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The Apartheid of Homosexuality 6/99
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Sordid Trial Shows Hypocrisy of Making Sexuality a Crime 8/00
3
Malaysian transsexuals act for reel in documentary 11/00
4
Malaysian PM rebuked for threat to UK gay ministers 11/01
5
Was
I Born to Be This Way? The Thoughts of a Muslim Gay In An Oppressed
Society
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Coming Out in the Open--Despite the Persecution of Anwar 6/01
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'Homosexuality is a Crime Worse Than Murder' An Interview with
Malaysia's
Morality Police 3/01
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Whats vulgar? by
Marina Mahathir 3/02
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What some religions say about homosexuality 7/03
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Local churches say no to gay bishop 8/03
11
Malaysian Leader Attacks Gays & Western 'Homo" Media In
National TV Speech 9/03
12
Malaysia's Longest
Serving Ruler, Mahathir
Mohamad, Steps
Down 10/03
13 UN
ill-advised on homosexual laws 2/04
14 Former
Deputy Prime Minister Anwar Ibrahim free after court overturns
sodomy conviction 9/04
15 Mahathir sacked Anwar to prevent Malaysia having 'gay' PM 9/05
16 Malaysian
Media Slanders Gays as Police Crackdown Hampers AIDS/HIV Education
Efforts 2/06
17
GlobalGayz.com interview: Modern Gay LIfe in Kuala
Lumpur 3/06
18 Prominent Malaysian transsexual sees progress in societal acceptance 12/06
18a Transsexuals in Malaysia get more acceptance in Muslim society 12/06
19 New
Zealand AIDS foundation's new safe sex campaign targets asian
gay men 5/07
20 Fear
for safety/ torture or ill-treatment of transexuals in Malaysia
8/07
21 Gay pastor leads service, his partner watches with pride 8/07
22 Malaysia to block planned gay church 8/07
22a Famed Malaysian Columnist, Oyoung Wenfeng, Comes Out in New Book 8/07
23 Malaysian court annuls same sex marriage 9/07
24 Malaysian police say they broke up gay sex party, arrested 37 men 11/07
25 Talking
About Sex in Malaysia 11/07
26 No sex party going on at penang fitness centre, say those arrested 11/07
From the
Forum Center for Citizenship and Human Rights (Australia)
June 1999
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The Apartheid of Homosexuality
by Baden
Offord
Faculty of Arts
Southern Cross University (Australia)
Homosexuals, Dogs, Smoking, Pants, Shorts, Slippers Are Not Allowed
In This Restaurant.
Sign on the door of an Italian restaurant in Taiwan. (Sydney Star Observer,
13 August 1998)
What do the Vice-President of Zambia, Christon Tembo, the Prime Minister
of Zimbabwe, Robert Mugabe, the Prime Minister of Malaysia, Dr. Mahatir
Mohamad, the President of the United States, Bill Clinton, the United
Nations High Commissioner of Human Rights, Mrs Mary Robinson, Prime
Minister of England, Tony Blair, Chairman of the Truth Commission and
former Archbishop of South Africa Desmond Tutu and the Dalai Lama, have
in common?
It certainly
is not race, culture, politics or religion. It is the fact that each
of them has spoken about/to homosexuality in 1998.
The
issues and problems facing homosexuals in the late 1990s are many and
complex. More often than not, these issues and problems are serious,
centred on the oppression and liberation of homosexuals, on their
widespread marginalisation and invisibility. Former chairman of South
Africa's Truth Commission, Desmond Tutu, considers homosexual 'persecution
as unjust as apartheid'. Tutu continues 'For me it's a matter of human
rights and a deeply theological issue' (Newsplanet, 17 November 1998).
It is his second priority of concern after Third World poverty.
The issues and problems facing homosexuals are also experienced across
culture, race, health, law, ethnicity, politics, religion and economics.
Homosexuality has become a marker of the final years of the twentieth
century. It defies borders - it does not matter which part of the world
you examine, whether in Asia or Africa, the Americas, Europe or the
Middle East, homosexuality has currency at an international level
not witnessed before.
For example, the trial of Anwar Ibrahim in Malaysia has brought
up many of the issues that are found in Indonesia, Singapore and Australia.
The former Deputy Prime Minister was detained in September 1998 under
Malaysia's Internal Security Act and charged with, among other things,
sodomy and homosexuality. In a Time interview that asked whether he
was a homosexual, Anwar answered: 'Definitely not. This is nothing but
vile character assassination' (16 November 1998:52).
Implicit in this answer are some of the key elements involved in
relation to homosexuals and homosexuality in the world today. In
Malaysia, homosexuality is illegal, enforced by laws that are
inherited from its time as a British colony. The fact that Malaysia
is also an Islamic nation proscribes homosexuality as a sin. Thus, homosexuality
is doubly troubled. But it is actually troubled further. In 1992, Malaysian
Prime Minister, Dr. Mahatir Mohamad made the statement that democracy
would lead to homosexuality. This conflation of homosexuality with democracy
was used by Dr. Mahatir to consolidate Malaysia's cultural borders (and
its postcolonial status), to maintain the purity and uniqueness of
the Malaysian people. In this context, Dr. Mahatir is drawing on
cultural specificity to delineate the indigenous from the foreign,and
homosexuality is conceived of as alien and 'other'.
It is in this sense that Anwar Ibrahim is 'othered' by the use of the
accusation that he is homosexual. Anwar has been notable for his liberal
views about democracy and transparent government (see his The Asian
Renaissance, 1996). To simply do away with opposition and perceived
threats to his authoritarian rule, Dr. Mahatir has inscribed upon his
enemy the descriptor of "homosexual".
Prior to the Asia-Pacific Economic Co-operation Leader's Summit in Kuala
Lumpur in late 1998, amid the controversial jailing of Anwar and civil
unrest and demonstrations, the role of homosexuality as a political
and cultural tool of difference was propounded strongly by the Malaysian
Foreign Minister, Dr. Abdullah Badawi. It was his contention that sodomy
was a serious offence in Malaysia, 'against the country's religious
and social values' (The Weekend Australian, 7-8 November 1998). Dr.
Badawi maintained that, "in certain places in Europe, perhaps Australia
and America, they don't treat it as something big, but to us it is bad,
it is a scandal." (quoted in The Weekend Australian, 7-8 November
1998).
Following Dr. Mahatir's accusations against Anwar, a People's Anti-Homosexual
Voluntary Movement was formed to combat the 'dangers of homosexuality.'
In one blow, Dr. Mahatir succeeded in undermining Anwar's credibility
and deployed homosexuality as the number one 'no-no'. Anwar, also a
Muslim, entrenched the perceived, corrupting value of homosexuality
by asserting in the Time interview that his character was 'assassinated'
by this descriptor.
So this is one sense of where homosexuality is located in Southeast
Asia today, something that is 'demonised' and deeply troubled. It
is conflated at once with democracy, corruption, and foreignness. Carl
Stychin has stated that:
it does seem clear that when a nation state perceives a threat to
its existence, that danger is frequently translated into sexualised
terms. Same-sex sexuality is deployed as the alien other, linked
to conspiracy, recruitment, opposition to the nation, and ultimately
a threat to civilization (1998:9).
The murder in October 1998 of Matthew Shepherd, a 22-year-old
student and human rights activist, at the University of Wyoming in the
United States, highlights something that is happening all around
the world but which remains largely unnoticed. Any examination of
the situation of homosexuals anywhere in the world will reveal entrenched
covert and overt homophobia that is a fear and even hatred towards
homosexuals. Homosexuality and homosexual identity are persistently
demonised, usually for religious, political or cultural reasons.
In many parts of Africa too there is deeply entrenched homophobia,
and the rhetoric of 'demonisation' is used persistently against homosexuality.
Zambian Vice-President Christon Tembo said, in October 1998, that people
championing the cause of homosexuals in the country risked being arrested.
Gays and lesbians are perceived traitors of society, a sentiment shared
vociferously by Robert Mugabe, Prime Minister of Zimbabwe (see for example
"No Freedom for Gays In Mugabe's Zimbabwe," Herald Tribune,
16 July 1998). In a strange resonance to Malaysia, Zimbabwe's first
president, Rev. Canaan Banana, has recently been on trial on charges
of sodomy.
What is a homosexual to do in this context? What is to be done?
How does she or he respond to the fact that in so many places around
the world, homosexuality is constantly thrust forward as a demon in
times of crisis or when there is some religious, political or cultural
reason to do so? How does a homosexual respond to the fact that in March
1998 in Afghanistan, five men were brutally crushed to death
by a wall for committing sodomy? Or the sobering fact that according
to Luiz Mott, author of Epidemic of Hate (1996), a Brazilian
homosexual is murdered every four days out of homophobic hatred? William
Yang, the Australian gay activist has answered this by saying (Sydney
Star Observer, 13 August 1998): 'Being a gay man, you have to be
politicised in some way, otherwise you're a walking victim'. This
is how the homosexual is activated. It is a response to implicit socio-legal,
political, cultural and religious ostracisation and oppression.
Homophobia, or directed hatred against 'other' sexualities, is utilised
in the battle of cultural, religious and national purity. For many
political leaders in Asia and Africa it is a postcolonial stance,
a defense against the threat of perceived Western cultural imperialism
brought to the non-Western world through technology and capital. Sexuality
is seen as an element in the construction and imagining of cultural
borders, a barrier constructed to preserve indigenousness.
Homosexuality
in this sense is regarded as a 'globalised' Western virus that corrupts
the local. However, there are in reality no borders when it comes
to sexuality. The torture and murder of Matthew Shepherd illustrates
that the presence of hatred towards homosexuals exists in the heart
of the world's most vocal and chauvinist democracy.
According to some commentators there is a global war against homosexuality
(Melbourne Star Observer, 30 October 1998; also see 'The War over Gays'
issue of Time, 26 October 1998). It can be witnessed in conservative
and reactionary attacks upon homosexuality in many cultures, including:
the United States with fundamentalist Christian groups (for example,
'Religious Rights Launches A New Anti-Gay Crusade,' (Herald Tribune,
16 July 1998); in Fiji where the latest drafting of the constitution
caused immense controversy because of the inclusion of sexual orientation
as a basis for non-discrimination (it was later dropped); in China
where gays are often detained in jail for social gatherings; in Romania
where gays have been tortured. Whether in the developed or underdeveloped
world, in Asia, Africa, Europe or South America, homosexual oppression
and persecution is present (Amnesty International, 1994, 1997; Human
Rights Watch, 1998).
The hard fact is that sexual cleansing is just as real as ethnic
cleansing, only there is a silence about the former. The American,
Nobel Prize winning author Toni Morrison has commented that 'Race
is the least reliable information you can have about someone. It's real
information, but it tells you next to nothing' (Time International,
19 January 1998). Ethnic and sexual cleansing take place because of
complex histories and traditions. It is not just about the colour of
skin or the inflection of voice. It goes beyond stereotypes. These kinds
of 'cleansings' are bound up in questions of purity and dominance.
It is all about cleansing the 'other' wherever it is found. And it is
about making the 'other', in this case, the homosexual person, the so-called
enemyof the state, the family and the individual.
As we draw toward the beginning of the twenty first century there are
many mixed messages for homosexual people. On a positive note,
there are some signs that homosexuality is receiving much-needed attention
on the international scene. In October 1998, for example, the United
Nations High Commissioner for Human Rights, Mrs Mary Robinson, met with
representatives of the International Lesbian and Gay Association to
discuss the need to place homosexuality within the ambit of the United
Nations. Also in October 1998, in South Africa, which has
the first constitution in the world that affirms equality for homosexuals,
old apartheid laws that criminalised homosexuality were at last removed.
However, on the downside there is persistent homophobia and
heterosexism in Western and non-Western cultures, which translates
into the apartheid of homosexuality. Thus, coequal with an emerging
gay and lesbian voice in most parts of the world there is a critical
tension evident in anti-homosexual measures and rhetoric. Oliver Phillips
(1997:484) in his analysis of this phenomenon in Zimbabwe concludes
'What is being more actively censured... is the identity of being lesbian
or gay, for it is this identification of sexuality as signifying
a social truth, and defining a particular lifestyle, which seems to
carry the most significance'.
This view
can be applied to Indonesia, Singapore, Australia and other polities
in the world. On an international level, there is a war being waged
regarding gay and lesbian issues (Melbourne Star Observer, 30 October,
1998). Evidence for such a war exists in some recent studies.
These include The Socio-legal Control of Homosexuality by Donald
J West and Richard Green, and The Global Emergence of Gay and
Lesbian Politics by Barry D Adam et al.
However,
there remain many regions and countries in the world that require further
research, including Southeast Asia. Research has only just begun to
reveal the extent of the apartheid of homosexuality.
References
Adam, B. D. , Duyvendak, J. W. & Krouwel, A. (eds.), The Global
Emergence of Gay and Lesbian Politics, Temple University Press, Philadelphia,
1999
Amnesty International, Breaking the Silence, Amnesty International,
New York, 1994
Amnesty International, Breaking the Silence: Human Rights Violations
Based on Sexual Orientation, Amnesty International UK, London, 1997
Herald Tribune, 16 July 1998
Human Rights Watch, 'Lesbian and Gay Rights', Human Rights World Watch
Report, Human Rights Watch, New York, 1998.
Anwar, I. The Asian Renaissance, Times Book International, Singapore
& Kuala Lumpur, 1996.
Melbourne Star Observer, 30 October 1998.
Mott, L. Epidemic of Hate: Violations of the Human Rights of Gay Men,
Lesbians and Transvestites in Brazil, Grupo Gay da Bahia, Sal vador
Bahia, 1996.
Newsplanet, 17 November 1998.
Phillips, O., 'Zimbabwean Law and the Production of a White Man's Disease',
Social and Legal Studies, 6 (4), pp. 471-491, 1997.
Stychin, C. A Nation by Right, National Cultures, Sexual Identity Politics
and the Discourse of Rights, Temple University Press, Philadelphia,
1998.
Sydney Star Observer, 13 August 1998.
The Weekend Australian, 7-8 November 1998.
Time, 26 October 1998.
Time, 16 November 1998.
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West, D. J. & Green, R. The Sociolegal Control of Homosexuality,
Plenum, New York, 1997.
Des Moines
Register (Iowa, USA) (E-MAIL: letters@news.dmreg.com )
August
16, 2000
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(Editorial)
Sordid Trial Shows Hypocrisy of Making Sexuality a Crime
by Rekha Basu
A court
case in the Asian nation of Malaysia ended last week with a stunning
nine-year-sentence for a man who, until two years ago, was being groomed
to lead his country. And it comes with a cautionary note about what
can happen when draconian laws are allowed to remain on the books.
Anwar Ibrahim,
52, Malaysia's former deputy prime minister, wasn't accused of taking
bribes, torturing opponents or rigging elections. His alleged offense?
Sodomy. In Malaysia, you can actually go to prison for having a same-sex
relationship (even a consensual one), though Anwar maintained the charges
against him were false.
And guess
where else you could be convicted of the same thing? Eighteen American
states still have anti-sodomy laws on their books. Five of them criminalize
same-sex activity only. The other 13 apply equally to consensual acts
between a man and a woman. For the moment, Iowa isn't among them, but
don't take anything for granted. This year's Iowa Republican Party platform
calls for reinstating anti-sodomy laws. Some of those laws carry civil
fines. Some have jail time. Though very few such cases are actually
being prosecuted, the laws still pose a significant threat because sodomy
charges can be used for political ends, according to David Elliot, a
spokesman for the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. One example he
offers: Arizona's anti-sodomy law was recently invoked when an openly
gay Republican Arizona congressman named Jim Kolbe was invited to address
the Republican convention in Philadelphia. An anti-gay group, the American
Family Association, called for Kolbe to be arrested on his return to
Arizona.
Politics
are what critics say were at the root of the charges against Anwar in
Malaysia, a nation of 22 million and a parliamentary democracy. Anwar's
supporters, including international human-rights organizations, have
insisted from the start that the accusations were bogus in an
effort by a vengeful government and politically manipulated judiciary
to silence a popular opponent. Anwar, the married father of six and
a scholar of Islam, was being groomed to take over from Malaysian Prime
Minister Mahathir Mohamad when he broke with him over the Asian economic
crisis.
Anwar was
dismissed in 1998, and has since been carrying the torch for the opposition.
He's capable of turning out rallies of 30,000 people. The case against
him began with three or four men claiming to have had sex with Anwar.
Most of them eventually retracted, saying they were coerced, according
to Zama Coursen-Neff of Human Rights Watch in New York.
It finally
came down to the testimony of his wife's former driver, who had a little
trouble keeping his dates straight. Last year, Anwar was tried and sentenced
to six years for allegedly trying to interfere with the police investigation
into the sodomy case. The latest conviction brings to 15 years his total
prison time.
This is
part of what's wrong with criminalizing sexuality, a practice that violates
international United Nations human-rights conventions, but is on the
books in too many countries to count. Just how do you defend yourself
against such charges? What witnesses would there even be to help prove
them false? And what's the point?
In this
country, every news report about some anti-gay politician's gay family
member reflects a greater disconnect between reality and some of our
laws and public policies. First it was Phyllis Schlafly spewing the
anti-gay rhetoric, who turned out to have a gay son. Then we learned
House Speaker Newt Gingrich, who took the hard line on civil rights
for gay people, has a gay sister. Next up was the late Republican Congressman
Sonny Bono, who opposed a bill banning discrimination on the basis of
sexual orientation when he was on the House Judiciary Committee. His
daughter, Chastity, is gay. And now we find out that vice-presidential
candidate Dick Cheney has a gay daughter. Cheney reportedly cast a number
of anti-gay votes while in Congress.
The fact
is, whether or not we know it, just about every one of us has a gay
friend or relative. And none of us wants our children, our friends'
children, our friends or our siblings to be turned away from housing
or restaurants or jobs, denied the right to raise children or to serve
in the military or be subject to criminal prosecution because of their
personal lives. Isn't it time to end the hypocrisy and set our laws
right? Or will it take a sordid trial like Malaysia's before people
see the foolishness in them?
A Register
Columnist Rekha Basu can be reached at basur@news.dmreg.com
Reuters
November
30, 2000
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Malaysian transsexuals act for reel in documentary
by Marty
Logan
Kuala Lumpur - Every day Malaysia's transsexual prostitutes face risks, from contracting
HIV when they meet clients in seedy back rooms to being hurt in violent
police raids. Sex worker Danisha decided to take one more risk by acting
in a docu-drama to educate one of the country's more vulnerable groups
about safe sex. "Being transsexual like me is not an easy thing
to do," Danisha told an audience after a screening of "Bukak
Api" in Kuala Lumpur this week to mark World AIDS Day on Friday.
"To face it every day is very stressful for me, but the important
thing is I'm very proud to be myself," he told the audience of
about 200 people, mostly young and mostly not transsexual, during a
discussion.
"Bukak Api," which literally translates as "striking
a light" and is popular slang for having sex, features real prostitutes
working in Kuala Lumpur's seedy Chow Kit area.
A transsexual is someone who "feels, thinks, acts and wants to
be the other sex, either female or male," while a transvestite
is a man who will occasionally dress in women's clothes for a thrill,
Yee Khim Chong, a communications coordinator for local support group
Pink Triangle, told Reuters.
The movie showed a wide range of the transsexuals' lives -- liaisons
with clients in dark, grimy staircases, violent police raids, aging
former streetworkers working as seamstresses and many prostitutes' longing
for their families left behind in Malaysia's villages.
SHUNNED BY SOCIETY
During the discussion after the film, transsexuals vented their anger
at being pushed away by society, leaving prostitution as one of the
few avenues of employment. "None of us like to be sex workers,
but jobs are very difficult," said Khartini Slamah, dressed in
a floor-length "baju kurung" (traditional dress), make-up
and jewellery. "Even if we have qualifications and education ...
if you have a male IC (identity card) they want us to dress as a man," he said.
Pink Triangle, which financed the film and organised the discussion,
puts Malaysia's transsexual community at 20,000, of which about 65 percent
are sex workers. Yee said there was a long list of mainly derogatory
terms for transsexuals, including "lady-boy" and "lady-with-bell."
There are
no reliable statistics on how many transsexuals are infected with HIV
-- the virus that leads to AIDS, because the government places transsexuals
in a group with homosexuals, Yee said. The Ministry of Health says 35,547
people in Malaysia have been infected with HIV to date, of whom 4,122
have developed AIDS and 3,111 have died.
According to the United Nations, Malaysia ranks fifth in the Asia-Pacific
for the number of people infected per capita. Cambodia is number one,
Thailand number two, followed by Myanmar and India. Singapore is ranked
tenth.
BE AWARE, STAY ALIVE
While Chow Kit's sex workers are fairly well informed, Yee said in Malaysia
generally "we can only say there's an awareness about the term
HIV/AIDS, but whether people understand how it's transmitted and whether
they practise safe sex, we don't know."
He said efforts by the umbrella group Malaysian Aids Council "have
opened up the eyes of people in power" about HIV/AIDS. "I
normally do not care for NGOs," Prime Minister Mahathir Mohamad
said in September, "especially those which only know how to demand
others do their bidding, but I make an exception with the Malaysian
AIDS Council."
Mahathir's daughter Marina is president of the council, which is expected
to release a report focused on discrimination against gay people on
Friday.Malaysia's laws do not refer specifically to homosexuality. But
sexual acts "against the order of nature" are punishable by
up to 20 years in prison and whipping. These outlawed sexual acts include
anal and oral sex.
The Guardian,
London ( http://www.guardian.co.uk )
November
2, 2001
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Malaysian PM rebuked for threat to UK gay ministers
by Nicholas
Watt, political correspondent
Britain
issued a rebuke last night to the veteran Malaysian prime minister,
Mahathir Mohamad, after he threatened to expel gay British ministers
if they visited his country with their partners.
In a terse
statement, the Foreign Office said: "Jack Straw strongly considers
that people's private lives are private." His remarks were seen
as support for Ben Bradshaw, the openly gay Foreign Office minister,
whose portfolio includes Malaysia.
Foreign
Office sources insisted that Mr Bradshaw, who met the Malaysian high
commissioner to London within weeks of his appointment in June, would
continue to cover the country.
The diplomatic
spat flared up after Dr Mohamad threatened to throw out gay British
ministers if they "come here bringing their boyfriend".
In an
interview with Radio 4's Today programme Dr Mohamad, who had his former
deputy, Anwar Ibrahim, jailed on charges of sodomy and corruption, said
that homosexuality was unacceptable in his predominantly Muslim country.
"The British people accept homosexual ministers but if they ever
come here bringing their boyfriend along, we will throw them out,"
he said.
Peter Tatchell,
the gay rights activist, said his comments were not surprising in the
light of Malaysia's poor human rights record. "In Malaysia, a consenting
gay relationship is punishable by up to 20 years jail plus flogging
and this is probably one of the harshest penalties for gay relations
anywhere in the world," he said. Mr Tatchell warned that the prime
minister's remarks showed the nature of some of the countries involved
in the international coalition against terrorism.
Some of
Britain's "allies" were "very unstable, very unreliable
friends. "It does appear that the Malaysian prime minister does
appear to be dictating to our government who it should send as its representatives,"
he said. Supporters of Mr Ibrahim rejected the charges against him,
insisting that he was imprisoned after he dared to challenge the prime
minister's authority.
Dr Mohamad
claimed that the due process of law had been followed. "We can't
have a deputy who is homosexual, not in this country," he said.
"So we had to take action. In this country a homosexual is not
acceptable as the prime minister." Malaysia has condemned the September
11 attacks on Washington and New York.
But Dr
Mohamad, who is under pressure from opposition Islamist parties, is
refusing to support the bombing of Afghanistan. "We do not believe
that attacking Afghanistan is going to help," he said. "If
we are seen to be going all out unthinkingly supporting America we will
lose support, even from our own people. They have to find the roots
of the problem. People don't blow themselves up for nothing. They must
be thinking about something."
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Was
I Born to Be This Way ?The Thoughts of a Muslim Gay In An Oppressed
Society
by
Mel Ayu (Mel_Ayu99@Hotmail.com)
Being
gay and a Muslim (and worse still, living in an oppressed society) means
always being in such a confused state of mind. Any Muslim man knows
that being gay is a NO-NO in Muslim society. Gays are condemned for
a one-way ticket to hell ! On the other hand, he knows his sexual tendencies
so where does he seek help? There is no such thing as a gay Muslim
priest for therapy, or one to turn to for help. So it ends up that
he lives in a deep closet. Either he is satisfied with only fantasies
and make believes, or to cover up his true personality by a marriage
of convenience and lead a secret double life.
A closeted gay Muslim is probably no different from any other closeted
gay person in the world. Fears of being "exposed" to society,
friends and family are fundamentally the same. Being in a strongly
conservative
religion, a closeted gay Muslim has a terrible traumatic conflict
with one's beliefs. Especially if one was brought up in a religious
family.
You strongly believe in your faith, and practice what this faith asks
you to do: regular prayers, fasting and so forth. You also believe what
your faith tells you about gay sex and gay relationships: they are a
great sin and you must stay away from it. There is that stigma that
if ever you commit to any form of gay activities, all your good deeds
called by your faith would go down the drain and you are condemned to
hell. And yet, you can't understand it, because, you recognize what
you are, and how could you be condemned to hell for what you were
made to be. It is so confused in this closet.
I have fully recognized and fully accepted myself as being gay. I do
not get turned on by women at all, no matter how voluptuous. I have
been to one famous striptease joint in Houston called "Rick's Bar" which
had really beautiful and very sensuous women but they did absolutely
nothing to my little friend down there! If I had been to a male striptease
place probably I would have been squirming in my seat!
I am the last born, the youngest, and the only son in the family. I
have 2 sisters ahead of me so you can imagine how pampered and what
a spoiled brat I must have been. We lived in Singapore during the
very early years of my life, before moving to Malaysia where my
dad was transferred as part and parcel of his job at that time. Being
the only boy in the family I was left on my own to be very much a loner.
I never seemed to go out and play with the boys, instead I seemed to
make friends with girls much more easily.
I could not understand why. Ever since I could remember I had realized
my sexual inclination/affinity towards my same gender . In other
words, right from when I was a very young child. Of course, at that
age I did not know what sex was all about. It was really more of this
magnetic attraction to being held and cuddled by big muscular figures
of a man such as Tarzan!
Finally, the big day came and I had my very first ejaculation. My very
first orgasm was a result of an imaginary romance with a man, in my
little boy's bed. Of course, I was quite scared and did not understand
why but
there a current of energy drained through my body. I told my mum about
it (but of course, I never told her how it came about) and she said
that I was growing up and that was all part of me becoming a man.
My parents did notice my "softie" nature when I was a child.
I never played with boys at home or at school, all my friends then
were
girls, so they got quite worried. My dad transferred me from a co-ed
primary school to an all-boys school and then I was selected to
enroll into an "elite" all-boys full boarding school, a very
famous school in Malaysia.
It is difficult to grow up and live being gay in this part of the world.
Especially in a country where it is a complete taboo. The constant
pressure from family, friends and peers wondering why a guy remains
single sometimes would just drive him to madness and cries with
no tears.
I grew up most of the time always thinking "Why am I like this?".
Why my little friend could not respond when I look at the Playboy magazines,
and instead it needed no help at all when I flip through the Playgirl
magazines. Could it be because I was born with it, or could it be
the environment I grew up in and the upbringing that nurtured my
sexuality, or could it be a combination of both? Whatever the reason,
I understand that being gay is to be branded as "abnormal"
by Muslim society, even by the most "progressive" in Muslim
society who make it appear as if an alternative gay lifestyle is okay
to them.
I guessed the most feared feeling that a gay closeted Muslim would
have is the fear of being "discovered" that he or she is
gay.
So much so, that total discretion is all important and would dare not
appear in the public gay areas such as the gay bars. There is always
this fear that you might bump into a nephew or an uncle there, or an
office mate, or anyone that you know for that matter. If that happens,
you would think that would be the end of this life.
What I can say here is food for thought to all the closeted Muslim
gays. So what if you do bump into people you know at those places?
Would you
think that they would tell? Would they not also think to themselves, "If I tell, people would ask me the same question; what were you
doing there?". People like us are very discreet about our lifestyles.
So, truly, there is really nothing to fear. You will be surprised that, even
if you do bump into say, a nephew, both of you will be so happy that
you both can share your "secrets" together. You will
feel so much more relieved that at least someone you already knew
is
in your "circle of friends" to confide with.
Why is it then it cannot be absorbed in the "norm" stream?
Their reasoning boils down to nature. It is clear in nature that if
homosexuality was the norm in any species that species would die out
in a generation. Therefore homosexuality must, by their definition,
be considered abnormal and contrary to the existence and continuation
of any species.
That is why they believe God forbids homosexuality. They refer to a
story in the Koran which parallels the one in the Bible about Sodom
and Gomorrah--Prophet Yusuf or Joseph, take your pick--whereby it came
to a stage where all the men were attracted to their own gender and
that the women might never reproduce, so threatening the species . Since
it has been mentioned in the Koran and the Bible, it means that homosexuality
is not just a recent development. It has been in existence for a
long time; it could well have been in-born for some individuals. I understand
that being gay is not an accepted thing in Muslim society, on the other
hand, society just cannot blame me for not being able to be anything
but gay.
Even being closeted and very discreet with one's "secret" personality, sometimes, accidents do happen.
I remember one incident that happened to me that caught me off guard.
I was in a seminar, and
it was an active participating seminar. During the "breaking of
the ice" in the beginning of the seminar, each participant was
supposed to say something about another participant, such as "I
like Abdul because he seems very friendly".
So, when it came to my turn, without thinking, I automatically said,
"I like Chris because I think he is cute". Oh boy, what
a blunder. That was an immediate give-away. Everyone chuckled and
the seminar mediator (a lady) had the cheek to ask me so openly in
front
of everybody, "Are you gay?".
Gosh! Lucky for me, I was quite witty and I replied immediately, "Oh
no! I am into animals". That certainly shut her up and everyone
just burst into laughter. Since then, I have learned how to handle
the
situation if somehow, by accident, my flamboyancy shows.
The world of the Internet now has opened up a new spectrum and opportunities
for the gay Muslims to "come out". I, for one, have never
had the guts to "hang out" at gay bars to meet people like
us, and I have missed out on feeling accepted amongst people like us.
The Internet provides that initial encouragement. I found several Personals
Ads and I started to communicate, just to learn and exchange thoughts
with people who are already "out". I began to understand the
experiences they went through so that I could prepare myself too, if
I did "come out". Once comfort had been attained, the encouragement
grew higher to communicate with those into gay sex, and finally the
true sexuality gets into practice.
The Muslim law on gay sex is very stringent indeed and perhaps could
be termed as "barbaric" to the Western world, who always
seems to look at the Muslim world as barbaric nations. The Muslim
law applies to Muslims only. For example, if I am caught with my
pants down with a non-Muslim guy, if found guilty, I will be sentenced
to 20 years in jail plus 5 strokes of the cane on my butt! But, my non-Muslim
bed partner gets off scott free. It may sound serious indeed and the
law does sound harsh, but, as harsh as the law sounds, it is fair enough
to a point that it is very difficult to prove anyone of such offence.
All the reason why you have never heard of anyone being sentenced
for the "crime" here before. Even, the current trial of
the deposed Deputy PM Anwar for his alleged sodomy case will be a tough
case for the district attorney office to prosecute. As weird as it may
sound, the law says to prove that one has committed gay sex, you
must have at least 4 eye witnesses who actually saw the act ! So,
how in the world could one get 4 eye witnesses for that unless it was
a set-up or you have some kinky voyeurs on a cheap thrill ride !
Funny thing, you sometimes wonder how a certain event in history could
change a society. The current case of Malaysia's deposed deputy Prime
Minister (Anwar Ibrahim) on trial for sodomy caught the public eye
domestically, as well as internationally. One would think or predict
that such a blow in a Muslim society would get everyone rushing back
into their closets for fear of the authorities. Surprisingly you
see so much more of Malay/Muslim gays beginning to surface in the local
gayscene. I guess people are more or less aware of the situation
thinking "if a respected man in a high position does it then there
is nothing wrong with me,".
So one can assume that it is okay after all. In fact, it is so okay
that when I was at a "straight" bar recently the bartender
asked me where was I going afterwards. Without any reservations I just
said that I was going to the gay disco in a tone loud enough for anyone
around to hear. I felt quite okay saying it now. If that had happened
a year ago I would have dug a hole right where I was when I said it
and jumped into it.
I can see that there is a little bit of "acceptance" and
tolerance now in Muslim society in Malaysia. While the government
will never support it openly, neither do they support the anti-gay activist
groups. I believe the Muslim gays in Malaysia will do just fine in the
years to come. Certainly I do not foresee any kind of a gay pride
parade coming up soon, but there will be one on one fine day.
Time Magazine Asia
June
5, 2001
6
Coming Out in the Open--Despite the Persecution of Anwar
by David Liebhold
Kuala Lumpur - Critics of the Malaysian court decision last month to convict Anwar
Ibrahim (former Deputy Prime Minister of Malaysia) on sodomy charges argue
that the prosecution was all about politics. The battleground was homosexuality,
however, and the charge against Anwar was "carnal
intercourse against the order of nature."
But while Anwar's nine-year sentence sent shivers down the backs
of many Malaysians, one group that hasn't been cowed is the country's
gay community. Indeed, it seems to be growing. "More
are coming out-especially young people," says Ashley Lee, an openly
gay 26-year-old journalist. "Gay clubs, discos and saunas are sprouting
up all over the place." Anwar's two-year sodomy trial even boosted
Ashley's sex life, he claims: "A lot of guys started experimenting
with gay sex." Many Malaysian gays initially feared that Anwar's
prosecution would mark the start of a crackdown against homosexuality.
Such concerns have proven unfounded. Despite a growing number of
gay bars and "cruising" areas in Kuala Lumpur and other cities,
the police rarely launch raids. "The government knows there
are a lot of gay people here," says Douglas Chee, the regional
manager of a multinational company. "But they don't really bother
us much." And despite Anwar's harsh sentence and an ongoing Islamic
resurgence in the country, Malaysian gays are becoming more open
about their sexuality.
That
is partly due to the Internet, where popular chat groups like "Gaymalaysia"
and "Sayangabang" (darling brother) have provided meeting
'places' for homosexuals who would not otherwise dare to mix in
public. It may also be related to Malaysians' increased exposure
to foreign attitudes, as more students go abroad and more tourists
come in, according to Hadi Zachariah, a sociologist at Kuala Lumpur's
University of Malaya.
Two years of regular references to sodomy in the mass media also
appear to have left an impression on the local population. "The
Anwar controversy has provoked unparalleled discussions on sex and
sexuality-sparing not even the minds of the young, who demanded
to know what the fuss around sodomy was all about," Tan Beng Hui,
an activist on women's issues, has written. But there's no denying
the
fact that Islam-to which 57% of the population adhere, at least
on paper-regards sex between men as a grave sin.
The Islamic Affairs Department operates a kind of morality police,
with the power to arrest Muslims for transgressions against religion.
Usually in response to tip-offs, officers arrest several gays each
month,
generally for being in a room together. "I know there is very little
effect," concedes Abdul Kadir Che Kob, the department's head of
education and research for the Kuala Lumpur area. "Only one in
100 changes." (see following story)
Yet despite the Anwar affair, sex remains a touchy subject in Malaysia.
AIDS prevention groups are forced to operate almost covertly, while
the Department of Health's public education mostly stops short of explaining
that condoms can prevent the transmission of HIV. "On the one hand,
we have the gay community that wants more rights," says Nik Fahmee,
a program director with the Malaysian AIDSCouncil. "But in Malaysia
you cannot talk about sex, so we find it difficult to talk about HIV
and AIDSs."
That said, official prudishness is selective. A day before Anwar's
arrest, the government-controlled press published lurid front-page
stories
on two of Anwar's alleged victims, who were charged with committing
acts of "gross indecency" and went on to explain them in graphic
detail. A few days later Prime Minister Mahathir Mohamad told gaping
reporters that during the act of sodomy, Anwar had been "masturbating
this man."
The charges brought against Anwar are rarely raised in Malaysia.
There is no centralized record of sodomy cases that have come before
the Malaysian courts, but lawyers say there have been only a few instances
concerning consenting adults, and no one can recall a sentence of more
than three years.
Given this official lenience, many gays believe it's better to keep
a low profile than risk a backlash. But there is a more outspoken
faction. "Whose business is it what two people do in the privacy
of their bedroom?" asks Chee, who says gays should press for the
sex laws to be changed. "They call it 'sodomy,' but for me it
is two people expressing their love."
While Islamic leaders may never accept homosexuality, there are deep
wells of tolerance in the ethnically diverse nation-even among the Muslim
majority, who are mostly Malays. "There is a Malay culture
and there is an Islamic culture," says sociologist Hadi, "and
they are not quite the same. Malay culture is very tolerant." Of
homosexuality, that is. Political dissent might be a different matter.
With reporting by Mageswary Ramakrishnan/Kuala Lumpur
Time
Magazine Asia
June
5, 2001
7
'Homosexuality is a Crime Worse Than Murder' An Interview with Malaysia's
Morality Police
by Mageswary Ramakrishnan
Officer Abdul Kadir Che Kob describes homosexuals as "shameless people"
and homosexuality as a "sin worse than murder."
Abdul Kadir is head of education and research at Malaysia's Islamic Affairs
Department, which operates as the morality police with 50 enforcement
officers across the country. These officers are empowered to arrest Muslims
-- including unmarried couples, homosexuals, transvestites and transsexuals
-- suspected of breaking Islamic laws. Last year, 111 men were arrested
in Kuala Lumpur for "attempting to commit homosexual acts."
Abdul Kadir spoke recently to TIME contributor Mageswary Ramakrishnan.
Excerpts:
TIME: How does Islam perceive homosexuality?
Abdul Kadir: Homosexuality is forbidden in Islam. It is a crime worse
than murder.
TIME: What do you think of homosexuals?
Abdul Kadir: They are shameless people.
TIME: Can it be wrong for two people to be in love?
Abdul Kadir: Love? How can men have sex with men? God did not make them
this way. This is all Western influence -- and the gay people expect
us to be open- minded?
TIME: Your department made 111 arrests in Kuala Lumpur last year compared
with 165 in 1998 and 166 in 1997. Is this an indication that the number
of gays is decreasing?
Abdul Kadir: No, I don't think so. Perhaps they have become smarter
in avoiding us. Maybe the department received fewer complaints. We only
act based on complaints. It is difficult to act otherwise. How would
we know what is happening? We don't know what is happening behind closed
doors.
TIME: What do you do when you receive a tip-off?
Abdul Kadir: Usually people give us precise information like where these
men are. We then go to the place, say, a hotel room. We knock and force
them to open the door, but they are usually fully clothed by then. We
still charge them for attempting to commit homosexual acts.
TIME: What about those who say that people have a right to choose who
they want to be with?
Abdul Kadir: What right are you talking about? This is a sin, end of
story.
TIME: What about gay women?
Abdul Kadir: We have never arrested lesbian women. There are no complaints,
maybe because it is difficult to gauge who is a lesbian.
TIME: What happens when gay men are arrested?
Abdul Kadir: We charge them in court, but before that we put them through
what we call Islamic counseling sessions. They recite the Koran everyday
and we will tell them they have committed a grave sin.
TIME: Do these people change?
Abdul Kadir: It is difficult to make them change; it has to come from
within. I know there is very little effect. Out of 100 people, only
one will change.
TIME: If your approach is not working, then why not abandon it?
Abdul Kadir: No, we have to tell these people they are doing something
very wrong in the eyes of Allah [God]. It is a major sin. Gay people
think being gay is a fashion.
TIME: Malaysia has three major ethnic groups -- Malays, Chinese and
Indians. Is homosexuality more prevalent in some groups than others?
Abdul Kadir: It is prevalent among the Malays, I have to admit.
TIME: If homosexuality is just a fashion, why do you think so many Malay
men are willing to risk arrest by your department?
Abdul Kadir: Like I said, this is a Western influence. They also operate
very smoothly. Even if we know they are gay, we cannot arrest them unless
we receive information about them.
March
20, 2002
8
Whats vulgar?
by MARINA MAHATHIR (daughter of the Prime Minister)
I HAVE seen the 'Vagina Monologues' (feminist play from New York).
More than
a year ago, I saw it in Manila. And I loved it. It made me laugh, it
made me cry, it made me want to rush out and write my own monologue.
The hall I was in was chock-a-block full, mainly with women who at the
end gave the three actresses who performed a standing ovation.
Was it vulgar? No, not unless youre a very superficial and shallow
person. An intelligent person would realise that it was a play about
the female condition, the joy and the pain, the sad and the funny, and
everything else in between. What woman would not have nodded in recognition
at the monologue about the cold instruments we have to endure every
time we go to the gynaecologist? Who would not have giggled at the truths
in the one about the furtive way we talk about our body? Which woman
would not have stifled a gasp upon realising that she is not the only
woman in the world to sound like that?
The Vagina Monologues may be many things but vulgar it is not. So who
are these people who insist that I cannot see it because it is too vulgar?
I have seen it and I dont find it vulgar. Why should some official
tell me any different?
Similarly with all those people who say that Malaysians are just not
ready for the Vagina Monologues--how do they know? When will we be ready?
Will we ever be ready if we are not allowed to see it? I find it exceedingly
offensive and patronising that there are people who think that they
can decide whether I am ready or not to see a play. Maybe they are not
ready for it. If so, why assume that other people are not either?
I fail to understand why a play by women about women cannot be shown
to women. What are people afraid we would do after we see it? Take off
our clothes in public? Is a showing of the Vagina Monologues really
going to change things in this country? Is it going to bring down the
government?
In Jakarta, the showing of the Vagina Monologues (in Bahasa Indonesia
mind you!) was front page news with a picture and a caption. Obviously
there are more sophisticated and secure people in our neighbouring country.
The logic that governs this type of censorship is one that eludes me.
It is the same kind of logic that causes nipples to be blacked out in
womens magazines and sometimes whole pages ripped out. And yet
I have seen full frontal photographs of mens genitalia in photo
magazines that escaped the censors notice.
Is that because they only look for body parts in womens magazines?
Id like to know who has the job of blacking out all the nipples
in these magazines. If theyre women, dont they ever wonder
why they need to do it?
And if theyre men, are they having fun? Id like to see the
brief they get when they are recruited for this job. Do they get courses
on how to recognise "vulgar" female body parts?
There are really two causes for concern in this issue. The first is
that some anonymous people are given the authority to decide what we
can and cannot see or hear based on some arbitrary criteria. What one
person may deem vulgar may not be to another. Should this be decided
based on personal biases or is there a more objective way of looking
at it? Is it worthwhile making a big fuss over something that, realistically
speaking, only a small group of people is ever going to see? The result
of all this brouhaha is that a lot of people I know who would ordinarily
never go to the theatre now say they want to see it.
But more importantly, why is it that almost anything that is censored
has to do with womens bodies? No vaginas, not even to talk about
them (by the way, no vaginas have ever actually been on display in the
Vagina Monologues anywhere in the world), no nipples (even cancerous
ones), no nothing. I think women should feel insulted at these indignities
heaped on our bodies. Has the other sex forgotten out of whose bodies
(and indeed whose vaginas) they came out? Does that memory make them
feel ashamed? Or is that the crux of the problem?
Perhaps the truth is that when women have the freedom to talk about
themselves, to share their most intimate secrets with other women, a
community is formed. This community starts to feel empowered because
each individual member feels that she is not alone. When this feeling
grows and grows, it becomes a powerful force for change. And thats
frightening to some people.
Why let women compare notes about the oppression they suffer? They might
demand equal rights! Why let them seek solace and comfort in knowing
that other women have suffered violence but have come out strengthened
from the ordeal? They might start questioning the "right"
of men to beat women! Oh dear, cant have that!
Hypocrisy abounds in this story. At a performance of one of the monologues
at a gathering of supposed intellectuals, one man became so incensed
he got up and shouted an obscenity, the slang Malay word for vagina,
at the actress.
I dont recall anyone censuring him! Worse, the monologue she was
performing was not in the least bit raunchy. It was the one of the Bosnian
woman who was raped during the war there. It is extremely sad and painful
to listen to. Perhaps the mans obscenity was an outburst of shame
at the fact that Muslim men failed to protect Muslim women during that
war, and that non-Muslims are now leading the fight for justice for
those rape victims. It makes me wonder how we are going to deal with
the stories of the similar use of rape as a weapon of war among the
warring tribes in Afghanistan.
I think if our powers-that-be insist that they should be the arbiters
of what is vulgar or not in the arts, they should come out with a whole
list of what is deemed vulgar and what is not and make it public. Then
we can all have a healthy debate about it and come up with some consensus
about what is okay or not.
That should not be too difficult. After all, the word "sodomy"
has long passed into acceptable public usage.
----------------------------
(That said, official prudishness is selective. A day before Anwar's
arrest, the government-controlled press published lurid front-page stories
on two of Anwar's alleged victims, who were charged with committing
acts of "gross indecency" and went on to explain them in graphic
detail. A few days later Prime Minister Mahathir Mohamad told gaping
reporters that during the act of sodomy, Anwar had been "masturbating
this man.")
Malaysia
Kini, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
http://www.malaysiakini.com/letters/200307310034952.php
July 31,
2003
9
What
some religions say about homosexuality
Gay Malaysian
I would like to provide further comments on the letter by Onyos Felk.
I
am a gay
Malaysian currently studying in England, practising in the
Zen Buddhist tradition and in a homosexual relationship. First
off, I would like
to point out that the three main Buddhist traditions - Mahayana,
Theravada and Vajrayana - are generally (though not always)
quite
tolerant of
homosexuality, particularly so here in the West.
To provide
a sample viewpoint from a Theravada Buddhist in Malaysia, I quote
from
a
letter written by Ven Dr K Sri Dhammananda in response to
a gay Singaporean: "The
third of the five precepts we recite in daily Buddhist practice is:
undertake the training rule to refrain from sexual misconduct. By misconduct,
it is meant behaviour which harms the person who does the act or the
other party. "This in a way means that if both parties are consenting
adults, there is no harm done. In Buddhism we do not consider any action "sinful" in
the sense that we transgress a divine commandment.
We act
wrongly because of ignorance and therefore we commit an Akusala Kamma
(unskilful action)
which delays or interferes with our spiritual progress. "In this
connection, Buddhism does not recognise that marriage is a divinely
ordained institution which suddenly makes sex okay ... Sex is caused
by a craving just like craving for food, liquor, drugs, wealth, power.
Attachment to any of these constitutes Akusala Kamma. Buddhism does
not see homosexuality as wrong and heterosexuality as right. Both are
sexual activity using the body, both are strong expressions of lust
which increase desire for life and therefore trap us longer in Samsara. "We
do not condemn homosexuality as wrong and sinful, but we do not condone
it either, simply because it, like other forms of sex, delays our deliverance
from Samsara.
(Dr K
Sri Dhammananda is a very well known and respected Buddhist leader
in the Malaysian Buddhist community and is the leader
of the Sasana Abhiwurdhi Wardhana which manages the
Buddhist Maha Vihara, founded by the Singhalese community in Malaysia.
He is also the senior
religious adviser to the World Buddhist Sangha Council,
the president of the Malaysia Singapore Sri Lankan Sangha Council
as well as religious
adviser to over 50 different Malaysian Buddhist associations.)
Most Western Buddhist teachers who are dharma heirs (ie trained and
qualified
to pass on the teachings of the Buddha) of their Asian
Buddhist teachers are accepting of homosexual relationships, as long
as they are consensual,
monogamous and based on compassion.
Therefore
a man who has a family and children and indulges in an occasional
fling
or two without the
knowledge of his wife (something that is perhaps
accepted in some parts of Malaysian society) is considered in Buddhist
terms
to be less ethical
than a man who stays committed to another man (or
woman to another woman) in a life-long monogamous relationship. From
a
Christian viewpoint,
the debate on homosexuality is far more intense,
particularly in the West, and has been on-going for over 20 years.
A very
good example
is the recent controversy in the Anglican Church
(the Church of England) which has more than 70 million members
worldwide, where the current
Archbishop of Canterbury (the head of the Church)
Dr
Rowan Williams nominated an openly gay but celibate priest, Dr
Jeffrey John to be
the bishop of Reading, but later had to ask him
to resign because of intense protests from conservative church branches,
particularly in
Africa. Having
being a Christian in Malaysia for many years, my experience is that
the large majority of Christians
in
Malaysia are from the 'conservative
' group which advocate a direct, literal reading
of the bible where homosexuality is clearly prohibited. This
however is not the only viewpoint
on the interpretation of the bible, and there are
many
'liberal' scholars, bishops and clerics in the West that make
an alternative interpretation
which welcomes monogamous, loving homosexual relationships. For example, in the US there is a large schism in the Presbyterian
Church and the
United Methodist Church regarding this issue and
other issues like the ordination of women clergy.
I would
like to stress
that I am not
advocating or promoting homosexuality, rather
stating some facts on this issue from both the Buddhist and Christian
viewpoint. There is
ample quality material available on the Internet
that debates this issue from both supporting and dissenting views
for
all other religions
such as Islam, Hinduism, Sikhism and Bahai. There
are also religious groups that involve gay people from all faiths
in
the West, even including
Islam.
(For example,
al-Fatiha) Last but not least,
it is interesting to note that the Singapore Prime Minister
Goh Chok Tong has admitted
in an interview with Time magazine that Singapore
has begun employing homosexuals within the government, in a
reversal of its previous policy.
However, they have still not considered decriminalising
homosexuality due to pressure from religious groups.
The Star,
Malaysia
http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2003/8/9/nation/5999177&sec=natio
n
9 August
2003
10
Local
churches say no to gay bishop
by Clarence
Chua
Petaling Jaya - Christian
churches here have collectively stated that they would
not condone the appointment of homosexuals as church leaders
following the ascension of an openly gay bishop in America. Their
rejection comes
in the wake of the current controversy plaguing the Anglican
Church in America where the Episcopalian House of Bishops voted
62 to 45 that
Rev Canon Gene Robinson of New Hampshire can serve as a
bishop.
Anglican
Bishop of West Malaysia Diocese Rtd Rev Tan Sri Dr Lim
Cheng Ean denounced
the appointment saying, "It is clear that marriage of
the same sex is against the teaching of the scriptures and
we won't condone
it. "We will not communicate with any diocese that has
taken such drastic steps. We won't encourage any relationship
with them." The
selection has also brought heavy fire from churches of other
Christian denominations who stressed the importance of chastity
outside marriage
and repeatedly appealed to the Bible to uphold the view that
homosexuality is sinful.
"It is clearly stated in the
Bible that homosexuality is immoral and unnatural sexual
behaviour is sinful. So how can you
allow a person to be a spiritual head when he is committing
sin? "We
condemn such acts as it does not project a life of holiness," said
the National Evangelical Christian Fellowship Malaysia (NECF)
secretary-general Rev Wong Kim Kong. Council of Churches
Malaysia executive member Anthony
Rao said the move would "divide the church regardless
of which denomination they come from." "The council
has not made a stand on this matter but I am sure that the
general consensus would
be - no gay ministers. Reasons are that the Bible does not
call for it and culturally we are still not ready for it."
Robinson,
a divorced father of two, has been in a committed
male relationship with
Mark Andrews for 14 years. He described his sexual
relationship as "sacramental" and
a reflection of Gods love. Conservative bishops have called
on the Archbishop of Canterbury, head of the worldwide Anglican
Church, to
intervene in what they have called a pastoral emergency.
365Gay.com
http://www.365gay.com/NewsContent/090303malaysia.htm
September
3, 2003
11
Malaysian Leader Attacks Gays & Western 'Homo" Media In National
TV Speech
by Peter
Hacker, Kuala Lumpur
A nationally
televised speech marking Malaysia's national holiday by Prime Minister
Mahathir Mohamad was riddled with anti-gay epithets and threats. Speaking
to a crowd of more than 300,000 following a massive parade in the capital,
and broadcast live throughout the country, Mahathir said Malaysia's
achievements proved its policies worked.
He then
claimed that foreign powers were trying dominate weak countries and
warned that Western influences threatened Malaysia's traditional values.
"Western films idolize sex, violence, murders and wars," said
Mahathir, a critic of U.S.-led globalization. "Now they permit
homosexual practices and accept religious leaders with openly gay lifestyles."
"They are very angry - especially their reporters, many of whom
are homos - when we take legal action against these practices,"
Mahathir
said. Same-sex acts in Malaysia are punishable by up to 20 years in
prison and a flogging. Mahathir warned that "if there are any homosexuals
in Malaysia they had better mend their ways," or face the maximum
prison terms. Mahathir has often denounced homosexuality. In 1998, he
fired his former deputy Anwar Ibrahim for allegedly committing sodomy,
and in 2001, he said Malaysia would expel a homosexual British Cabinet
minister if he visited with his partner. Mahathir will retire in November.
His hand-picked successor, deputy Abdullah Ahmad Badawi says he will
continue the country's strict Moslem prohibitions against homosexuality.
THE ASSOCIATED PRESS
October 31, 2003
12
Asia's
Longest Serving Ruler, Mahathir
Mohamad, Steps
Down
Kuala
Lumpur, Malaysia - Abdullah Ahmad Badawi became Malaysia's
first new prime
minister in a generation Friday, succeeding Mahathir Mohamad whose
last two
weeks in office were overshadowed by remarks about Jews. Mahathir's
retirement after more than 22 years in power ends an era of iconic
Asian leaders -- including Singapore's Lee Kuan Yew, Indonesia's
Suharto
and the Philippines Ferdinand Marcos -- whose long tenures and
strong personal styles left a powerful imprint on the region. Abdullah,
Mahathir's deputy, was sworn in as Malaysia's fifth prime minister
by King Syed
Sirajuddin Putra Jamalullail, the titular head of state, in a
ceremony at the National Palace attended by Mahathir and dozens of
government
dignitaries.
The
region's longest serving elected leader, Mahathir, 77, ruled mostly
Muslim
Malaysia since 1981, spearheading its
rapid transformation from a tin- and rubber-producing backwater
into a
high-tech exporter and one of Southeast Asia's wealthiest and
most
developed
countries. But his successes were tempered by autocratic leanings
and the free use of laws that allowed detention without trial,
forced media
self-censorship and banned opposition rallies ``Champ and Chump,''
said the headline of an editorial in The Guardian newspaper
of London, an example of sort of mixed feelings inspired by Mahathir's
economic
achievements as well as his tendency for outrageous remarks.
Ever
a complex man, Dr. Mahathir's energy and vision, but not his
prejudices,
will be missed,'' The Guardian said. Mahathir said Friday
that putting his country on the world's radar was one of his greatest
achievements
-- even if it was done by triggering international outrage
with controversial comments. ``Malaysia now is better known,''
Mahathir
replied when
asked what he considered to be his greatest achievement abroad.
``Our voice,
even if they don't agree, I think (there is) no way they
can just ignore (it). We have made some impact.'' Mahathir left office
amid
an international
outcry at his comments in an Oct. 16 speech to Islamic leaders
that, ``Jews rule the world by proxy. They get others to fight
and die
for them.''
On Thursday,
the U.S. House of Representatives passed
a resolution
411-0 saying the remarks embody ``age-old stereotypes''
and could incite sectarian violence. That followed Monday's decision
by
the U.S. Senate
to withhold $1.2 million in military aid from Malaysia
until
the State Department determines it better promotes religious
freedoms,
including
tolerance of Jews. U.S. aid to Malaysia is minimal, and
Mahathir has scoffed at the Senate's action, saying it shows that
his comments
about
Jews were true and that America can keep its money.
Abdullah,
63, is considered moderate compared to Mahathir. While he
has promised not
to make any major policy changes, some countries and
opposition groups hope that some of the harsher edges of Mahathir's
era
will be tempered
under Abdullah. Across town from the palace, Anwar Ibrahim,
Mahathir's former protege, spent Friday in a prison cell he
says
is plagued
by rats. Mahathir fired Anwar in 1998 following disputes
over financial
policy. Anwar led protests against Mahathir before he
was arrested and convicted on corruption and sodomy charges. Anwar,
who is serving a total of 15 years in prison, claims the charges
were
fabricated
to
keep him from challenging Mahathir for power.
The government
denies
this. In remarks to The Associated Press passed through
his lawyers, Anwar said Mahathir had eroded key freedoms such
as free
speech
and democratic institutions such as the judiciary. ``He
came
into the
scene ... with promises of reforms, but instead he
put all promises asunder,''
Anwar said. Mahathir returned to his residence at Putrajaya
and was due to leave Saturday for a vacation in Europe. Mahathir
has
said
he will write his memoirs, and will offer advice to
the government if
asked. Mazhar Mahathir, 19, one of Mahathir's four
sons and three
daughters, said he was looking forward to spending more time
with his father.
``I am happy that I can be his son again,'' Mazhar told AP.
New
Straits Times, Malaysia
http://www.emedia.com.my/Current_News/NST/Monday/National/20040209075259/Art
icle/indexb_html
8 February
2004
13
UN
ill-advised on homosexual laws
by Hamidah
Atan
Seremban- The
United Nations has been ill-advised when
it threatened
to punish nations which banned homosexual activities through
a new human rights resolution to be tabled in April. Minister
in the
Prime
Minister's Department Datuk Seri Dr Rais Yatim called on
the UN not to deprive developing and Islamic nations of their basic
laws and
rights. "The
municipal or domestic laws of a nation should not be dictated
by the UN's mechanism of laws, unless the former wants to
comply," he
said. Rais said the resolution, if approved, could be interpreted
as UN intervening in a nation's sovereignty. "We will
have to see first how the contents of the resolution are
written," he
said. "We
will also have to see how many countries will subscribe to
it. There are countries, including Malaysia, that do not
recognise sexual relations
between males and such a law is sovereign and basic to us."
Director
of a San Francisco-based International Gay and Lesbian
Human Rights Commission, Paula Ettelbrick, was quoted as saying
that the resolution,
to be tabled between April 15 and 25 in Geneva, would
link all forms of human rights, covering sexual orientation choices
for a person.
Last year, Pakistan issued a memorandum stating that
the
resolution was against the teachings of Islam as well
as other religions.
The memorandum
also stated that if the resolution was approved, it would indirectly
humiliate Islam and 1.2 billion Islamic
followers all over the world. On the campaign to curb sexual crimes
and abuse against
children, Rais said the Government would amend the
laws
to protect children's rights and safety as and when the need
arose. Apart from
on-going efforts to introduce harsher punishment for
child rapists, the Government would also amend laws relating to
sodomy where the victims
were children. The Government would also consider amending
provisions on unnatural offences under Section 377
of the Penal Code if more sodomy
cases or unnatural sex practices whose victims were
children occurred.
"For
now, however, there is no necessity to amend the section," he
said. "The law on sodomy as stipulated in the Penal
Code is adequate. It provides harsh punishment for offenders
convicted
of committing
unnatural sexual practices. "However, if frequency of
cases develops over time, where the victims are mainly children,
the Government will
not sit still ... just like what we are doing now against
child rapists."
So
far, Rais said his ministry had not received representations
for a review of the laws. He was asked to comment
on a case in Rantau near
here where an 11-year-old schoolboy was allegedly
sodomised by a 40-year-old man on Friday, who has since been arrested.
Under
Section 377c of the
Penal Code, those convicted of such crimes are
jailed for
not less than five years and not more than 20 years.
Offenders are also liable
to whipping.
Associated Press
September 10, 2004
14
Former
Deputy Prime Minister Anwar Ibrahim free after court overturns
sodomy conviction
Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia - Former
Deputy Prime Minister Anwar Ibrahim vowed to push for democratic
reforms in Malaysia — including
freer news media, fair elections and an independent judiciary — as
he savored his first full day of freedom in six years Sept. 3 after
his conviction on sodomy charges was overturned. Anwar said he would
never have been released from prison if his former boss, Mahathir
Mohamad, was still in power. He praised Mahathir’s successor,
Abdullah Ahmad Badawi, for allowing the ruling.
The decision
that freed him came exactly six years after Mahathir, a combative
figure who transformed
Malaysia into one of Asia’s wealthiest countries but was long
accused of dismissing democratic procedures, fired Anwar as his heir
apparent in a power struggle. Anwar then led anti-Mahathir demonstrations
and was arrested on Sept. 18, 1998. He claimed the sodomy
charges and other counts against him were “malicious prosecution” by
Mahathir. Anwar is also consulting with lawyers on whether to fight
to expunge references in the judgment overturning his sodomy conviction
that there was evidence of homosexuality — a crime in mostly
Muslim Malaysia.
Agence
France Presse
September 9, 2005
15
Mahathir sacked Anwar to prevent Malaysia having 'gay' PM
Kuala Lumpur - Former prime minister Mahathir Mohamad has said he was forced
to sack his one-time protege Anwar Ibrahim to prevent mainly-Muslim Malaysia
getting a homosexual leader.
Mahathir defended his actions and maintained that Anwar was guilty of sodomy,
a crime in Malaysia. Anwar has always denied the claims and insisted he was the
victim of a conspiracy to blacken his name.
"In our society, sodomy is not acceptable. Of course, among some media people
even, they are gay. They don't like my taking action against a person for the
kind of things that they indulge in. So I became a bad guy because of that," he
told reporters.
"But I cannot have a person who is like that in my cabinet who may succeed
and become the prime minister. Imagine having a gay prime minister. Nobody would
be safe," he said.
Anwar, who was once Malaysia's deputy premier under Mahathir, was jailed on sodomy
and corruption charges in 1998 for allegedly conducting a sexual relationship
with his official driver, then abusing his power to conceal it.
Human rights groups and Anwar himself maintained the charges were trumped up
to prevent him from challenging Mahathir, whose 22-year reign as Malaysian leader
ended when he retired in October 2003.
Anwar was released from jail in September last year after the sodomy charges
were overturned. However, as the corruption charge still stands he is banned
from politics until 2008.
Anwar said last month after a court awarded him 1.2 million dollars in damages
over a book that aired the sodomy allegations that the decision had cleared his
name and proved he was the victim of a conspiracy.
Just days before that ruling he also won an apology from the former police chief
who beat him after his arrest, as well as undisclosed damages, in a result he
hailed as a step forward for human rights in Malaysia.
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February
24, 2006
16
Malaysian
Media Slanders Gays as Police Crackdown Hampers AIDS/HIV Education
Efforts
Kuala
Lumpur - Human rights in Malaysia took another
downturn this week as the English-language
newspaper, The Malay Mail, used their front page on May 22
to equate
homosexuals with prostitutes. Referring to recent
high profile police raids
on Kuala Lumpur discos, spas and saunas popular with gay
men, the paper used local slang to slur the country's gay
citizens: "Round-up
of the Day! Chicks [female prostitutes], Ducks [male prostitutes]
and Gays."
In
a full page exposé, the paper
chose to display pictures of patrons shot by
police inside a private
men's club, unprecedented behavior from the local media.
An article which appeared last week in the Malay press,
luridly detailing suggestive activities inside a popular
local men's
spa, seems to have been the trigger for the police actions
against a number of clubs, saunas, and massage businesses.
Subsequent one-sided articles have appeared in the press
from
a Muslim group asking for harsher penalties against homosexual
activities and even interviewing a Mom who was surprised
to learn that her son was gay and blamed Malaysian gay
Internet sites for his natural inclinations.
The
Kuala Lumpur police
have been under intense public scrutiny recently since
a woman
in police custody being forced to perform humiliating
squats in the nude was captured on a mobile phone camera and
a
group of senior citizens caught gambling at a closed
coffee-shop during the recent Chinese New Year celebrations
forcibly
had their heads shaved. The current police crackdown,
which is
also affecting straight venues such as nightclubs,
is seen by local business leaders as a PR exercise to recover
respect
from the more conservative elements in Malaysia's multi-cultural
society.
The
raids, however, seem to have uncovered little evidence of wrongdoing
other than license irregularities
and traces of drugs in the urine of a small number
of patrons. The media, however, has chosen to sensationalize
the raids, highlighting police reports of men discovered showering
in
the nude, wearing towels, and finding three condoms
and
a pack
of lubricant.
Meanwhile,
business licensing board inspectors
have forced gyms, spas and massage businesses to
remove condoms provided by Malaysia's main MSM (men who have
sex with men)
AIDS/HIV outreach organization, the PT Foundation,
jeopardizing health and well-being during a time when HIV
infection
rates have risen dramatically among young gay men
in neighboring
Singapore and Thailand. According to a PT Foundation
MSM Program spokesman, local businesses are too frightened
of
being cited
by police and inspectors and so refuse to carry
free AIDS prevention educational materials other than mild
mannered
posters.
PT
Foundation also expressed concern that media
exposés
of such places only serve to drive MSM activity deeper
underground, making it even more difficult for MSM-targeted
harm reduction
programs to work.
Contact:
Utopia: Asian Gay & Lesbian Resources info@utopia-asia.com
GlobalGayz.com
March
2006 17
GlobalGayz.com
interview: Modern Gay LIfe in Kuala
Lumpur
MF
is a twenty-seven year old accountant living in Kuala Lumpur
who responded to the story about gay Malaysia in GlobalGayz.com.
He agreed to be interviewed by e-mail.
Global Gayz: Please give me an overview
of the ‘scene’ in
Kuala Lumpur as you see it today.
MF: I am Malaysian and gay. In reality the scene in
Malaysia, what can be actually seen, is just the tip of the iceberg.
I am fortunate enough to attract both men and women, not that
I consider myself good-looking but maybe rather interesting.
It seems to me nowadays gays are extremely blatant in exhibiting
their sexuality. Sometimes I suspect that almost half of the
male population could actually be gay or rather have tendencies.
GG: Are you out? To your family? To your friends?
MF: I am quite in the closet. However according
to my friends, I’m quite flamboyant. I’m a professional singer so
I guess I am somewhat of an extrovert. If you had met my friends
and me you’d probably have had quite a different view of
being gay in Malaysia, especially if you’re a Muslim.
Of course our religion does play a huge role.
GG: Are you a religious Muslim or a ‘secular’ Muslim?
And does this affect your sexual life?
MF: Am I religious? Now that is a bit hard
to explain. My explanation could be too long winded to be typed
out. However your observation
of the gays (in your gay Malaysia
story on your web site) are
not far off the mark. It’s just that there’s
the closet married guys who are active, indeed MORE active
than
your average gays would be.
My views in this may actually anger some people. I have been
celibate since 2001. Meaning no remotely sexual acts since
then. I have a gay friend who’s still a virgin at 36.
Never had anything sexual with another person in his life.
Why? Religion,
guilt, family to be sure.
Anyways, the tip of the iceberg, well yes. I wonder sometimes
if just about everybody is gay nowadays. I was accosted quite
a few times before by people you'd have thought do not have an
inkling of a gay bone in them yet they were the most aggressive
ones.
GG: Sounds like there is a lot of sexual frustration and hiding
yet daring behavior.
MF: Sexual suppression is quite the norm because of religion,
customs and peer pressure. So there are gay people who wanted
to change and lead a straight life, get married and have children
and probably leave it all behind as have quite a few of my friends.
Yet there are ‘straight’ people living the ‘down
low’ -- people in straight relationships (married/couples)
who are discreetly active in the gay scene.
GG: Where are you on this point?
MF: I am on the fence. I do not deny I'm
gay, even if closeted; the door is slightly ajar so to speak.
Would I want to get
married? Hmmm I do want to…or do I? My friends and I discuss a lot
about this; if we don't want to marry and also don’t
want to do things gay, what's the point of being gay yet
not submitting
to what feels natural?
Though I may not be religious but I do have strong ‘spiritual’ convictions
and so do many of my friends. It is hard to explain really;
without a doubt I would have given even Freud a major headache!
GG: Do you have friends who are not ‘on the fence’ and
are proud to be gay?
MF: Yes, I have friends who are so in tune with themselves I do envy them for
their resoluteness in just being themselves, unabashed, free to do what they
want to do and not feel that it is bad. On the streets, gays are everywhere if
you know what to look for. Yes, there are places specifically for cruising, but
nowadays even in the mosque there were reported cases where people cruised in
there--appalling, an assault to my righteousness! See how contradictory I am?
GG: Sounds like you are having a hard time with being gay
and Muslim--or being gay and not being gay. Most of us don’t have a choice about ‘being’ gay
or not (called sexual orientation/attraction) , but we do have a choice whether
to live a gay life (called sexual behavior), that is, loving a male partner,
or having sex only (or mostly) with other males, and, third, identifying
ourselves as gay (sexual identification).
MF: Where I stand is like limbo. Resolute in admittance
to be gay but utterly averse to submission to it—at this point in my life. In Malaysia, this
maybe not the norm but definitely I am not the only one with this conflict, I’m
sure.
GG: Are there many drag queens in Malaysia/ KL?
MF: The
drag queens! They're a whole other story. To tell you the truth
even I'm still a bit perplexed when it comes to his transformation.
It is a whole nother society. They even have a peculiar lingo
that is not easy to understand and of course with a dash of
theatrics and bizarre antics. I do have a friend who likes to "drag" and
get guys but not for money. He does it for pleasure. Favorite
type of
guys are in unifrom like private guards and especially
soldiers. He knows where soldiers congregate at specific
hangout
places like
the transit
camp
for soldiers in Kuala Lumpur. He is sometimes even going "outstation" meaning
outside of Kuala Lumpur, like trips to another state but still
going to places where soldiers are aplenty-- favorite haunts,
parks at night, where the soldiers hangout to find some casual
sex. I once ask him, what if I go there, would the soldiers
want me, he said, maybe not the soldiers but the queens would
probably
fight for me. He did however mention there are quite a few
gay soldiers who'd probably dig me. Hmmm... being me I abstain
but couldn't help but be interested.
GG: So while your friend is out having fun with gender-bending,
you are home alone with no sex?
MF: To
tell you the truth, I've had my share of anonymous, out in
the open (albeit dark
corners at a cruising place called "Jurrasic Park")
but that was way back in 2001. Only one time. Other time
was a sauna--again one time (I was there with an x bf).
Not that
I totally abstain but only for the past 5 years. Even
then I was always in constant dillema with myself. In
a drop of a hat I think I can actually turn around and
succumb to my desire but so far that has yet to happen
again.
Just
as recent as 3 days ago, I had a designer--clearly gay--at
a boutique blatantly fondled me while I was trying some
material
for clothes. He tried to be inconspicuous but after twice
of brushing my privates spot on! Come on you might as
well give
me a blowjob! Anyway I left with his pride intact. So
what if he cops a feel. Doesn't kill me. I think I do
exude a
certain strong sexuality and flirtatiousness that people
always miscontrue
as being interested sexua |