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Woman Shocks Saudi World with book 'The Girls of Riyadh' 1/06 3 Saudis Reportedly Arrest 20 At 'Gay Wedding' 8/06 4 Saudi Arabia more open about AIDS 11/06 4a The kingdom in the closet 7/07 5 The Saudi 'Sex & and the City'? 7/07 6 Sentenced to 7,000 lashes for sodomy in Saudi Arabia 10/07 7 Gay activists picket Saudi embassy 10/07 8 Saudi Rape Case Spurs Calls for Reform 11/07 9 Saudi King Pardons Rape Victim 12/07 10 Dozens arrested in Saudi "gay" raid 6/08 11 55 arrested during raid on "gay party" in Saudi Arabia 7/08 Lesbian and Gay Mulsim Websites: Middle East LGBT information: gaymiddleeast.com al-Fatiha Foundation Worldwide:http://groups.yahoo.com/group/al-fatiha-news/ Yahoo Group-LGBTI Muslims: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/lgbtmuslim/ LGBT Magazine for Gay Muslims - Huriyah Magazine: http://www.huriyahmag.com/ al-fatiha-news@yahoogroups.com With characters like that, "The Girls of Riyadh" is not your run-of-the-mill
depiction of life in Muslim Saudi Arabia, one of the world's most restricted
and conservative societies.Though technically banned here, Rajaa al-Sanie's frank
and sometimes shocking insight into the closed world of Saudi women is making
waves four months after its publication in Beirut.Local press commentators have
asked the young Saudi to disown the book for besmirching women in the conservative
kingdom and interviewers on Saudi-owned satellite channels have accused her of
portraying its men as boorish bores. 365Gay.com August 17, 2006 3 Police detained 250 people, later releasing all but 20 of them the paper reports. It also says that some of those arrested were using the drug khat. Getting precise information out of Saudi Arabia is often a difficult procedure and accusations of homosexuality are frequently used to round up opponents of the government. Shari’a law, as interpreted and enforced in Saudi Arabia, allows sentences ranging from imprisonment and flogging to death for “deviant sexual behavior.” In the past several years there have been a number of reported mass arrests at "gay weddings" in various parts of the country, but little official information has been released on the outcomes of trials. In April, 2005, 35 men were sentenced by a Saudi court to be flogged after they attended what has been described as a “gay wedding”. (story) Whether the sentence was ever carried out is unknown. A month earlier a gay couple was beaded in a public execution in the northern town of Arar, near the Iraq border. The pair had been convicted of killing a blackmailer. If they had been exposed as gay they could have been executed anyway. In 2004 Saudi police raided another event described as a gay wedding party for two African men from Chad at a hotel in the holy city of Medina. About 50 people were arrested. Houston
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Donna Abu-Nasr Associated Press But in this deeply conservative kingdom, social stigma is still attached to the disease _ which most people link, correctly or not, to acts forbidden by their religion and sometimes punishable by death: premarital or gay sex and adultery. That complicates the job of health workers and activists who advocate spreading awareness about protective measures. How, they ask, can an activist educate people about safe sex in a culture that demands men and women abstain from premarital sex? The dilemma is that many Saudis, mostly men, do have sex before marriage as well as extramarital affairs _ especially on trips to other countries, activists say. Some contract HIV and infect their wives. According to Health Ministry statistics, 78 percent of HIV/AIDS cases in the kingdom are a result of sexual contact. "If we were to say 'Use condoms' to everybody, it's like giving them carte blanche to go out and have sex," said Rami al-Harithi, a 30-year-old activist who contracted HIV during a blood transfusion at age 8. Al-Harithi, from the holy city of Mecca, is one of the first Saudi HIV-positive patients to come out in the open and says people are sympathetic because of the way he got the disease. He says he will speak frankly at a seminar for male high school students this week to mark World AIDS Day. "I will tell them, 'You should abstain from sex. But if you travel and cannot hold yourself, there's something called a condom that you should use,'" said al-Harithi. "I'm sure some people will be upset at this kind of language, but I don't care," he added. "My aim is to protect people." Many Saudis disagree with al-Harithi, saying recommendations for safe sex among married couples, such as one posted on the Health Ministry Web site, are as far as activists or the government should go. The site says: "There are simple and effective ways to protect against the disease and the most important one, which is more important than any vaccine that may one day be discovered, is clinging to moral, social and religious values that ban dangerous sexual conduct and that limit sex to marriage." Of 10,120 people who have tested HIV positive in the kingdom since the first case was identified here in 1984, 2,316 were Saudis, according to figures released by the Health Ministry in August, the Arab News reported. That figure is up from 7,804 in 2005, the newspaper quoted Tarek Madani, adviser to the health minister and consultant for contagious diseases, as saying. Almost 80 percent of AIDS cases in the kingdom are age 15-49, and 6.4 percent are children, the report said. The government sponsors public awareness campaigns, such as one this week to mark World AIDS Day on Friday, that include lectures, 500,000 phone text messages, billboards and other activities. The government also treats Saudi AIDS patients for free, at a cost of $2,700 a month. Expatriates are sent home after an initial treatment. A few AIDS societies also are being set up and awaiting government permits, including Al-Husna Society. A member, Laila Taha al-Dulaymi, said the group plans financial help for AIDS patients and their families and to tackle issues like joblessness, as AIDS patients are often fired once their employers learn they are HIV-positive. That is a problem that Jiddah resident Jibril Ahmed, a 31-year-old guard, faced in 2004 when he told his boss he had AIDS. Ahmed learned he had the disease after his pregnant wife died in the seventh month of pregnancy. Tests determined she, the dead fetus and Ahmed were all HIV-positive. Ahmed assumes he became infected eight years ago, but he would not say how. "Everyone makes mistakes," he said. Ahmed said relatives at first worried about catching the disease and would not touch dishes or cutlery he used. But now, they have come to terms with it. His daughters, 8 and 14 years old, do not have HIV. They know he is sick but don't know the details. "I hope they will eventually understand I didn't mean for this to happen," said Ahmed. Umm Muhammad contracted the disease from her husband, she says. "At first, I was very upset and yelled at my husband and asked how the disease has penetrated our home," she said. "But I'm certain he hasn't done anything bad. That's why I'm still with him and I support him." But she draws the line when it comes to telling her family. "When my 12-year-old daughter asked me recently what AIDS is, I changed the subject," said Umm Muhammad. "It's hard for me to tell her, even though I know exactly what it is." May 2007 4a by Nadya Labi Leaving the barbershop, we drove onto Tahlia Street, a broad avenue framed by palm trees, then went past a succession of sleek malls and slowed in front of a glass-and-steel shopping center. Men congregated outside and in nearby cafés. Whereas most such establishments have a family section, two of this area’s cafés allow only men; not surprisingly, they are popular among men who prefer one another’s company. Yasser gestured to a parking lot across from the shopping center, explaining that after midnight it would be "full of men picking up men." These days, he said, "you see gay people everywhere." Yasser turned onto a side street, then braked suddenly. "Oh shit, it’s a checkpoint," he said, inclining his head toward some traffic cops in brown uniforms. "Do you have your ID?" he asked me. He wasn’t worried about the gay-themed nature of his tour -- he didn’t want to be caught alone with a woman. I rummaged through my purse, realizing that I’d left my passport in the hotel for safekeeping. Yasser looked behind him to see if he could reverse the car, but had no choice except to proceed. To his relief, the cops nodded us through. "God, they freaked me out," Yasser said. As he resumed his narration, I recalled something he had told me earlier. "It’s a lot easier to be gay than straight here," he had said. "If you go out with a girl, people will start to ask her questions. But if I have a date upstairs and my family is downstairs, they won’t even come up." Notorious for its adherence to Wahhabism, a puritanical strain of Islam, and as the birthplace of most of the 9/11 hijackers, Saudi Arabia is the only Arab country that claims sharia, or Islamic law, as its sole legal code. The list of prohibitions is long: It’s haram -- forbidden -- to smoke, drink, go to discos, or mix with an unrelated person of the opposite gender. The rules are enforced by the mutawwa’in, religious authorities employed by the government’s Committee for the Promotion of Virtue and Prevention of Vice. The kingdom is dominated by mosques and malls, which the mutawwa’in patrol in leather sandals and shortened versions of the thawb, the traditional ankle-length white robe that many Saudis wear. Some mutawwa’in even bear marks of their devotion on their faces; they bow to God so adamantly that pressing their foreheads against the ground leaves a visible dent. The mutawwa’in prod shoppers to say their devotions when the shops close for prayer, several times daily. If they catch a boy and a girl on a date, they might haul the couple to the police station. They make sure that single men steer clear of the malls, which are family-only zones for the most part, unless they are with a female relative. Though the power of the mutawwa’in has been curtailed recently, their presence still inspires fear. In Saudi Arabia, sodomy is punishable by death. Though that penalty is seldom applied, just this February a man in the Mecca region was executed for having sex with a boy, among other crimes. (For this reason, the names of most people in this story have been changed.) Ask many Saudis about homosexuality, and they’ll wince with repugnance. "I disapprove," Rania, a 32-year-old human-resources manager, told me firmly. "Women weren’t meant to be with women, and men aren’t supposed to be with men." This legal and public condemnation notwithstanding, the kingdom leaves considerable space for homosexual behavior. As long as gays and lesbians maintain a public front of obeisance to Wahhabist norms, they are left to do what they want in private. Vibrant communities of men who enjoy sex with other men can be found in cosmopolitan cities like Jeddah and Riyadh. They meet in schools, in cafés, in the streets, and on the Internet. "You can be cruised anywhere in Saudi Arabia, any time of the day," said Radwan, a 42-year-old gay Saudi American who grew up in various Western cities and now lives in Jeddah. "They’re quite shameless about it." Talal, a Syrian who moved to Riyadh in 2000, calls the Saudi capital a "gay heaven." This is surprising enough. But what seems more startling, at least from a Western perspective, is that some of the men having sex with other men don’t consider themselves gay. For many Saudis, the fact that a man has sex with another man has little to do with "gayness." The act may fulfill a desire or a need, but it doesn’t constitute an identity. Nor does it strip a man of his masculinity, as long as he is in the "top," or active, role. This attitude gives Saudi men who engage in homosexual behavior a degree of freedom. But as a more Westernized notion of gayness -- a notion that stresses orientation over acts -- takes hold in the country, will this delicate balance survive? They will seduce you The building has large bathroom stalls, which provide privacy, and walls covered with graffiti offering romantic and religious advice; tips include "she doesn’t really love you no matter what she tells you" and "before you engage in anything with [her] remember: God is watching you." In Saudi Arabia, "It’s easier to be a lesbian [than a heterosexual]. There’s an overwhelming number of people who turn to lesbianism," Yasmin said, adding that the number of men in the kingdom who turn to gay sex is even greater. "They’re not really homosexual," she said. Francis, a 34-year-old beauty queen from the Philippines (in 2003 he won a gay beauty pageant held in a private house in Jeddah by a group of Filipinos), reported that he’s had sex with Saudi men whose wives were pregnant or menstruating; when those circumstances changed, most of the men stopped calling. "If they can’t use their wives," Francis said, "they have this option with gays." Gay courting in the kingdom is often overt -- in fact, the preferred mode is cruising. "When I was new here, I was worried when six or seven cars would follow me as I walked down the street," Jamie, a 31-year-old Filipino florist living in Jeddah, told me. "Especially if you’re pretty like me, they won’t stop chasing you." John Bradley, the author of Saudi Arabia Exposed: Inside a Kingdom in Crisis (2005), says that most male Western expatriates here, gay or not, have been propositioned by Saudi men driving by "at any time of the day or night, quite openly and usually very, very persistently." Many gay expatriates say they feel more at home in the kingdom than in their native lands. Jason, a South African educator who has lived in Jeddah since 2002, notes that although South Africa allows gay marriage, "it’s as though there are more gays here." For Talal, Riyadh became an escape. When he was 17 and living in Damascus, his father walked in on him having sex with a male friend. He hit Talal and grounded him for two months, letting him out of the house only after he swore he was no longer attracted to men. Talal’s pale face flushed crimson as he recalled his shame at disappointing his family. Eager to escape the weight of their expectations, he took a job in Riyadh. When he announced that he would be moving, his father responded, "You know all Saudis like boys, and you are white. Take care." Talal was pleased to find a measure of truth in his father’s warning -- his fair skin made him a hit among the locals. Marcos, a 41-year-old from the Philippines, was arrested in 1996 for attending a party featuring a drag show. He spent nine months in prison, where he got 200 lashes, before being deported. Still, he opted to return; he loves his work in fashion, which pays decently, and the social opportunities are an added bonus. "Guys romp around and parade in front of you," he told me. "They will seduce you. It’s up to you how many you want, every day." One evening in Jeddah after a sandstorm, I sat in the glass rotunda of a café on Tahlia Street. I’d spent many nights there, interviewing men who were too nervous about being caught with a woman to invite me to their apartments. In a country with no cinemas or clubs or bars, the family sections of cafés and restaurants are popular dating haunts, and during my time in Saudi Arabia, I saw many heterosexual couples talking quietly together, while the girl’s cover -- her girlfriends -- sat nearby. On this occasion, I was accompanied by Misfir, 34, who was showing me how to navigate Paltalk, a Web site similar to the one where he met his boyfriend three and a half years ago. Misfir told me that "bottoms" -- men willing to be penetrated -- are in short supply, and he advised me that if I wanted to generate responses to my postings, I should come up with a screen name that hinted at such willingness. We settled on "jedbut," and I logged on to the "Gulf Arab Love" chat room, introducing myself as a bottom. Within minutes, I had more admirers than I could handle. They dispensed with small talk, asking for my "ASL" age, size, and location without preamble. "Jeddah_bythesea" cited his private dimensions and sent electronic "nudges" when I was slow to respond. "Jedbuilt" pressed me to continue the conversation by phone, but I was distracted by the flirty attentions of "jed-to-heart." However, jed-to-heart’s tone changed when I revealed I was a journalist: JED-TO-HEART: I lie jedbut: who do you lie to? JED-TO-HEART: I lie in my work JED-TO-HEART: with my family JED-TO-HEART: but I’m gay JED-TO-HEART: I can’t say I’m gay jedbut: is that hard? to lie? do you tell people you like women? JED-TO-HEART: that why I lie jedbut: what do you think your family will do if they find out? JED-TO-HEART: yes jedbut: are you married? JED-TO-HEART: ohhhhhhhhhhhhh I think I will kill myselif He went on to write that he kept his sexual preference a secret from just about everyone, including his wife of five years. Back in Gulf Arab Love the next day, I encountered "Anajedtop," who said he liked both men and women; he too was married. I told him I was a journalist, and we chatted for a bit. I asked him if we could meet. He was hesitant, but he seemed curious to find out whether I was for real. We arranged to get together that evening at the Starbucks on Tahlia Street. I waited for him in the family section, which opens out onto the mall and is surrounded by a screen of plants. A mall guard patrolled just outside. At first, Anajedtop avoided my eyes, directing his comments to my male interpreter. "I went in [the chat room] to get an idea of the bad people in those rooms so that God will keep me away from those kinds of things," he said, his leg jiggling nervously. He abandoned this weak cover story as our conversation progressed. He claimed to prefer women, though he admitted that few women frequent the Gulf Arab Love chat room. In the absence of women, he said, he’d "go with" a guy. "I go in and put up an offer," he said. "I set the tone. I’m in control." To be in control, for Anajedtop, meant to be on top. "It’s not in my nature to be a bottom," he said. I asked him whether he was gay, and he responded, "No! A gay is against the norm. The call to prayer sounded over a loudspeaker, and his leg began shaking more insistently; he put a hand on his knee in a futile attempt to still it. The guard hovered. "I’m worried the mutawwa’in might come," Anajedtop said, and rushed off to catch the evening prayer. What is ‘gay’? In The History of Sexuality, a multivolume work published in the 1970s and ’80s, Michel Foucault proposed his famous thesis that Western academic, medical, and political discourse of the 18th and 19th centuries had produced the idea of the homosexual as a deviant type: In Western society, homosexuality changed from being a behavior (what you do) to an identity (who you are). In the Middle East, however, homosexual behavior remained just that -- an act, not an orientation. That is not to say that Middle Eastern men who had sex with other men were freely tolerated. But they were not automatically labeled deviant. The taxonomy revolved around the roles of top and bottom, with little stigma attaching to the top. "‘Sexuality’ is distinguished not between ‘homosexual’ and ‘heterosexual’ but between taking pleasure and submitting to someone (being used for pleasure)," the sociologist Stephen O. Murray explains in the 1997 compilation Islamic Homosexualities: Culture, History, and Literature. Being a bottom was shameful because it meant playing a woman’s role. A bottom was not locked into his inferior status, however; he could, and was expected to, leave the role behind as he grew older. "There may be a man, and he likes boys. The Saudis just look at this as, ‘He doesn’t like football,’" Dave, a gay American teacher who first moved to Saudi Arabia in 1978, told me. "It’s assumed that he is, as it were, the dominant partner, playing the man’s role, and there is no shame attached to it." Nor is the dominant partner considered gay. However much this may seem like sophistry, it is in keeping with a long-standing Muslim tradition of accommodating homosexual impulses, if not homosexual identity. In 19th-century Iran, a young beardless adolescent was considered an object of beauty -- desired by men -- who would grow naturally into an older bearded man who desired youthful males. There, as in much of the Islamic world, sexual practices were "not considered fixed into lifelong patterns of sexual orientation," as Afsaneh Najmabadi demonstrates in her 2005 book, Women With Mustaches and Men Without Beards: Gender and Sexual Anxieties of Iranian Modernity. A man was expected to marry, and as long as he fulfilled his procreative obligations, the community didn’t probe his extracurricular activities. A magazine editor in Jeddah told me that many boys in Mecca, where he grew up, have sexual relations with men, but they don’t see themselves as gay. Abubaker Bagader, a human-rights activist based in Jeddah, explained that homosexuality can be viewed as a phase. In Islamic Homosexualities, the anthropologist Will Roscoe shows that this "status-differentiated pattern" -- whereby it’s OK to be a top but not a bottom -- has its roots in Greco-Roman culture, and he emphasizes that the top-bottom power dynamic is commonly expressed in relations between older men and younger boys. Yasmin, the student who told me about the lesbian enclave at her college, said that her 16-year-old brother, along with many boys his age, has been targeted by his male elders as a sexual object. "It’s the land of sand and sodomites," she said. "The older men take advantage of the little boys." Dave, the American educator, puts it this way: "Let’s say there’s a group of men sitting around in a café. If a smooth-faced boy walks by, they all stop and make approving comments. They’re just noting, ‘That’s a hot little number.’" The People of Lot Zahar, a 41-year-old Saudi who has traveled widely throughout the world, urged me not to write about Islam and homosexuality; to do so, he said, is to cut off debate, because "it’s always the religion that holds people back." He added, "The original points of Islam can never be changed." Years ago, Zahar went to the library to ascertain just what those points are. What he found surprised him. "Strange enough, there is no certain condemnation for that [homosexual] act in Islam. On the other hand, to have illegal sex between a man and a woman, there are very clear rules and sub-rules." Indeed, the Koran does not contain rules about homosexuality, says Everett K. Rowson, a professor at New York University who is working on a book about homosexuality in medieval Islamic society. "The only passages that deal with the subject unambiguously appear in the passages dealing with Lot." The story of Lot is rendered in the Koran much as it is in the Old Testament. The men of Lot’s town lust after male angels under his protection, and he begs them to have sex with his virgin daughters instead: Do ye commit lewdness / such as no people / in creation (ever) committed / before you? For ye practice your lusts / on men in preference / to women: ye are indeed / a people transgressing beyond / bounds. The men refuse to heed him and are punished by a shower of brimstone. Their defiance survives linguistically: In Arabic, the "top" sodomite is luti, meaning "of [the people of] Lot." This surely suggests that sodomy is considered sinful, but the Koran’s treatment of the practice contrasts with its discussions of zina -- sexual relations between a man and a woman who are not married to each other. Zina is explicitly condemned: Nor come nigh to adultery: / for it is a shameful (deed) / and an evil, opening to the road / (to other evils). The punishment for it is later spelled out: 100 lashes for each party. The Koran does not offer such direct guidance on what to do about sodomy. Many Islamic scholars analogize the act to zina to determine a punishment, and some go so far as to say the two sins are the same. Two other key verses deal with sexual transgression. The first instructs: If any of your women / are guilty of lewdness, / take the evidence of four / (reliable) witnesses from amongst / you/ against them; and if they testify, / confine [the women] to houses until / death do claim them, / or God ordain them / some (other) way. But what is this "lewdness"? Is it zina or lesbianism? It is hard to say. The second verse is also ambiguous: If two men among you / are guilty of lewdness, / punish them both. / If they repent and amend, / leave them alone … In Arabic, the masculine "dual pronoun" can refer to two men or to a man and a woman. So again -- sodomy, or zina? For many centuries, Rowson says, these verses were widely thought to pertain to zina, but since the early 20th century, they have been largely assumed to proscribe homosexual behavior. He and most other scholars in the field believe that at about that time, Middle Eastern attitudes toward homosexuality fundamentally shifted. Though same-sex practices were considered taboo, and shameful for the bottom, same-sex desire had long been understood as a natural inclination. For example, Abu Nuwas -- a famous eighth-century poet from Baghdad -- and his literary successors devoted much ink to the charms of attractive boys. At the turn of the century, Islamic society began to express revulsion at the concept of homosexuality, even if it was confined only to lustful thoughts, and this distaste became more pronounced with the influx of Western media. "Many attitudes with regard to sexual morality that are thought to be identical to Islam owe a lot more to Queen Victoria" than to the Koran, Rowson told me. "People don’t know -- or they try to keep it under the carpet -- that 200 years ago, highly respected religious scholars in the Middle East were writing poems about beautiful boys." Even Muhammad ibn Abd al-Wahhab -- the 18th-century religious scholar who founded Wahhabism -- seems to draw a distinction between homosexual desires and homosexual acts, according to Natana DeLong-Bas, the author of Wahhabi Islam: From Revival and Reform to Global Jihad (2004). The closest Abd al-Wahhab came to touching upon the topic of homosexuality was in a description of an effeminate man who is interested in other men at a wedding banquet. His tone here is tolerant rather than condemnatory; as long as the man controls his urges, no one in the community has the right to police him. Religious scholars have turned to the hadith -- the sayings and doings of the Prophet Muhammad -- to supplement the Koran’s scant teachings about sodomy and decide on a punishment. There are six canonical collections of hadith, the earliest recorded two centuries after Muhammad’s death. The two most authoritative collections, Rowson says, don’t mention sodomy. In the remaining four, the most important citation reads: "Those whom you find performing the act of the people of Lot, kill both the active and the passive partner." Though some legal schools reject this hadith as unreliable, most scholars of Hanbalism, the school of legal thought that underpins the official law of the Saudi kingdom, accept it. It may have provided the authority for the execution this February. (Judges will go out of their way to avoid finding that an act of sodomy has occurred, however.) Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell This seems to be the way of the kingdom: essentially, "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell." Private misbehavior is fine, as long as public decorum is observed. Cinemas are forbidden, but people watch pirated DVDs. Drinking is illegal, but alcohol flows at parties. Women wrap their bodies and faces in layers of black, but pornography flourishes. Gay men thrive in this atmosphere. "We really have a very comfortable life," Filipinos, who have little influence and less familiarity with the demands of a double life, seem to be especially vulnerable. When I asked Jamie, the Filipino who says he gets followed down the street by Saudi men, whether he was gay, he answered, with a high giggle, "Obviously!" But he has paid a price for his flamboyant manner. He used to wear his thick black hair down to his shoulders, concealing it with a baseball cap in public, until recently, when he ran into a man in a shortened thawb at a coffee shop. The mutawwa asked for his work permit. Even though he produced one, Jamie was shoved into an SUV and driven to a police station. Are you gay?" a police officer asked after pulling off Jamie’s cap and seeing his long hair. "Of course not," Jamie said. He challenged the cop to find a violation, and the officer confirmed the mutawwa’s report that Jamie was wearing makeup, dressing like a woman, and flirting. After spending a night in jail, Jamie was taken to mutawwa’in headquarters in Jeddah, and a mutawwa interrogated him again. When he tried to defend himself, the mutawwa asked him to walk, and Jamie strode across the room in what he considered a manly fashion. He was eventually allowed to call his boss, who secured his release. Jamie cut his hair -- not out of fear, he says, but because he didn’t want to bother his boss a second time. Jamie laughed as he told me of his attempts at dissimulation; though the stakes can be high, efforts to stamp out homosexuality here often do seem farcical. The mutawwa’in get to play the heavies, the government goes through the motions, and the perps play innocent -- Me? Gay? Few people in the kingdom, other than the mutawwa’in, seem to take the process seriously. When the mutawwa’in busted the party that led to Marcos’s deportation, they separated the "showgirls" wearing drag from the rest of the partygoers, and then asked everyone but the drag queens to line up against the wall for the dawn prayer. At the first of the three ensuing trials, Marcos and the 23 other Filipinos who’d been detained were confronted with the evidence from the party: plastic bags full of makeup, shoes, wigs, and pictures of the defendants dressed like women. When the Filipinos were returned to their cells, they began arguing about who had looked the hottest in the photos. And even after his punishment and deportation, Marcos was unfazed; when he returned to Jeddah, it was under the same name. The threat of a crackdown always looms, however. In March 2005, the police crashed what they identified as a "gay wedding" in a rented hall near Jeddah; according to some sources, the gathering was only a birthday party. (Similar busts have occurred in The Closeted Kingdom A policy of official denial but tacit acceptance leaves space for change, the possibility that gay men will abandon their sinful ways. Amjad, a gay Palestinian I met in Riyadh, holds out hope that he’ll be "cured" of homosexuality, that when his wife receives her papers to join him in Saudi Arabia, he’ll be able to break off his relationship with his boyfriend. "God knows what I have in my heart," he said. "I’m trying to do the best I can, obeying the religion. I’m fasting, I’m praying, I’m giving zakat [charity]. All the things that God has asked us to do, if I have the ability, I will do it." Amjad cited a parable about two men living in the same house. The upstairs man was devout and had spent his life praying to God. The downstairs man went to parties, drank, and committed zina. One night, the upstairs man had the urge to try what the downstairs man was doing. At the same moment, the downstairs man decided to see what his neighbor was up to. "They died at the stairs," Amjad said. "The one going down went to hell. The one going up went to heaven." For Amjad to accept a fixed identity as a gay man would be to forgo the possibility of ever going upstairs. But as the Western conception of sexual identity has filtered into the kingdom via television and the Internet, it has begun to blur the Saudi view of sexual behavior as distinct from sexual identity. For example, although Yasser is open to the possibility that he will in time grow attracted to women, he considers himself gay. He says that his countrymen are starting to see homosexual behavior as a marker of But new recognition of this distinction has not brought with it acceptance of homosexuality: Saudis may be tuning in to Oprah, but her tell-all ethic has yet to catch on. Radwan, the Saudi American, came out to his parents only after spending time in the United States and the experience was so bad that he’s gone back into the closet. His father, a Saudi, threatened to kill himself, then decided that he couldn’t (because suicide is haram), then contemplated killing Radwan instead. "In the end," Radwan told me, "I said, ‘I’m not gay anymore. I’m straight.’" Most of his gay peers choose to remain silent within their families. Yasser says that if his mother ever found out he’s gay, she would treat him as if he were sick and take him to psychologists to try to find a cure. Zahar, at 41, has managed the unusual feat of staving off marriage without revealing himself to be gay. Marriage would devastate him, he says, and exposure of his homosexuality would devastate his family. So Zahar has employed an elaborate series of stratagems: a fake girlfriend, a fake engagement to a sympathetic cousin, the breaking off of the engagement. As he put it, "I schemed, and I planned. I don’t like to con people, but I had to do that for my family." In the West, we would expect such subterfuge to exact a high psychological cost. But a closet doesn’t feel as lonely when so many others, gay and straight, are in it, too. A double life is the essence of life in the kingdom -- everyone has to keep private any deviance from official norms. The expectation that Zahar would maintain a public front at odds with his private self is no greater than the expectations facing his straight peers. Dave, the gay American I met, recalled his surprise when his boyfriend of five years got married, and then asked him to go to the newlyweds’ apartment to "make the bed up the way you make it up," for the benefit of the bride. "Saudis will get stressed about things that wouldn’t cause us to blink," Dave said. "But having to live a double life, that’s just a normal thing." Most of the gay men I interviewed said that gay rights are beside the point. They view the downsides of life in Saudi Arabia -- having to cut your hair, or hide your jewelry, or even spend time in prison for going to a party -- as minor aggravations. "When I see a gay parade [in trips to the West], it’s too much of a masquerade for attention," Zahar said. "You don’t need that. Women’s rights, gay rights why? Get your rights without being too loud." Embracing gay identity, generally viewed in the West as the path to fuller rights, could backfire in Saudi Arabia. The idea of being gay, as opposed to simply acting on sexual urges, may bring with it a deeper sense of shame. "When I first came here, people didn’t seem to have guilt. They were sort of ‘I’ll worry about that on Judgment Day,’" Dave said. "Now, with the Internet and Arabia TV, they have some guilt." The magazine editor in Jeddah says that when he visits his neighbors these days, they look back at their past sexual encounters with other men regretfully, thinking, "What the hell were we doing? It’s disgusting." When Radwan arrived in Jeddah, in 1987, after seeing the gay-rights movement in the United States firsthand, he wanted more than the tacit right to quietly do what he chose. "Invisibility gives you the cover to be gay," he said. "But the bad part of invisibility is that it’s hard to build a public identity and get people to admit there is such a community and then to give you some rights." He tried to rally the community and encourage basic rights like the right not to be imprisoned. But the locals took him aside and warned him to keep his mouth shut. They told him, "You’ve got everything a gay person could ever want.
July 20, 2007 5 Rajaa Alsanea knew she was in for trouble when she published her novel about affluent young Arab women—what she didn’t foresee was how much support she would receive. by Christina Gillham, Newsweek “The Girls of Riyadh” explores the lives of four young women—Lamees, Sadeem, Gamrah and Michelle. Their stories are told by a narrator in a series of postings on an Internet chat room. The women, like their creator, are upper-class Sunni Muslims whose lives revolve around various romantic entanglements, shopping, school and struggling against their society’s strict moral code. Alsanea wrote the book while in college, where she studied dentistry. Now living in Chicago, she is doing her residency in endodontics (root canal) and studying for her master’s degree in oral sciences. She spoke to NEWSWEEK’s Christina Gillham. NEWSWEEK: How did you go from dentistry to writing a novel? Your family didn’t have such restrictions? Was this typical of your friends growing up, to have this kind of liberal upbringing? So the Saudi government is supportive of its citizens going abroad to open their minds? One Saudi reformist religious scholar said that if your book had come out even four years ago, you could have been sent to jail. Wasn’t your book banned? Why do you think the book caused such a stir? How did you react when you heard conservatives say you weren’t being a good Muslim? The book focuses a lot on love, especially on what you call “premarital love,” as opposed to love that comes after marriage, like in arranged marriages. And the narrator definitely believes that premarital love is the better way to go. Do you think that’s how a lot of young Saudi women feel? You’ve said that you weren’t trying to deliver a message with your book, but you must have hoped to influence some kind of change in your society. Some have criticized the book because its characters are rich and spoiled and not an accurate representation of Saudi women. How do you respond to that? What do you hope Western readers learn from your book?
5th October 2007 6 by PinkNews.co.uk writer The maximum sentence it carries is the death penalty and this is most commonly performed by public beheading. Gay rights are not recognised in the kingdom and the publication of any material promoting them is banned for its "un-Islamic" themes. With strict laws restricting unmarried opposite-sex couples, however, and public displays of affection accepted between men, some Westerners have suggested that sharia encourages homosexuality. Last April, a court in Saudi Arabia sentenced two Saudis, one Yemeni and a Jordanian to two years in jail and 2,000 lashes after a police raid on an alleged gay party. Iran has been condemned for carrying out the death penalty on men found guilty of having gay sex.
22nd October 2007 7 by Tony Grew Members of LGBT Labour also attended the event. NUS protest organiser Scott Cuthbertson called on others to protest the "continued criminalisation, imprisonment, torture and murder of LGBT people in Saudi Arabia." The protesters handed in a letter of protest to the Saudi Ambassador, HRH Prince Mohammed bin Nawaf, calling on his government to respect the human rights of its own LGBT citizens. Human rights activist Peter Tatchell criticised the excessive punishment reportedly handed down on 2nd October to two young men in the Saudi Arabian city of Al-Bahah, and the wider record of the Saudi regime. "7,000 lashes is a form of torture, calculated to cause maximum, prolonged suffering," he said. "So many lashes can be fatal, depending on how many are delivered at any one time. As well as flogging and executing gay people, the Saudi leaders are guilty of detention without trial, torture and the public beheading women who have sex outside of marriage. The Saudis import migrant workers to do menial tasks. They are treated like de facto slaves, frequently abused and with few rights. The media is heavily censored. Trade unions, political parties and non-Muslim religions are banned. The country is a theocratic police state. The British and US governments support the despotic, corrupt Saudi regime. Labour sells the Saudi leaders arms and honours them with state visits. It refuses asylum to gay Saudis who flee persecution and seek refuge in the UK," he said. King Abdullah bin Abdul Azaz al Saud's state visit begins on 30th October November 30, 2007 8 by Rasheed Abou-Alsamh The case is now being appealed to the Kingdom’s highest court. Human rights activists and legal observers said the treatment of the woman from Qatif, the man who was raped with her, and her lawyer, call into question the consistency of Saudi justice and make a mockery of the court system’s commitment to openness and fairness. The Saudi system still operates without a codified legal system and uses a strict Wahabi interpretation of Islamic law, or Shariah, to hand down verdicts. Like all institutions in Saudi Arabia, the court system is subject to the absolute authority of the monarchy. “The system has to be transformed from top to bottom,” said Ali Alyami, the executive director of the Washington-based Center for Democracy and Human Rights in Saudi Arabia. “Judges in Saudi Arabia have no more power than the princes want them to have.” Saudi officials have faced a firestorm of embarrassing international publicity. American presidential candidates decried the sentence on the campaign trail. During the Annapolis summit meeting, Prince Saud al-Faisal, the foreign minister, faced a barrage of questions about the kingdom’s handling of the case. “What is outraging about this case is that it is being used against the Saudi government and people,” he told reporters. But the prince also said the judiciary would review the case. The rape took place a year and a half ago in the town of Qatif, a small Shi’ite waterfront town in the Eastern Province, center of the Saudi Arabia’s oil industry. Judges in Qatif provoked outrage in many quarters in the Kingdom — and vociferous criticism from the United States — when they increased the sentence against the rape victim on appeal in mid-November. In the weeks since the new sentence was announced, government authorities have ordered the rape victim’s lawyer, a well-known human rights activist named Abdulrahman Al-Lahem, to stop talking to the news media, and have also put gag orders on the victim and her husband. The Saudi Ministry of Justice and two prominent Saudi judges have lashed out against the victim, suggesting that she was engaged in immoral behavior at the time of the assault. The Justice Ministry published two statements on its Web site on Nov. 20 and 24, 2007, alleging that the rape victim had confessed to engaging in illicit acts and was undressed in a car prior to the rape. Mr. Lahem, the woman’s lawyer, denied these accusations and said that neither she or her male friend had ever confessed to any such acts. The lawyer is now suing the Saudi Ministry of Information and Culture for having distributed the Justice Ministry’s statements to the news media through the state-run Saudi Press Agency. “The Saudi Ministry of Justice should immediately stop publishing statements aimed at damaging the reputation of a young Saudi rape victim who spoke out publicly about her ordeal and her efforts to find justice,” New York-based Human Rights Watch said in a statement on Nov. 29. The ministry released its statements after the doubling of the rape victim’s punishment by a Qatif court on Nov. 14 for having been illegally alone with an unrelated male just before the rape happened, from 90 lashes to 200 lashes and six months in jail. But the ministry stopped short of accusing the rape victim of adultery, or “zina” in Arabic, which could carry the death penalty, with the man that she met in his car on the night of the rape in 2006. Mr. Al-Lahem has complained that the judges in the case appear to base their conclusions about the events on the night of the rape on testimony of the seven rapists, who have been sentenced to five to seven years in jail. Under Islamic law, two people can be accused of adultery only if they are caught in the actual act of penetration by four male witnesses of good character. “The Ministry of Justice’s response to criticism of its unjust verdict has been appalling,” said Farida Deif, a researcher in the women’s rights division of Human Rights Watch. “First, they attempted to silence this young woman, and now they’re trying to demonize her in the eyes of the Saudi public.” A Saudi judge, Ibrahim bin Salih Al-Khudairi of the Riyadh Appeals Court, said in an interview published in Okaz newspaper on Nov. 27 that if he were a judge in the Qatif court that he would have sentenced her, her male companion and the seven rapists to death and that they should be lucky that they did not get the death penalty. The woman from Qatif met with an Associated Press reporter in November, before the court ordered her and her lawyer to stop talking to reporters. She has trouble sleeping, her hands tremble, and she described the sentence against her as a “big shock,” The Associated Press reported. The Human Rights Watch researcher, Ms. Deif interviewed the woman from Qatif in December 2006. The testimony she gathered directly contradicts the narrative of events being put forward by Saudi justice officials. In her testimony to the human rights group, the woman said she had given a photo of herself to a high school classmate. Years later, when she was 19 and engaged to another man, she asked for the photo back. She agreed to meet him in his car in downtown Qatif. Another car blocked their path when they were 15 minutes from her house, she said. “Two people got out of their car and stood on either side of our car. The man on my side had a knife,” she said. “I screamed.” She and her companion were taken to an isolated building in the working-class Awwamiyah neighborhood of Al-Qatif where they were both raped repeatedly by seven men over several hours. The Qatif girl said that she was photographed during the rape by one of the men using his cell phone camera. The photos were later entered as evidence in the trial, but the judges refused to consider them. The husband of Qatif girl, who also refuses to be identified publicly, found out about his wife’s rape only four months after it happened when the rapists were bragging about it in Qatif. He has not divorced her, which he could under Saudi law, instead choosing to help her fight her case in Saudi courts. But he, too, has found the Saudi legal system reluctant to help a woman that it considers to be responsible for her own fate because of what it views as her fatal flaw of having gone out alone with an unrelated male. Although she and her husband are technically married under Islamic law, they are still not living together because they have not had their wedding party yet. A high school student when the rape occurred, Qatif girl has now stopped her studies. Qatif is a small town, and the identities of the rape victims are known locally. Mr. Lahem has had trouble handling the Qatif girl’s case from the beginning. He got into several arguments with the three judges who originally handled the trial, and has since had his license suspended for “disrespecting” the court after he supposedly raised his voice in court. He faces a disciplinary hearing before a committee of the Ministry of Justice in Riyadh on Dec. 5. Neither he nor the husband of the victim have been given a copy of the verdict despite repeated requests for it, which has delayed the filing of the appeal. Yet a copy of it was apparently leaked to a conservative Saudi Web site called Alsaha (www.alsaha.com), according to Human Rights Watch. Several Saudi human rights groups said that they were looking into various aspects of the case, but most are too afraid to get involved while the case is still in the courts. Mr. Lahem said that he initially did not want to make waves about the Qatif girl’s case but that the doubling of her punishment in November forced him to go public. He said that he had hoped to keep things quiet and then apply for a royal pardon from King Abdullah, who has pardoned jailed convicted human rights activists in the past. Mr. Alyami believes that this will still happen in the case of the Qatif girl. “The international condemnation of this arbitrary and barbaric decision will force the king to pardon the woman or drastically reduce her prison sentence,” he said. “There will be no flogging.” But Bander Alnogaithan, a Saudi who finished Harvard Law School, and lives in Boston, said he was sure her increased punishment would be overturned by a higher court because of a series of errors committed by the lower courts. Judges violated a basic tenet of Islamic law which prevents harming anyone who files an appeal, an error that Mr. Alnogaithan said reflected the poor quality of the religious judges. “We can’t blame the judges for not knowing the law, as they are picked from Shariah colleges where they mainly focus on general Islamic legal thought and history and don’t study ‘manmade’ laws,” he said.
17 December 2007 9 by Abdullah Shihri, The Associated Press Bush's National Security Council spokesman Gordon Johndroe said the White House thinks Saudi King Abdullah "made the right decision" by pardoning the woman. With the pardon, King Abdullah appeared to be aiming at relieving the pressure from the United States without being seen to criticize Saudi Arabia's conservative legal system, a stronghold of powerful clerics adhering to the strict Wahhabi interpretation of Islam. Justice Minister Abdullah bin Mohammed al-Sheik said the pardon reported by Saudi media Monday does not mean the king doubted the country's judges, but that he was acting in the "interests of the people." "The king always looks into alleviating the suffering of the citizens when he becomes sure that these verdicts will leave psychological effects on the convicted people, though he is convinced and sure that the verdicts were fair," al-Sheik said, according to the Al-Jazirah newspaper. Certainly, we're pleased that that action occurred," State Department deputy spokesman Tom Casey said. "I think everyone was rather astonished by the initial verdict and I hope this puts this case to rest. We're glad that this particular case has been dealt with and that the king has taken the actions that he has." The victim - known only as the "Girl of Qatif" after her hometown in eastern Saudi Arabia - was in a car with a man in 2006 when they were attacked and raped by seven men. She was initially sentenced in November 2006 to several months in prison and 90 lashes for being alone in a car with a man with whom she was neither related nor married, a violation of the kingdom's strict segregation of the sexes. The woman, who was 19 at the time of the rape, has said she met the man to retrieve a picture of herself from him because she had recently married. The seven men who were convicted of raping both the girl and the man were initially sentenced to jail terms from 10 months to five years. Their sentences were increased to between two and nine years after the appeal. The case sparked increased international outcry recently after the court more than doubled the sentence last month to 200 lashes and six months prison in response to her appeal. Joining the U.S. criticism, Canada called the ruling barbaric. Earlier this month, Bush expressed his anger over the sentencing. "My first thoughts were these," Bush said. "What happens if this happens to my daughter? How would I react? And I would have been - I'd of been very emotional, of course. I'd have been angry at those who committed the crime. And I'd be angry at a state that didn't support the victim." The controversy erupted as the United States was trying to ensure Saudi Arabia's participation in the November Mideast peace conference in Annapolis, Md. - which the kingdom attended. In the U.S. ahead of the conference, Saudi Foreign Minister Prince Saud al-Faisal was visibly irritated when he was asked about the case by journalists. He said that the storm being raised over it was outrageous, but also promised the sentence would be reviewed. The kingdom's Justice Ministry has defended the sentence, saying the girl was having an illicit affair with the man. Al-Sheik said Abdullah was the only official who could issue a pardon, and he did so despite the government's view that the Saudi legal system was "honest" and "fair." "The king's order consolidates and confirms what is known about the Islamic courts," al-Sheik told Al-Jazirah. "Efficient judges look into different cases and issue their just verdicts and those convicted have the right to appeal." Attempts to reach the woman's lawyer by telephone went unanswered Monday.
June 23, 2008 10 by Staff Writer, PinkNews.co.uk In Saudi Arabia, homosexuality is illegal under sharia, or Islamic Law. The maximum sentence it carries is the death penalty and this is most commonly performed by public beheading. Gay rights are not recognised in the kingdom and the publication of any material promoting them is banned for its "un-Islamic" themes. With strict laws restricting unmarried opposite-sex couples, however, and public displays of affection accepted between men, some Westerners have suggested that sharia encourages homosexuality. In April 2006 a court in Saudi Arabia sentenced two Saudis, one Yemeni and a Jordanian to two years in jail and 2,000 lashes after a police raid on an alleged gay party. In October two men were publicly flogged in Saudi Arabia after being found guilty of sodomy and sentenced to 7,000 lashes. Human rights activist Peter Tatchell criticised the excessive punishment. "7,000 lashes is a form of torture, calculated to cause maximum, prolonged suffering," he said. "So many lashes can be fatal, depending on how many are delivered at any one time. As well as flogging and executing gay people, the Saudi leaders are guilty of detention without trial, torture and the public beheading women who have sex outside of marriage. Trade unions, political parties and non-Muslim religions are banned. The country is a theocratic police state. The British and US governments support the despotic, corrupt Saudi regime."
July 30, 2008 11 by Tony Grew The state Commission for the Propagation of Virtue and the Prevention of Vice was acting on a tip off. In Saudi Arabia homosexuality is illegal under sharia, or Islamic Law. The maximum sentence it carries is the death penalty and this is most commonly performed by public beheading. Gay rights are not recognised in the kingdom and the publication of any material promoting them is banned for its "un-Islamic" themes. |