactions varied from mild amusement - why should "Roberts" waste
so much time on being petty? - to outrage that someone could be such
a <insert French accent> "bitch". But even they could
be biased – after all, they are my friends. So, dear reader (and
I know from past comments that not all of you will be sympathetic),
I leave it to you to judge. Read the correspondence and you decide
who to praise and who to blame.
I suspect, however, that most of you will react in the same as
I did. We accept that there are some bastards in this world and
on
the internet – Thai
or farang, young or old - and move on. They're one of the inconveniences
in life like a missed plane or stolen phone. Be grateful we don't come
across them too often. And some good came out of it; the LB learned
not to trust people without good reason and I got a column out of the
incident.
Since then, the LB has found himself a part-time job in the same
restaurant chain he worked for before. His gaydar profile is still
there and he
continues to meet people - although he has a habit of asking to
see the passports of those he is suspicious of. After all, he has
nothing
to hide or be ashamed of, and neither do the honest people he meets.
It's only “Roberts”, it seems, who is ashamed of both his
real and fake names.
If you can be bothered, read the "Kevin Roberts" letters
at
http://www.martinforeman.com/opinion4/roberts.htm here.
The
Nation, Bangkok 10260 Thailand
(Fax 66-2-317-2071) ( http://nationmultimedia.com )
http://nationmultimedia.com/page.news.php3?clid=5&id=116628&usrsess=1
July 4,
2004
7
Gay activists form political movement, plan talks with governor
hopefuls
by Thanyaporn Kunakornpaiboonsiri, The Nation
The Homosexual Political Group of Thailand (HPGT), the first
political movement for Thai gays and lesbians, will hold a series of
meetings
with gubernatorial
contenders, asking them to make space for homosexual issues in their campaigns.
The first of these meetings will be tomorrow, with massage-parlour tycoon
Chuwit Kamolvisit, followed by a session with Democratic candidate Apirak
Kosayodhin
on Wednesday.
The HPGT was officially formed last week and includes many homosexual
networks such as the Lesla group, the Rainbow Sky Association
of Thailand, the Sapaan
group, Bangkok Rainbow and the Bangkok Gay Festival. The movement aims
to improve homosexual rights in society and develop into a
voice for homosexuals
in the
political arena.
After Natee Teerarojjanapongs announced his entry into the Senate
race, many homosexual organisations banded together to support and further
the
gay,
lesbian, bisexual and transvestite political movement.
"This is not a political party. We are first of all creating a solid voting
base," said Munthana Adisayathepkul, founder of the lesbian Lesla group
and a key member of HPGT. She added that the Bangkok gubernatorial election
would be the first test of HPGT's influence. "I believe we could count on 300,000 votes nationwide under our network," said
Munthana. She added that the movement's political objectives included normalising
the status of homosexuals by distributing factual information about the community
to society.
"If we have our people in any political positions, they can be our spokespersons
and give expert and accurate information to the media and the public," said
Munthana.
Natee said he wanted gubernatorial candidates to add homosexual issues to
their policy platforms. He said he accepted that not every candidate would
have
comprehensive knowledge of gays and lesbians and that the public received
a negative image
of homosexuals from the media.
"We should take this chance to inform them," said Natee. The Senate
hopeful wants Bangkok's next governor to put homosexual representatives on
governor-appointed teams, particularly those that deal with homosexual-related
issues. He also wants
the incoming governor to set up a library that will educate the public on
gay, lesbian, bisexual and transvestite topics. Chantalak Raksayoo of the Sapaan Group said the new homosexual political
movement was not just about fielding homosexual candidates in elections but
also supporting
candidates and political parties with homosexual-friendly policies. She
admitted that the ultimate political goal of the HPGT was legal marriage
certificates
for homosexual couples.
"But that's really a long-term objective, because there are a lot of Acts
that still discriminate against the fundamental rights of homosexual people," she
said. Kamolset Kanggerprar, secretary-general of the Rainbow Sky Association of
Thailand, said that given the widespread public misapprehension he would
support any
candidate who understood homosexual people.
Pakorn Pimton, president and organiser of the Bangkok Gay Festival, wants
to see a Gay Association of Thailand set up that will give the public information
about homosexuals and HIV/Aids protection. He also wants gay studies added
to school curricula.
But first he wants the next Bangkok governor to cooperate with the next
Bangkok Gay Festival.
"The Bangkok Gay Festival is one of the world's three best gay festivals,
but it's never received any recognition from either the authorities or the Tourist
Authority of Thailand, even though it generates huge income and draws many tourists
every year," said Pakorn.
The Associated
Press
July 16, 2004
8
World AIDS Meet Ends With Dire Warnings on
Humanity's Worst Pandemic
by Emma Ross
Bangkok - Nelson Mandela said he ``cannot rest'' until the world
turns the tide against the HIV pandemic, as delegates concluded
the biggest-ever AIDS
conference Friday, highlighting the soaring infections among women and warning
of explosive epidemics in Asia.
Much of the six-day conference on humanity's worst pandemic focused on the
politics of getting more life-saving anti-retroviral medicine to the millions
of HIV-infected people who need it in the developing world, especially in
Africa.
The United States _ the most generous donor nation on AIDS _ came under intense
criticism at the 15th International AIDS Conference for its drug-funding
policy and for tying much of its money to programs that emphasize abstinence
over
the trusted HIV-blocking method of using condoms.
Democracy icon Mandela joined UN Secretary General Kofi Annan in delivering
vigorous calls for more donations to UN efforts to fight the disease. Software
magnate Bill Gates's foundation and the European Union announced new grants
totalling $102 million US ($135 million Cdn).
Mandela, who turns 86 on Sunday, took the podium of the Friday's
closing ceremony to the ululation of women in the audience, and asked the world to:
``allow
me to enjoy my retirement by showing that you can rise to the challenge.''
``I cannot rest until I am certain that the global response is sufficient
to turn the tide of the epidemic,'' Mandela said.
``History will surely judge us harshly if we do not respond with all the
energy and resources that we can bring to bear in the fight against HIV/AIDS,''
the
former South African president said.
This year's conference, drawing nearly 20,000 scientists, policy-makers,
HIV-infected people and their advocates, not only boosted awareness of HIV
but raised the
accountability of world leaders, said Mechai Viravaidya, the most prominent
AIDS campaigner in host country Thailand.
``The message is clear: Leaders watch out. We are going to come after you.
The media and the people who are involved are going to say, `What's your
commitment?''' Mechai said. ``How can you afford to let your people become
sick and die in
larger numbers than by so-called enemies in wars?''
The most-anticipated breakthrough on AIDS _ a vaccine _ remained elusive. Experts called for urgent work and more funding on alternatives for prevention
in the
interim, including HIV-killing gels to protect women who lack the power to
insist their sex partners use condoms.
``Gender inequality is driving new infections among women and girls like
never before,'' Irene Khan, secretary general of Amnesty International, told
the
last plenary session of the conference. An estimated 38 million people are infected with HIV, 25 million of them
in sub-Saharan Africa. Experts say nearly half of all people with
HIV now are
women, and their infection rates in many regions are climbing much faster
than men's. In the Caribbean, for example, 70 per cent of new infections
are in
women.
In Asia, 7.2 million people are infected, and epidemiologists at the conference
warned that much of the region faces a critical watershed with infections
spreading from injecting drug users to sex workers. Prostitution is considered the main engine of spread for Asia, many experts
said, warning that epidemics could explode unless condom use is boosted.
"Now, hopefully, the painful lessons that we have learned will put us in
better stead for the Asian experience,'' said Dr. Anthony Fauci, director
of U.S.
National Institute for Allergy and Infectious Diseases.
Since the last AIDS conference in Barcelona, Spain, in 2002, the
number of people being treated for the disease has doubled in the developing
world
to 440,000. In that same time span, six million people died from the virus
and
10 million more became infected, WHO figures show.
The next conference is to be held in Toronto in 2006.
Only about seven per cent of the six million people in poor countries who
urgently need anti-retroviral treatment are getting it, and there has been
no overall
improvement in the proportion of people getting treatment and prevention
versus the total number infected, the United Nations says.
"We are all going to walk away from this meeting knowing that we have a
long way to go with regard to access, because the countries that have the
greatest
need still have the least access,'' Fauci said. U.S. President George W. Bush
in 2002 launched a $15 billion US AIDS-fighting plan, mainly directed toward
14 countries in Africa and the Caribbean, plus
Vietnam. Critics say the United States should instead give much of that money
to the UN-sponsored Global Fund, which reaches out to 128 countries.
The U.S. money comes with strings attached _ one-third of the money earmarked
for prevention goes to abstinence-first programs. Also, the money
can currently only buy brand name drugs, made by companies in rich countries, shutting
out cheaper generic medicines from countries such as India, Brazil and Thailand.
Global Fund money can go toward generic drugs.
Activists launched daily protests against U.S. President George W. Bush's
stance on AIDS, shouting slogans such as "Bush lies. Condoms save lives.''
Agence
France-Presse,
http://www.todayonline.com/articles/23220.asp
30 July
2004
9
Thai group launches <absurd> bid to stop
Singapore from snatching its pink dollars
Bangkok– Thailand's gay community has launched a political lobby
group to try and stop the kingdom's title as Asia's pink tourism capital being
snatched by Singapore. Thailand boasts Asia's largest annual Mardi-Gras
festival, as well as the most vibrant and open gay club scene and annual gay
beauty pageant.
However, wedged between conservative Malaysia and Indonesia, Singapore has
been forging a reputation as the new Asian hot spot for gay holiday-makers.
The island state has experienced a boom in gay clubs following a change in
attitude towards the pink dollar in the late 1990s.
Ms Munthana Adisayathepkul, the head of Thailand's leading lesbian group and
a key member of the Homosexual Political Group of Thailand (HPGT), said Singapore
had become a dangerous competitor to Thailand. "Singapore is
trying to make itself the centre of gays and lesbians in Asia … and we
are trying to get the government to support us fight this shift," she
said.
Prominent Thai gay activist, Mr Natee Teerarojjanapongs – the first openly
gay Thai to run for a senate seat – said government support would be
crucial if Thailand is to remain as Asia's key holiday destination for homosexuals.
"If we want to be a gay paradise, the government has to support gay groups
as it will draw a lot of tourists and income to the country," he said. Mr
Natee also said it is the kingdom's fundamental atmosphere of tolerance,
not just mega-events, which still sets it apart from other Asian destinations. "Even
though they (Singapore) have strong laws they want to trade on the success that
comes with staging a famous gay parade," he said.
The bars and cafes in Bangkok's bustling and neon-lit gay entertainment area
are packed with tourists enjoying the city's unbridled gay night life, but
operators say they are far from complacent."It is possible that Singapore
will be the next gay capital as it is more open to gays," said
Mr Panuwat Jaykong, the manager of Telephone, one of Bangkok's best known bars.
"The number of Singaporean and Hong Kong visitors has fallen by 20 to 30
per cent over the past few months after the Thai government said it did not support
gays' activities," he said.
A spokesman for Asia's largest and oldest gay holiday firm, Utopia Tours, also
said it was the lack of government support rather than the allure of Singapore
that is the main threat to the industry. But the head of Bangkok's gay festival,
Mr Pakorn Pimton, rejected the need for official support. "They do not
have to support us – just don't ban us," he said. "Singapore
as Asia's gay capital? Forget it. Their parade and other activities are still
far behind Thailand," he said.
http://www.martinforeman.com/world/chiang.html
October
2004
10
Sex:
Younger and More often in Thailand
by
Martin Foreman
Chiang
Rai, Thailand: Way up at the northern tip of Thailand, where it leans
against Laos
and Burma and where you can follow the Mekong
a few miles upstream into China, lies the rural province of
Chiang Rai. Narrow roads wind over rolling green hills where only a few years
ago opium was the primary cash crop. Most of the harvest has moved
over the border into Burma but here and there relics remain, like the
expensive houses scattered amongst villages, faded posters from the
Thai government’s War on Drugs and the Opium Museum in the town
of Sop Ruak, which both honours and denigrates the world’s most
famous drug.
Chiang Rai is one of the six provinces that comprise Upper
Northern Thailand. Two hundred kilometres to the south lies Chiang Mai, for
centuries the capital of the kingdom of Lan Na (“A Million Ricefields”)
which was only fully integrated into Thailand in the last century.
To the foreigner’s eye, the differences between the Upper
North and the rest of Thailand are minimal, but to the native they
are keenly
felt, from local traditions to local dialect, local artisanship to
local diet. And do not forget the few thousand members of hill-tribes,
frequently denied Thai citizenship, who survive at subsistence level
or as marionettes for tourists to buy souvenirs from and photograph.
One difference between Lan Na and the rest of country – a difference
that may be impression as much as hard fact – is a more
relaxed attitude towards sex. Statistics are not available but there is enough
anecdotal evidence to suggest that in the Upper North in the mid twentieth
century sex between unmarried couples was no great shame and
sex between two young men was a more or less acceptable, if seldom discussed, pastime.
Such sex appears to have been integrated into daily life; with gay
bars and venues non-existent, men would meet and establish friendships
and partnerships in parks, in friends' homes, in schools and in the
streets.
But where sex is concerned, life is never simple and for women there
was a darker side to this frivolity. In the dirt-poor villages and
paddy-fields a daughter could be as much a hindrance as a help. When
brothel-owners from Bangkok offered parents substantial – in
their eyes – sums of money if their daughter came and worked
for them, many parents could not refuse. And while some went willingly,
others, some as young as twelve, were sold as slaves whose
virginity was highly prized, and who, once that virginity was taken, could then
be forced to serve several men a day.
Despite protests by women’s rights groups and others, the situation
was slow to change. In 1984 a fire in a Bangkok brothel claimed the
lives of several young women who were chained to their beds, and by
the end of that decade it was clear that sex work was a major conduit
for HIV. These issues fuelled hard-hitting campaigns against child
prostitution, trafficking and AIDS, altering the face of female sex
work in Thailand. Today there are fewer brothels, few, if any, women
who have been sold into the sex trade and far fewer children abused.
Meanwhile, research began into male behaviour. One of the focuses was
the army, which began to survey its recruits' sexual lives. All Thai
men are eligible to be drafted, but most of those who end up in uniform
are from the poorer and less educated sectors of society - including
the Upper North. Although results varied, it appeared that in that
part of Thailand at least one in ten soldiers in their early twenties
had had sex with another man.
High rates of HIV infection (between six and twenty-seven percent)
were also revealed, both among soldiers who had had sex with men and
among male sex workers in Chiang Mai. Unfortunately, this information
did not catalyse widespread information campaigns for men who have
sex with men in the region – or anywhere else in Thailand - and
even today little information on HIV/AIDS is targeted at gay men.
But not only army recruits had experience. A 1999 survey of over 1,700
students between the ages of 15 and 21 in Chiang Rai showed that nine
percent of the young men and eleven percent of the young women identified
themselves as homo- or bisexual. It also confirmed that homo- / bisexual
youths tended to have had more partners than their heterosexual counterparts
- partners who were mostly of a similar age to themselves. Furthermore,
there appeared to be much less pressure on them to "perform" with
women than with the previous generation, for whom a girlfriend or a
visit to a brothel was almost an imperative rite of passage.
These figures suggest that young men are becoming sexually active earlier. Meanwhile, anecdotal evidence suggests other change. Thirty years ago
in Chiang Mai, a friend tells me, young heterosexual men went to public
parks to have sex with men because their girlfriends were virgins and
they could not afford to pay a woman. Today, at least one in
every two Thai girls under twenty has sexual experience, which would suggest
that fewer young heterosexual men would seek sex with men. Nevertheless
some still head for the parks, not from physical need but to
make money for such "necessities" as a mobile phone or to
pay off gambling debts.
The Chiang Rai survey also reveals that one in four homo- / bisexual
youths had been subject at least once to sexual coercion - and
of these almost forty percent had been raped. Compared to their
heterosexual
counterparts, twice as many reported occasionally feeling lonely
and a smaller percentage considered they had someone in their
family they
could talk to. But on other issues there was little difference
between
the two, suggesting that most young gay men in the far
north of Thailand are at ease with themselves and their lives.
But if sexual mores in the Upper North really were once more relaxed
than in the rest of Thailand, that no longer seems to be a case.
Recent surveys show that in many parts of the country the age of
first sex
among teenagers of both sexes is continuing to fall. There are reports
of partner-swapping and voluntary prostitution by girls as well as
boys and Thai gay internet sites are buzzing with the photos and
words of teenagers advertising themselves and seeking partners and
attention.
The libertarian in me accepts these changes, but the educator is
more cautious. With little awareness of the risks of infection
and pregnancy,
not to mention the emotional maturity to deal with the consequences
of raging hormones, sexually active teenagers in Thailand and elsewhere
may be risking too much too early in their lives.
In a survey
last year of Bangkok men who are sexually active with other men,
seventeen
percent were HIV-positive - and the highest
rates of infection were among 18 to 22 year olds. Experimentation is inevitable, but
unless the physical and psychological implications of sex are fully
understood, the best balance between freedom and restraint, between
knowledge and innocence, between joy and regret, is unlikely to be
found.
Martin
Foreman is a Bangkok-based writer of fact, fiction and opinion. He
tries not to get the three confused. He can be contacted at: martin@martinforeman.com
365Gay.com
December
28, 2004 11
Phuket,
popular with gay tourists from Australia, North America and Europe,
struck by a tidal wave
Bangkok - The death toll could reach upwards of 200,000
in the aftermath of a massive tidal wave that swept across southeastern
Asia (December 26) triggered by the biggest earthquake to hit the
planet in more than 40 years.
The quake, which measured 9.0, was centered off the coast of Indonesia's
Sumatra island. The tsunamis which followed swept across the region
striking Sri Lanka, India and Thailand.
The Thai resort island of Phuket, popular with gay tourists from
Australia, North America and Europe, was struck by a tidal wave taller
than some
skyscrapers.
The unofficial death toll has been placed at more than a thousand but
could go much higher.
Area
hospitals
report that many hundreds people were injured.
Phuket Island is called the pearl of Southern Thailand with its sun
drenched beaches. This is the height of the tourist season and hotels
and gay guest houses were filled.
The dead and injured include gay Australians, Americans, Canadians,
and several Europeans although their home countries have not been
disclosed by police.
Phuket Gazette reporter Woody Leonard said that as the beach was
crowded when the giant wave struck without warning.
"
People were running from the beach as fast as they could. The beach
is devastated … There were a lot of people on the beach, [and
they were] swept away by the wave,” he reported.
Buildings along the beach were toppled and swept into the sea. The
damage extended well inland, and officials expect to recover more
bodies as the rubble is cleared away.
The airport has reopened, but only to give emergency workers access
to the island. Tourism to the region has been cancelled. Anyone holding
reservations to visit Phuket is advised to contact their travel agency.
Advocate.com
http://www.advocate.com/new_news.asp?ID=14721&sd=01/04/05
January
4, 2005
12
Thailand's
gayest resort--Patong Beach--not so gay this New Year's
A
candle-lit ceremony to mourn the dead marked the beginning of a somber new year on the Thai island
of Phuket, reports BBC News.
Emotions
were raw, many were in tears.
One Thai woman cried: "I want to say to all the country, we
are so sorry, for we cannot control this thing." It was
all in marked contrast to the usual scenes here at this time
of year,
where gay revelers from around the would normally pack Phuket's
Patong Beach, dubbed by many as the gayest resort area in Asia.
But it is hard to celebrate when you're surrounded by the death
and destruction wrought by the Indian Ocean tsunami. Although
most Thais would save their celebrations for Chinese New Year
in February,
December 31 is usually a fairly riotous evening in Phuket.
But
this year the government has canceled all official celebrations,
and many hotels and bars are using their parties to raise
funds for relief efforts. More than 5,100 people are reported
dead
in Phuket, nearly half of them foreign tourists, and nearly
3,800 are still missing.
New
York Times
http://www.nytimes.com/2005/01/02/international/worldspecial4/02cnd-thai.html?ex=1105708101&ei=1&en=4b6974ced1a96931
13
In
Land Built for Tourists, Only Thais Are Left (background
story)
January
2, 2005
by
Seth Mydans
Nam Khem, Thailand, Jan. 1 - This
empty door frame, standing alone without a wall, is where
her sister struggled for her life against the rising water
before she drowned. This pile of broken masonry is where
her 13-year-old son held his grandmother afloat until her
eyes grew as round as a foreigner's and she died.
This
jumble of debris is where Chanjira Sangkarak herself ran,
stumbling, from the house until the wave dragged her, shaking
her like a beast would its prey, down to the ocean floor.
When she bobbed to the surface, she found herself embracing
a board filled with nails, and soon a blue plastic tray
emerged beside her. She clung to them for the next 10 hours,
she said, watching her neighbors sink below the surface
one after another, until she reached the shore.
Hundreds
of foreigners died here in southern Thailand when giant
waves crashed ashore a week ago, along with thousands of
Thais. The difference for the survivors is that the foreigners
have mostly departed to recover in the clean sheets and
fresh air of their home countries.
Many
Thais, like Ms. Chanjira, have no homes left to return
to; only piles of wreckage that are, for many of them,
the graves of their relatives. Along more than
10 miles of beachfront here on the coast of the Andaman
Sea, huge resort hotels stand in ruins, their rooms and
patios and spas and cabanas shattered and empty. This
little fishing village is shattered, too, with only a
few broken buildings still standing, but it is not empty.
Dazed
residents like Ms. Chanjira sit in the rubble, breathing
in a stench of mold and putrefaction, waiting, without
real hope, for the bodies of lost relatives to emerge.
Here and there, under piles of cement and tin roofing and
coagulated clothing, the smell grows stronger, like a marker
on a map suggesting the location of a buried father or
sister or child. On Saturday, workers set up giant pumps
and began to drain foul water from a mine shaft behind
Ms. Chanjira's house. In another village not far away,
several cars and a tour bus had already been recovered
from a mine shaft, along with dozens of bodies.
"That
pile of debris over there, that's where my house was," said
Samphan Thongsamak, 74, a bill collector for an electric
company. His mobile telephone began playing the Macarena,
but he ignored it. "I go and dig around every day.
I have nothing else to do." In the town center of
nearby Khao Lac, tents and a feeding center have been set
up for displaced people. Aid has flowed in from private
groups around the country but there seems to be little
coordination or long-term planning for recovery. There
is no body count here in Nam Khem, which was home to about
6,000 permanent residents. Thawip Sayhui, 47, a fish farmer
whose wife was caught by the wave as she tried to flee
in a pickup truck, estimated that as many as half the population
had been lost, like her.
For
the past week, volunteers have been carting away bodies
without keeping records and residents have trekked from
temple to temple, peering into grotesque and swollen faces
in the hope of recognizing a relative. Ms. Chanjira, 39,
a fish trader whose husband is a fisherman, found her mother's
body and joined an assembly line of fast-forward Buddhist
rituals and round-the-clock cremations that sent almost
constant towers of black smoke into the sky here. Three
other relatives are still missing, although her husband
and children survived. Just down the road from her house
is the scrap heap that once was the home of Pichit Sittisangwanthai,
45, who made his living serving foreign tourists. He almost
died along with them, as many Thai hotel workers did.
Mr.
Pichit was a masseur, and on the day of the disaster he
was as usual on the beach with the sunbathers. When he
saw the tide receding, leaving fish flapping on the seabed,
he knew what was about to happen. "Big wave!" he
shouted in English as he ran down the beach, waving his
arms in the air, "Oh, big wave!" "I kept
running and shouting to the foreigners," he said, "but
I think they didn't believe me. They went closer to the
water to look." He seized two small blond children
and ran up a hillside; their family followed him. And then
the wave came rolling up the beach in a rising spiral and
everybody ran. "It was every man for himself," Mr.
Pichit said. "Some 10-wheel trucks just raced up the
hill, knocking down people and motorbikes.
Some
people escaped the water but then were knocked down by
the trucks." By this time, Ms. Chanjira was in the
grip of the waves, gulping oily seawater and paddling hard
to avoid the logs and boats and debris that were colliding
around her.
" I thought I was dead," she said. "I
tried to send telepathic messages to my brother and relatives,
'Come and save me,' but apparently that didn't work. "I
cursed the higher powers. 'I've done so many things to
help people in my life and now nobody is helping me,' " she
said, "and right at that moment the blue plastic tray
floated up.
It
was probably sent to me." At last the waves that had
seized her tossed her back onto land and she crawled up
the beach. It was dark and the landscape was littered with
debris and bodies. The air was thick with the smell of
death. Usually, Ms. Chanjira said, she is afraid of ghosts. "But
now I wasn't afraid," she said. "I wasn't afraid
of ghosts and I wasn't afraid of the dead because I was
dead already, too, and I had survived." In the darkness
a friend from town pulled up in a car and offered her a
ride. "Wait here and I'll come right back for you," said
the friend. Ms. Chanjira lay down on the ground, placed
her head on her blue plastic tray and fell asleep.
Photos
at: http://www.beachpatong.com/
3 January 2005
14
No risk to visit Phuket or Patong--Beaches cleared after three days
Thailand is one of many countries affected by the Tsunami
natural disaster. In the morning hours of 26 December
2004 Patong was hit. What we went through was horrible
but far
less than what happened in Indonesia, Sri Lanka or even
the disaster in Kao-Lak, Thailand.
There is no risk to visit Phuket or Patong.
The beach here was cleared after 3 days. The beach road
is open for traffic and 80% of the bars on Bangla Road
Bars
are now open again. The pictures you see in the media
is not what you see in reality here.
Please observe that only the beach road area was damaged
by the tsunami. The Paradise Complex area has never been
in any danger. The flood of water did reach up to the
Rath-U-Thit road but the flood was totally gone after
a couple of hours.
There is no risk of epidemic. The Infrasturcture did
not fail. We have electricity, water, food, clothes.
Phones and
Internet have been working all the time.
Connect Guesthouse is fully functional and we can receive
new reservation by Internet on-line at www.beachpatong.com/connect or by email to connect@beachpatong.com or fax +66-76-340957
or by phone +66-76-294195.
How can we help
We get many questions about how to help people in the
Patong area: If you want to help us in Patong, do not
cancel your
trip to Patong, instead book a flight to come here and
visit us.
Money you spend locally is a real form of aid to recovery.
Yes we have had a nature disaster here but survivors
need to work and we can still give you a very pleasant
holiday
in Patong.
Welcome to Phuket, still one of the best tourist destinations
in the world. Life is getting back to normal very quickly
again.
Please do not cancel your tour to Patong. Now more than
ever we need your support and you will feel more welcome
than ever
before.
Our hearts and minds are with those who have lost their
lives and we send our condolences to their familys and
friends.
Bangkok
Post (Hermes,
Bangkok Post)
January
4, 2005 15
Profiles:
Group Providing Services for Male Commercial Sex Workers
The
Bangkok Post on Tuesday profiled Swing, a not-for-profit
group that provides services -- including
education about condom use -- to male commercial sex
workers in Bangkok.
Thailand.
Swing, which receives most of its
funding from Family Health International, is the
first organization to focus on Thailand's approximately
4,000
male commercial sex workers, according to Surang
Janyam, the group's director, the Post reports. At its
office
in Bangkok's "infamous" Patpong district, Swing
offers English classes, Internet access and places
to nap and shower, and soon the group also will provide
exercise
equipment and medical assistance.
Although
Thai society has become "more tolerant" of female commercial
sex workers, it is "less accepting" of male
commercial sex workers, according to the Post. "People
look down on them because they think they are lazy,
that they are
terrible people," Surang said.
Male
commercial sex workers also have experienced stigma in
doctor's
offices
and sometimes avoid being treated for sexually
transmitted diseases if a doctor or nurse makes them feel
uncomfortable,
according to the Post. Swing has begun establishing
relationships with doctors in order to make "appropriate
referrals" for
its clients, and the group hopes to have its
own in-house physician this year, according to
the Post
365Gay.com, http://www.365gay.com/
March 15, 2005
16
Thai
Gay Resort Recovers From Tsunami Disaster--Phuket
Gay Festival scheduled
by Peter Hacker 365Gay.com Asia Bureau Chief
Phuket, Thailand - Walking along the famed Patong Beach on
Thailand's Phuket Island you might never know that only
a few months earlier it had been hit by one of the worst
tidal waves in history.
The beach umbrellas are up. The lounge chairs are all in
a line. And, the tourists have returned. Now the resort is turning its attention to gay pride.
The annual Phuket Gay Festival was postponed in the aftermath
of the killer tsunami. It's now scheduled for April 7 - 10. The festival, which has gained an international reputation
in just six years, will feature street parties with performances
from the local clubs mixed with information about gay health
and HIV prevention.
There will also be the hugely popular gay volleyball tournament on the beach
and a Gay day trip to Kai Island for everyone up for a day of fun in the sun.
The Grand Finale will be the Big Parade which will start on Sunday at with
a variety of floats. That Phuket has gotten back on its feet so quickly after the disaster is a
tribute to Thai ingenuity. The government quickly organized volunteer workers
from throughout the country in a massive cleanup campaign.
Of all the countries affected by the December 16 tsunami Thailand has been
the quickest to recover. Nearly 300,000 people died when the giant tidal wave swept over the region.
Most the deaths were in Sri Lanka, India, and Indonesia.
At least 40 members of the Sri Lankan gay organization Companions on a Journey
were killed.
Recently officials in Singapore blamed gay pride for an increase in HIV, but
in Thailand the health authorities work with the gay community to promote HIV
prevention.
Web: Phuket Gay Festival
Delayed Thai Pride event unveiled
15
March, 2005
by Ben Townley, Gay.com UK
Details of Thailand's largest Gay Pride event have finally
been unveiled, after organisers made the decision to delay
the celebrations in light of last year's tsunami disaster.
The event will now take place from the 7th-10th April 2005, with a more muted
approach to festivities expected. More than 300,000 people are thought to have died in the Boxing Day disaster,
with countries across South East Asia and east Africa being deluged by tidal
waves. Thailand was one of the worst hit, with a large section of its coastal region
decimated and thousands killed and swept out to sea.
Organisers say they are now ready to host the event, and are encouraging overseas
visitors to return. Specifically, they are looking to welcome Singapore's gay community, which
was accused of spreading HIV through Pride events by the country's government
last week. A spokesperson said that organisers of the festival and leaders of
the gay community work closely with local hospitals and health care providers
in a
bid to stamp out HIV.
"Here in Thailand the health authorities work together with the gay community,
assured that the best HIV prevention is through information and cooperation," a
spokesperson said. "The gay pride committee hope to see many people from Singapore
this year as the gay pride there has run in to trouble with the local authorities
claiming
that this kind of festivities spreads HIV."
Other events at the festival will include a parade and sporting tournaments.
In January this year, the festival's chair was keen to invite visitors back
to the country, a firm favourite of lesbian and gay tourists, despite the disaster. "The best thing that people who care about Phuket and Patong could do, is
continue to come here," Khun Daeng said. "Don't change your plans."
"The festival organisers acknowledged that there will be a different feeling
for the 2005 event, and want to make it a festival of renewal and remembrance
for Phuket, with all areas of the Phuket communities invited and welcome to participate," organisers
said in a statement at the time. "The festival has always had a large crossover audience, not just gays,
and this year want to make it even more welcoming and positive in this respect.
New
York Times
http://travel2.nytimes.com/2005/04/24/travel/24srilanka.html
April 24, 2005
17
After the Tsunami, Rebuilding Paradise--Nearly four months after giant waves swept more than 5,300 people to their deaths along the country's southern coast, the island of Phuket - the crown jewel of Thailand's beach resorts - has patched and pasted itself together
by Seth Mydans
Every morning as the sky brightens over the Andaman Sea, workers in Phuket,
Thailand, set out perfect lines of white plastic lounge chairs along
the soft sand, punctuated by furled umbrellas ready to be opened as the sun
begins to burn. Vendors arrive with their ice-cold water, coconuts and soft
drinks. Masseuses spread their straw mats under the palm trees. Jet Ski operators
gather by their polished machines.
The peanut sellers, the manicurists, the boy with his book of temporary tattoos
and the man who balances a basket of fruit on his head all take their usual
places along the beach. And then, to the soft caress of the surf, they wait.
As the day grows hot enough for mad dogs and Western beachgoers, a few vacationers
arrive, by ones, by twos, taking their places here and there along the empty
rows of lounge chairs and unopened umbrellas.
Nearly four months after giant waves swept more than 5,300 people to their
deaths along the country's southern coast, the island of Phuket - the crown
jewel of Thailand's beach resorts - has patched and pasted itself together.
An aftershock on March 28 caused a brief scare among those who felt it, but
hotels, restaurants, businesses and cruise operators say it has had virtually
no long-term impact on bookings and arrivals.
Nevertheless, seismologists say the fault line that caused the original earthquake
is still active and it is impossible to predict whether and when further shocks
might follow or whether they might cause tsunami waves. Along the main shopping streets, a few workers still hammer and drill, and
some vendors hang their wares in front of damaged shops. But Phuket
today is almost as good as new.
"It's 99 percent operational now," Simon J. Hand, a Phuket resident
who is associate editor of Asia-Pacific Tropical Homes magazine, said in late
March. "At its worst, it was 90 percent operational. Patong Beach is the
main tourist trap, and the wave hit everything along the shorefront road. But
150 yards farther up, even the next day, you wouldn't have known anything happened."
All that is missing now, people on Phuket say, is the tourists. Hotels that had been booked to capacity for January were able to fill just
7 to 10 percent of their rooms, Suwalai Pinpradub, director of the Tourism
Authority of Thailand in Phuket, said in a telephone interview. Before the
tsunami, she said, about 300,000 tourists visited Phuket each month, both from
within Thailand and abroad.
International arrivals at the Phuket airport fell to 13,042 in January from
111,609 in January 2004, immigration figures show. The numbers rose in February,
to 37,813, still far below the 114,903 in 2004. The tsunami destroyed about 40 percent of the 53,000 hotel rooms in
six southern provinces, according to the Tourism Authority. The authority
cut its forecast for visitors to Thailand this year to 12 million from 13.5
million, a major blow considering that tourism produces about 6 percent of
the country's gross domestic product.
Like Bali in Indonesia, Phuket is a tropical island that once relied on farming
and fishing but now has one main industry - tourism. And like Bali after the
devastating terrorist bombing in October 2002, Phuket has discovered how fragile
an economy tourism can be. But it is a self-renewing one, with an endless potential
supply of visitors, just as the sea is still filled with grouper, squid and
shrimp for the fishermen who lost their boats to the waves.
The number of international arrivals has begun to rebound, reaching
33,855 in the first three weeks of March even as the peak season began
to wane. For all of March 2004, there were 82,028 international arrivals. Hotel
occupancy in Phuket has grown to about 40 percent, at a time when occupancy
is usually 70 to 80 percent.
For some people, this is the time to visit. The beaches and the water are cleaner
than they have been in years and the beach road in Patong is no longer one
unending traffic jam. "It's better," Enzo Sare said as he relaxed on the beach. A retired
army captain on his eighth visit from Italy with his family, he added: "Yes,
I am an egoist. Less traffic, fewer people; very nice. Of course, it's a disaster
for the people working on the beach."
Misconceptions are keeping visitors away now, both local people and visitors
say. They blame television reports that show the utter devastation of places
like Aceh in Indonesia while giving voice reports about Phuket. "People say: 'How can you go to Thailand? It's dangerous,' " said Louis
Bronner, general manager of Mom Tri's Boathouse hotel. "Weeks after the
tsunami they still think there are bodies floating, fish contaminated, don't
drink the water, you can get cholera, typhoid, crazy things like this."
Even in Bangkok, about 500 miles to the north, hotel Web sites
carry tsunami updates that state what should be obvious: "The
Bangkok region has not been affected."
Indeed, most of Phuket was far less devastated than the newly opened coastal
resorts of Khao Lak about 40 miles to the north, where the Tourism Authority
says 80 percent of the structures were destroyed. Almost none of them
are operating now. Huge resort complexes, some of them still under construction
when the waves hit, are vast dirt lots, their vegetation scraped away, their
buildings in ruins, many of their workers and guests swept out to sea.
In Phuket, though, as construction crews continue their work, most hotels are
open, or are soon to reopen. Restaurants andbars have been cleaned and remodeled.
Tour operators sit ready beside signboards showing beaches and islands that
are, for the moment, as pristine and secluded as their photographs.
Shops are restocked with everything from sarongs to souvenirs
to sun block. Entrepreneurs have produced commemorative T-shirts, like one
that offers a reminder of the shocks tourism has survived there in recent years: "Patong Beach, Phuket, Thailand," reads the T-shirt, which comes in orange, red, black, white or purple. "2001
Bomb Alert, 2002 SARS, 2003 Bird Flu, 2004 Tsunami. What's Next?"
When the tsunami struck Thailand's Andaman coastline on Dec. 26, the tourist
season was at its peak and hotels were full. Then came what some people call
the second tsunami - the devastation of the livelihoods of the people who live
here. "No tourists, no work, no money, big problem," said a guide, Jakrin
Samakkee. Not Arunsi Kongon, a masseuse, nor Akani Jigaksorn, a tattoo tout, nor Chari
Promden, who ushers people to beach chairs, had had a customer during one recent
week. Curbsides were lined with motorcycles for rent. The bright red minivan
taxis that once choked the beachfront road were parked and idle.
When a young man came to buy a bottle of water from Urai Chaiyen, who has sold
drinks there for 20 years, she did not have enough money to change a 1,000-baht
note, about $25. As occupancy has dropped, some hotels are giving their employees only three
weeks' pay for a month's work. Others have sent their workers out to troll
the beaches with fliers offering deep cuts in rates.
Even without customers, many of the beach workers come here because, as a
lifeguard, Somkid Koernoon, said, "It is our second home."
The harsh truth, though, is that even in the best of scenarios, they will not
start earning real money until the next peak season, more than six months from
now.
The hardships of the Thai people seemed to be on the minds of visitors who
sat in the lounge chairs along the beach.
"That's the reason we came now," said Gordon Brind, 51, who was there
in late March on vacation with his family from Britain. "We were here
last year and we decided to come again after the tsunami. Everyone was donating
in
the U.K. to tsunami funds, and in other countries, too, I'm sure. But
the main
part of it, really, is that they must have work to live." Pierre Alain, 46, on a visit from Switzerland, said: "I think one must
come, because tourism is one of the first resources of Thailand. One must
come to help. It's fine here. It's normal. It's magnificent."
Bill Harrison, 61, a relief worker who has spent many months here and knows
Phuket well, suggested that one reason to visit is to witness history. "I'm not sure what to emphasize," he said, "to
persuade people to come: because the people here need it, or come because
it's great, or come
as a traveler, not a tourist."
He said a visitor now has the opportunity "to watch an event in history,
watching how a place picks itself up and gets started over again, and you're
part of it, too, because these people need the income." Some potential visitors held back, particularly in the early days, out of a
sense that it would be unseemly to splash in the surf in a place of death and
mourning.
"You do think about that," Mr. Brind said, as he sat in the shade of
one of the few unfurled umbrellas along Patong Beach. "It's sad when you
look out at the sea and how it looks now and you think of all the death out
there. It's on your mind." But Jussi Rautiainen, who was on the beach with his wife and two daughters
from Finland, said tragedy did not mean a place had to close down for business.
"If that was the thinking, people wouldn't go to New York either after the
attack on the World Trade Center," he said. "That didn't stop us
from going to New York. You continue on. It's the only way to see the world."
In Thailand, where people really do smile as advertised, the welcome in Phuket
is as warm and generous as ever. But for the workers on the beach, it is hard
to forget the day after Christmas. They talked of terror, sleeplessness and
a constant fear that the next incoming wave could take their lives.
"I'm afraid," said Chulin Promdeng, 42, a masseuse. "I'm so afraid
of another tsunami. For 15 days, I didn't sleep. I keep looking for another
tsunami."
Ram Battarai, 27, who owns a tailor shop, remembers the wave as "a slap,
a very quick slap and within the slap all the shops are flat and the water
is filled with cars and people and everything." Now, he said: "It's very difficult to keep your mind well. You must
keep thinking. If you let your mind free, many things come into it."
Mr. Somkid, the lifeguard, explains over and over, why he was unable to save
the bathers on the beach. "At that moment, we choked," he said. "We had never seen anything
like that before. When we saw the water go far away, we knew something was
wrong but we didn't know what it was. Then we saw the water coming very quickly
toward
us." Next time, he said - next time he would know what was happening and what to
do.
Sakino Natoto, 27, a tour operator, was sitting just across the road from the
beach when the wave crashed in. It flushed her into the basement of a department
store, then around and around as it carried her with it to the top floor. Battered and cut, she returned that week to her desk by the side of the road
and she was there late last month, calling out: "Hello, sir! Tour information! How are you? Sawaddi Ca! Welcome, sir!"
"If it is possible," she told a reporter who sat down beside her, "please
tell everybody to come to Phuket. It is safe now. Because this was
a natural disaster, not, how can I say it, not Iraq - boom, boom, boom, boom." She added: "You know, I am very lucky. In the last year, my husband left
me for another lady, my leg was broken in a motorcycle accident and now we
have the tsunami. My mother says, 'Sakino, you are very lucky!'
"Please tell everyone to come here, for happiness, for business and to change
my luck."
Seth Mydans is acorrespondent for The International Herald Tribune in Bangkok.
Au.Gay.com
June 10, 2005
18
Singapore's 'Nation Party' moved to November 4-6 in Phuket,
Thailand
Asia's largest gay party announces new venue and dates after
Singapore authorities reject permit
Asia's largest gay and lesbian network, Fridae.com, will
hold its signature Nation party -- dubbed a "festival
of international proportions" by Time Asia -- in Phuket,
Thailand from November 4th through 6th, 2005. Singapore authorities in April rejected an application to
hold Nation, Asia's most acclaimed gay and lesbian party,
which had been held annually since 2001 in the city-state
to celebrate the country's National Day in August. In a faxed
reply, the Singapore police turned down the license citing
the event to be "contrary to public interest."
Fridae regrets the Licensing Division's rejection of Nation's
license. "We are disappointed that the authorities have
deemed a National Day celebration by Singapore's gay citizens
as being 'contrary to public interest' when it had previously
been approved for four years without incident," said
Dr Stuart Koe, Chief Executive Officer. "This is a direct
contradiction to previous calls for embracing of diversity." Despite the Singapore government's attempt to curtail the
public space enjoyed by gay Singaporeans and residents, organizers
hope for the international gay and lesbian community to come
together in creating a new "Nation" -- free from
discrimination and welcoming of all.
"
The Nation party is evolving with the circumstances," said
Dr Koe, "and we hope for it to be truly an event where
gays and lesbians from all over the world can come together
and celebrate their diversity and take pride in their community." For the first time, the three day event will see gay party
organizers from four Asian cities (Hong Kong, Kuala Lumpur,
Taipei and Tokyo) involved in co-hosting eight parties to
be held back to back over the weekend. The last Nation party held in Singapore in August 2004 attracted
an attendance of over 8,000 party revelers, of which 40 perc |