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1 India Court: Govt Must Clarify Stand On Gay Relations 1/03
2 Male model exposes gay Bollywood (Bombay) 5/03
3 Gay Bombay comes out 6/03
4 Gay and gloomy (2003) 6/03
5 Rally to promote rights for sexual minorities 6/03
6 Gays slowly but stealthily coming out of Goan closet 7/03
7 Kolkata (Calcutta) activists highlight gay issues with theatre production
7/03
8 India's Sexual Minorities--Gay Parade in Calcutta a mark of changing
mindsets 7/03
9 Arvind Narrain, 28 Lawyer fighting for the rights of gays, lesbians
and sex workers 8/03
10
India's gays see small improvement in cultural outlets 9/03
11
No 'unnatural' sex please, we are Indians! 9/03
12
'Homosexuality okay if practised in private' New Delhi 9/03
13 Mumbai gays against Centre's anti-gay stance 9/03
14 Mumbai to host film festival on sexuality 9/03
15
Sexual minorities put up united front 10/03
16
Take lessons from gay, lesbian couples 10/03
17
Male callers harass lesbian helpline 10/03
18 Despite Widespread Poverty, Consumer Class Emerges
in India (background story)10/03
19 India Film Festival Examines Homophobia 10/03
20
City homosexuals to march for their rights 12/03
21
Out of the closet and onto the silver screen 12/03
22 Bombay Gays' night out-News Years Eve Parties 12/03
Associated
Press
http://online.wsj.com/article/0,,BT_CO_20030116_000507-search,00.html
January 16, 2003
1
India Court: Govt Must Clarify Stand On Gay Relations
Dow Jones Newswires
New Delhi - A court has ordered the Indian government to respond within a month
to an anti-AIDS organization's suit seeking an end to the law that makes homosexual
relations a crime, a newspaper reported Thursday. New Delhi High Court Chief
Justice Devinder Gupta and Justice B.D. Ahmed told the government to file an
affidavit within four weeks making clear its stand, the Indian Express reported.
There have been few cases in recent years of prosecution under the law that declares
homosexual activity a crime punishable by up to 10 years in prison. But the Naaz
Foundation, which brought the suit, said police use the threat of the law to
harass homosexuals, who are afraid to come forward to seek AIDS prevention help.
The foundation said the harassment is a violation of homosexuals' human rights. "Despite
a number of adjournments, no affidavit is filed by the (the federal government)
and a last opportunity is given to it to submit it within four weeks," the
judges said in their order Wednesday.
Human Rights Watch, the New York-based rights group, said in a report last year
that police also harass anti-AIDS campaigners who try to provide condoms and
disease-prevention information. About 4 million people in India, or 0.7% of the
country's adult population, suffer from AIDS, the government says. But some experts
suggest the actual number of AIDS sufferers is more than twice as high and note
that the disease in India, with more than 1 billion people, is spreading fast.
Hindustan Times, New Delhi, India, (http://www.hindustantimes.com
)
May 1, 2003
2
Male model exposes gay Bollywood (Bombay)
by Khalid M Ansari
Gender discrimination is passe in Bollywood--both men and women
are subject to the casting couch, says supermodel-turned-struggling
actor
Marc Robinson.
Man-management skills could in fact be helping a majority of male
models to boost their sagging careers in tinsletown, he alleges. "There
are certain directors and producers who have a taste for eligible companions
of the same sex. With sexuality being seen as a matter of choice, such
liaisons are far more acceptable today than they were just a few years
ago. Though industry bigwigs like Shahrukh Khan, Karan Johar, Mahesh
Manjrekar and Sanjay Leela Bhansali may still shy away from publicly
acknowledging the fact, their proximity to male friends is common knowledge",
says the 35-year-old hunk who made his mark with a steamy campaign
for Kama Sutra condoms.
His disastrous big screen debut in 'Bada Din' has not left him
frustrated with his film career (or the absence of it), insists
Robinson. According
to him: "I'm not in the habit of making wild allegations about
the sexual orientation of other people. Every word of what I have said
is true and can be verified from independent sources."Despite
the brave front, there's a note of bitterness when he admits that refusal
to enter into 'male bonding' may have cost him dear. "In my own
case, I was happy modelling when a film was offered to me.
The
project appeared interesting and I decided to give it a try. Sadly
it took
time for me to realize that Bollywood is full of hypocrites and
talent alone does not guarantee success. All said and done, I am
not a man
who is comfortable rendering sexual favours to other men for
a shot at stardom", he says. While not all male actors enter into same-sex relationships willingly,
the rewards far outweigh the risks involved and in time they
may even grow to like it, quips Marc. According to the man who
claims
to be
a die-hard fan of veteran Hollywood star Robert De Niro: "Beggars
can't be choosers. It's the classic Stockholm Syndrome --given
enough time you fall in love with your circumstances, no matter
how impossible
that may have seemed at the start.
Were it not so, same-sex associations would not have become this
common in the industry. Call it what you want --a 'session of
better understanding'
or 'collective crew discussions'--the fact remains that Bollywood
men have a penchant for their own kind. But that does not deter
them from
playing court to their wives. After all in a world of make-believe,
appearances are everything."
BBC News
http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/south_asia/3001126.stm
19 June 2003
3
Gay Bombay comes out
by Zubair Ahmed, BBC correspondent in Bombay
A new book celebrating forbidden love between homosexual men
in India has raised hopes within the country's largely invisible
gay community
of the chances of coming out of the closet. The Boyfriend deals
with love between an openly gay man and a young boy who feels
unable to
pursue his gay instincts, just like millions of other Indian
men. It is an unusual storyline with an unusual theme in a country
where
homosexuality
remains a punishable offence. A 141-year-old law prohibits "unnatural" sexual
acts. The book is being seen as a symbol of the growing confidence
of Indian gay men, best exemplified by their public behaviour in the
western Indian city of Bombay (Mumbai). R Raj Rao, the book's author,
says the gay community wants the law to be repealed, but is still not
vocal enough to demand its rights.
"
There's a need to politicise the issues," he says. "Unless
that happens there's little hope for the gay community." There
are no official estimates for India's gay community, but some gay organisations
say it may be as large as 50 million people. "Here in Mumbai I
can hold hands with my boyfriend and walk around, which is not possible
even on the streets of New York and London," says Mohammad Yunus,
a gay man who lives in Mumbai. He believes one in 10 Bombay residents
in a city of 15 million is gay. "What's changed is that our profile
has been raised," says Vikram Doctor of Gay Bombay, an organisation
that says it creates safe spaces for gays.
Thriving
scene Indeed, Bombay's gay scene is thriving by any standards.
There are regular gay parties
in bars and pubs. Voodoos, a night club in South Mumbai,
has a gay night every Saturday. There are other clubs like it in
cities
such
as Delhi and Bangalore. But in tradition-bound India, where
homosexuality is either ignored, covered up, or treated as a disease,
the openness
of the Bombay gay night is unusual. Gay Bombay organises
a gay party every month. It is considered an advertisement for the
gay community's
growing boldness. The last one, on Friday, was attended by
more than 350 people, roughly a third more than expected. "We are just a
bunch of ordinary guys having a night out," said the
party's organiser.
Slice of normality
Middle class gay men danced with people from various social
backgrounds. Several European tourists also joined in the
fun. An Israeli
from Tel Aviv said it was his third time at a Bombay gay
night. "It's better
than the bars of Tel Aviv," he said. It was the slice of normality
that Indian gay couples crave. And in a rare attempt to break the taboo
of invisibility, many gay men at the party agreed to be photographed.
The party's organisers had initially refused to allow photography.
Courage to come out Bombay's monthly gay night comes just eight years
after the city played host to India's first gay conference. Now, says
R Raj Rao, Indian society needs to grow up and gay men need to have
the courage to come out. Rao describes himself as one of less than
100 Indian gay men to openly live as he chooses. "Many people
are still not willing to come out of the closet, " he
says.
"
The number of openly declared gays may not be more than 100." But
he says it is a good sign that Bombay has become the place to go for
gay parties and discos. Creating awareness It is when the music stops
that Indian gays are reminded that they still do not enjoy the freedom
to declare their identity. "All we want is the acceptance that
we exist and that we are not different from heterosexual people, except
for our sexual and emotional attractions to men," says Nitin Karani,
who contributes articles to a gay website.
Gay
Bombay and Hum Safar, one of India's first gay organisations, are
working to create an awareness
of gay rights through workshops, film screenings and
parties. Their websites are used as a community forum to talk openly
about
their various
problems. Mr Rao, who believes that Bombay has more gays
than New York and London put together, says most of them do not
come out for the
obvious reason that society has not accepted them. "Gays still
have a long way to go in India", he says.
Express
India
http://cities.expressindia.com/fullstory.php?newsid=55715
BODY & MIND
June 23, 2003
4
Gay and Gloomy
by Georgina L. Maddox Mumbai
Picture a 10-year-old boy seized by a strong urge to commit
suicide. Picture him locking himself up in a room, feeling
totally worthless...
It's an effort to even get up and go to the toilet - one
that makes him break out in heart-wrenching sobs. His name is Jai.
At 30,
after seeking medication and psychotherapy, Jai is
no longer ashamed to
talk about his depression. Or his homosexuality. "My depression is
endogenous, which means I was born with a chemical imbalance in my
body," he says.
While his 'coming out' as a homosexual, at 17, was
a relatively painless experience, he's still on medication
for depression. "For me,
the two things aren't linked at all. But it's probably true that the incidence of depression is higher in the gay community
because of the social constraints and pressures we face," he says. Many homosexual
men also suffer from Dysthymia, or mild depression. "I have never
felt suicidal but I often felt a lack of initiative, loss of appetite
and am generally non-communicative," says Ramesh who is thinking
of seeking medical help if things don't improve soon. Depression caused
by external factors is called Reactive Depression. Clarifies Dr Ajit
Dash, US-based neuropharmacologist, who presented a paper on the subject,
last month, at a Gay Bombay meet, "While Jai's case
is one of Major or Endogenous depression, Reactive Depression
is fairly common,
in the gay community. However it's sweeping to theorise that
gay men are endogenously depressive."
Dr Rajesh Parikh, honourary neuro-psychotherapist at the
Jaslok Hospital and Research Centre, Peddar Road, says, "There is no research-based
data to prove homosexuals suffer from reactive depression any more
than heterosexuals. But individuals who are confrontational about their
sexual orientation may be at a greater risk to experience it as a mood
state (rather than an illness)." Parikh also points out that,
earlier, homosexuality was considered a disease. This led lot of stigma
associated with it. Now, this view has largely changed among the medical
community. But it is yet to filter down to the layperson. Consequently,
a lot of gay people aren't entirely comfortable with their sexual orientation.
Medically, they are known as ego-dystonic. "I find cases of this
nature have higher depression rates," says Parikh.
Agrees
Dash. "
The stigma associated with being gay, known as homophobia, is a major
hurdle. Many gay men are forced into marriage, which leads to feelings
of aversion, inadequacy and depression." While there is no uniform
response to 'coming out' - it has varied from beneficial to detrimental
- the anxiety caused by it can lead to a depressive state. Other triggers
that may cause depression range from a negative self-image to partner
pressure. "Older homosexual men face a lot of pressure, since
the community tends to focus a lot on physical beauty," says
Salim, who is over 40, single and gay. Therapy has helped
him stop falling
into dependent relationships with sexual partners.
On the other hand, Swapnil, who has been in a committed
relationship for years, believes, "Older gay men are more confident about their
sexual identity." While Transference (transferring the burden
to an empathiser), a key concept in psychoanalysis, is one of the first
steps of combating depression, it works better with a psychotherapist.
If you're the friend of a depressed gay man, one has to draw boundaries. "I
have a friend who suffers from depression. And while I wanted to help
him, there came a point when I had to say, 'I am not your therapist'," says
Lobsang, a young student who has recently found his way into
Mumbai's gay community. Jai, too, underwent a similar experience.
"
It became an awkward situation, as he developed a crush on me. But
we made a concerted effort to stay just friends," he
recalls. Jai has access to monetary aid and education (he
graduated at Harvard).
But for many gay men, from conservative back grounds, 'coming
out ' itself is a cause for depression. While some associate
visiting a shrink
with 'nuttiness', many can't afford to do so. But gay men
are increasingly ready to address the issue. And this is
the first step towards dispelling
the blues. (Some names have been changed to protect identities.)
Reuters
June 29, 2003
5
Rally to promote rights for sexual minorities
Calcutta, India - Gay men, many wearing earrings and bright lipstick, marched in Calcutta
early on Sunday in a rare rally to promote rights for sexual
minorities in conservative India. Around 35 men braved curious stares from puzzled
onlookers to walk through the heart of the crowded city in a rally
they called "Walk on the Rainbow." Some held up a large rainbow-coloured
flag, a symbol used by international homosexual movements, while others
threw flower petals at bemused bystanders. "If we bother about
what people think of gays, we won't be here," said Arpan Banerjee,
who was wearing purple lipstick and gold earrings and gave his age
as "late 20s."
Gay relationships and behaviour are frowned upon in largely traditional
India, where there is a secretive gay sub-culture in the big cities. "We
got many emails from gays and lesbians saying they wanted to join the
march, but are afraid to come out publicly," said Rafiquel Haque
Dojah, a march organiser. The marchers were also celebrating Gay Pride
Week, which attracts millions of people in major cities around the
world. Activists have traditionally celebrated June as gay awareness
month because of the Stonewall riots in New York that sparked the gay
rights movement.
Goa
News,( http://www.goanews.com )
http://www.goacom.com/news/news2003/jul/msg00076.html
21 July 2003
6
Gays slowly but stealthily coming out of Goan closet
by Vasco Herald Correspondent
Goa, India - He is only 24 years old, walks like a girl, wears an earring and
likes to mix with people. He is a gay operating in Goa and is
one of the
over 7,700 gay homosexuals 'listed' in the State. Arun Tomar,
a gay since the age of 14 years, is the Project Co-ordinator of
the Non-Governmental
Organisation Hamsafar Trust, which is fighting for the cause
of homosexuals in the State.
Long ridiculed and disapproved by a conservative and tradition-bound
Goan society, Goa's middle-class gays are slowly coming
out of the closet, to the puzzlement and consternation of their
relatives
and
friends. But even as they revel in their new confidence, Indian
homosexuals increasingly fear public health officials and have
not woken up to
the danger presented by the killer disease, AIDS. According to
official estimates, 889 cases of AIDS from gay sex have been
reported nationwide,
along with an estimated 16,015 carriers of HIV, the virus that
cause the disease. As for Tomar, he entered the gay community
while he
was studying and living in a hostel in Hyderabad.
"
It was when I was 14 years old and homosexuality was very common in
the hostel. I had a strong relationship with my partner and every night
we used to experiment with sex," admits Tomar. He further revealed
that it was the made-for-each-other relationship with a promise to
remain loyal till in hostel, that was the secret of life with his partner. "It's
just like a relationship between a male and a female, or a husband
and a wife. The wife would get jealous if the husband has sex with
somebody else, so is the scene here. My partner would get jealous if
I had sex with someone else," Tomar revealed. What happened after
hostel life? Explains Tomar: "I was desperate when my partner
left the hostel. I was in search of a new partner, when I came
across a community in Hyderabad where homosexuality was carried
out and it
went on."
"
All these years we've been forced to be hypocrites. It's a great relief
to find out that there are hundreds of others like me all over the
country," remarks Tomar. "Before I came to Goa," he
adds, "I did a bit of homework about the places mostly frequented
by homosexuals," said Tomar. "Every week, we have programmes
for the gay community on Saturday. We meet at various place and here,
the community members have what is known as free sharing of feelings," says
Tomar. The homosexual community, with an able and fast growing
strength, has spread in Margao, Vasco, Panjim, Calangute and Baga.
The community
has recently set up an out-reach service and an office in Zuarinagar,
to carry out various programmes for its community members. Another
out-reach service has been recently set up in Mapusa.
"
There are over 7756 homosexuals MSM (male having sex with male) on
our list. We have seven out-reach workers, who cover entire state.
Their work starts in the evening," informs Tomar. "We have
272 working days in a year and at an average, we contact 22 MSMs per
day," he adds. Tomar has set a target for himself the battle
for social acceptance and recognition of gays and homosexuals in
Goan society
just like neighbouring Mumbai. According to Tomar, the project
first came into Goa with the support of the NGO Rishta. But since
2002, they
decided to go on their own under the banner of NGO Mumbai-based
Hamsafar Trust and the support of Goa State AIDS Control Society
(GSACS).
"
The GSACS was not immediately ready to fund us, but later on, the NGO
advisor Marriette Corriea was quite understanding," says Tomar,
who manages the project for a sum of Rs 3.81 lakh a year. Though the
amount is less as compared with 2002-2003, when it received Rs 4.52
lakh, Tomar says the community manages with whatever it is funded with. "We
use the funds for intervention project and other programmes, such as
supply of flavoured condoms and education of safe sex counselling around
for the guys that get hurt and need a shoulder to cry on," he
informed. According to Tomar, there seems to be no age bar among homosexuals
in the State. "We have gays who are even 13 years of age," informs
Tomar and adds, "the average age is between 16 and 30 years.
Most of them happened to be quite active during the first four
to five years
and later turn into passive members."
Active members, explains Tomar, are those who perform the penetration
act, while the passive one are those who allow to do it. Another
interesting aspect, Tomar informed, was the different type of
homosexuals present
in the community. "There are three different types of acts in
the gay groups, who practice sex between men and men, bisexuals who
practice both with men as well as women and the third transgender Eunuchs.
There are no eunuchs in Goa but they arrive in Goa during the charter
season in October and leave the State only in May," says Tomar. "These
are the ones who are commonly known as Male Sex workers and carry out
the business along the Calangute Baga coastal belt and charge anything
between Rs 3,000 to Rs 4,000 for an intimate session," he adds.
Arun Tomar pointed out that efforts were made by him to have a support
group for homosexuals in the Goa. "It is very important," he
said, "as the police in Goa has been carrying out atrocities
on community members."
"
Obviously, the community members meet in public places such as parks,
bus stands and pay toilets. The police threaten us. Can we not meet
in such places? There are no cases that we carry out our acts in public
places. It is only that we meet our community members," asserts
Tomar. "I have even taken up the matter with the police chief
in Goa," Tomar informed. Community members, according to Tomar,
come from different walks of life businessmen, people from educated
families, professionals, college students. "There are no restrictions
on anyone, poor or the rich," he says, "but it is mostly
the high class." Tomar insists that homosexuals in Goa should
be accepted. "The office should be accepted and I will work for
it," pledges Tomar.
How
would you identify a gay in a group? "The usual opening lines
like, 'do you have a light?', 'where can I find some fun?', and seeing
the response, I then drop a few hints and see how it goes," explains
Tomar. Tomar said he had made up his mind that marriage as an institution
was not his answer and pointed out that most homosexuals married because
of family or society pressure. "My family has accepted me as a
gay so what is the problem of the society," queries
Tomar. He insists that gay marriages should be accepted
in the society
and claimed
to have solemnized a couple of gay marriages in Mumbai.
Proud of his gay status, Tomar claims to have been popular
throughout the country, Kolkata, Karnataka, Kerala, Chennai,
Hyderabad,
Delhi, Mumbai. He has delivered talks at various levels and
conferences and meeting on his stand on homosexuals and their
role in the
society.
Tomar was of the opinion that Goan society would shortly accept
homosexuals in the State and predicted that time will help
to change the social
opinion on this topic.
Sify (India)
http://sify.com/news/othernews/fullstory.php?id=13207113
23 July 2003
7
Kolkata (Calcutta) activists highlight gay issues with theatre
production
Kolkata - Gay activists will take to the stage on Thursday in Kolkata in
their latest bid to win more acceptance for homosexuality in India.
'Kinara', which translates roughly as 'The River's Edge', centers
on a dialogue between male partners growing up in rural India
who mull
the social stigma of same-sex love.
The Bengali-language
play is open to the public and activists are distributing tickets
free
to the media
in hopes of highlighting the cause. "Gays are fighting for acceptance
and peaceful coexistence in society," said activist Rafiquel Haque
Dowjah, who wrote and acts in 'Kinara'. "They want to make their
presence felt and spread awareness about same-sex love in a conservative
society like ours," he said. The play is part of a series
of events in Calcutta aimed at increasing awareness about gay issues.
On June 29, more than 100 activists held a rare gay rights
parade in the city coinciding with worldwide marches on the
anniversary
of New
York's 1969 Stonewall riots. In the past month, gay groups
here have also launched a music video and organized a panel
discussion
on the
status of sexual minorities.
Calcutta in 1996 saw the premiere of India's first gay-themed
ballet, 'The Alien Flower'. The ballet, which chronicles a
gay man's life,
was performed afterward across India and in Malaysia and Australia.
India's courts are reviewing laws that, while rarely enforced,
make consensual gay sex an offense punishable by up to 10 years
in prison.
While there are few open homosexual communities in most of
India, Mumbai and Bangalore enjoy reputations as more hospitable
to
gays and lesbians.
The Statesman, Kolkata India
( http://www.thestatesman.net
) http://www.thestatesman.net/page.news.php?clid=3&theme=&usrsess=1&id=18938
July 27, 2003
8
India's Sexual Minorities--Gay Parade in Calcutta a mark of
changing mindsets--Homosexuality emerged from the closet with the gay march in
Kolkata on June 29. Its public face is a mark of changing mindsets
by Swagato Ganguly
Globalization is creeping, even if on tiptoe, to a conservative
city like Kolkata. I refer not to swanky shopping malls, styled
like their
counterparts abroad. I refer to a march by gay men
in support of homosexual rights on 29 June, a first in Kolkata. It began,
and wound
its way
through, impeccably middle class localities: Park Circus, Gariahat
Road, Gol Park. I do not want to make the claim that homosexuality
is a global import unknown in traditional cultures. Same-Sex
Love in India, a recent book by Saleem Kidwai and Ruth Vanita,
catalogues
a
whole bunch of references to, if not homosexual, at least homo-erotic
passion in traditional Indian texts. I do agree, however, with
French philosopher Michel Foucault, himself a homosexual, that
heterosexuality
and homosexuality as distinctive lifestyles are a modern, Western
invention.
It is not that homosexual acts were unknown in non-Western
cultures; what was unheard of was that anyone should
predicate his or her
whole being, and identity, on being homosexual. But that was
what the marchers
of June 29 were effectively doing. In traditional cultures,
including India, men might have relations with other men while
simultaneously
leading married lives and having children. Although, as Ruth
Vanita and Saleem Kidwai have shown, there are references to
homoerotic
behaviour in premodern Indian texts, homosexual conduct is
rarely spoken of approvingly,
and judgments on female homosexuality are particularly harsh.
The same social arrangement continues, in effect, in the present
day. There exists an underground subculture of homosexuality
which is not
violently persecuted in India. Homosexuals, on their part,
must ensure their activities aren't too overt and intrude into
the
public sphere.
That implicit social contract was violated when gay men took
part in a public procession on June 29.
It must be noted, though, that there were no lesbians in the
march, although the topic has been aired in films and books
from time to
time. The emergence of homosexuality into the public sphere
is still a hesitant
affair.
What makes modern homosexuality shocking to many is its refusal
of the "obligation" to procreate. Anyone who believes that the
core of his (or her) being lies in his/ her relationship with another
person of the same sex is, ipso facto, forswearing his/her "responsibility" for
propagating the tribe/ community/ nation/ society. In other words,
along with modern homosexuality, the modern individual is born. In
any traditional culture, one of the biggest imperatives is to multiply
its members. A community's numbers may be depleted by nature's depredations
and by war. Replenishing those numbers is a primary need; individual
rights and desires come a poor second. Thus the Bible says "go
forth and multiply"; for Hindus peace in the afterlife isn't
possible unless funeral rites are performed by one's offspring.
Modern culture, by contrast, has acquired sufficient control
over nature to make overpopulation, rather than underpopulation,
a problem.
And
as far as war is concerned, a million men do not count for
much when faced with a single intercontinental ballistic missile,
which makes
gaining access to the latter a rather more important factor
in
contemporary power politics. There has thus been a loosening,
in the last half-century
or so, of the taboo against non-procreative partnerships.
If consumerism makes possible an expanding array of lifestyle
choices, and an individual is defined by the choices he makes,
then there
are alternate sexualities one can "consume" as well.
It is in that context that the emergence of sexual minorities becomes
a marker
of incipient globalization.
Take the occasion that Kolkata's marchers were commemorating
on June 29, along with marchers in Sao Paulo, San Francisco
and other cities
across the globe. The occasion was the Stonewall riots in New
York's Greenwich village in 1969. On June 27, 1969, New York
police raided
the Stonewall Inn, a popular gay bar in Greenwich village.
While such raids had been routine, on that occasion the crowds
fought
back, and
the neighbourhood erupted in riots and protests for the next
few days. That sparked the worldwide gay rights movement which
has become
a facet
of contemporary modernity.
Many might scent dark neo-imperialist conspiracy here, as raids
on gay bars are not yet a local issue in India. But what is
a local
issue, undoubtedly, is the existence of Section 377 on the
statute books,
according to which homosexuals can be awarded imprisonment
for upto 10 years. And sooner or later the issue might capture
the
attention
of the neo-Hindu right which is obsessed, after all, with questions
of numbers and demographics. A marriage between Article 377
and a conservative BJP-type government could yield as offspring
some
serious
persecution
of sexual minorities. The ire visited by the Shiv Sena upon
'Fire', a film depicting a lesbian relationship between two
women, can
be a precursor of things to come.
While West Bengal's Left Front government might be right up
there with anyone else when it comes to the suppression of
individual
rights and
the persecution of dissent, it must be placed on record that
it did provide police protection and didn't allow untoward
incidents in
the case of the marchers of June 29.
If the backlash against homosexuality can be attributed to
its privileging the modern individual over the social "necessity" to procreate,
21st century biotechnology could bring about a fascinating twist in
this tale. I am not referring to cloning where, besides the complex
ethical issues that it raises, the characteristics of only one "parent" among
a homosexual couple would be transferred.
But can there be a procedure where a homosexual couple can
have a child who will inherit the genetic material of both
parents,
just
as the
children of "normal" heterosexual couples do? The answer
to that question appears to be yes. An experiment carried out with
mouse eggs, and reported in the journal Science, raises that very possibility
if duplicated with human eggs. In the procedure, called egg nuclear
transfer and initially conceived to help infertile couples, the DNA
from a damaged egg can be evacuated and placed in another egg, whose
own DNA has been removed. In theory, the same procedure can be used
to introduce sperm DNA into an evacuated egg, fertilize this "male
egg" with sperm from another parent in the laboratory, then
gestate the resulting embryo in a surrogate mother.
The baby born would have the genetic material of two male parents.
The same procedure could be repeated for two female parents.
If this or similar procedures of mixing human DNA were to become
widespread
in another fifty years, an offshoot would be that homosexual
couples could become parents and have families just like everyone
else.
That would, of course, force us to radically revalue our concepts
of "motherhood" and "fatherhood".
It would do away with one problem, though. If the unconscious resistance
to homosexuals stems from the fact that they do not contribute
to society's imperative of reproducing its members, that wouldn't
hold anymore.
Radical individualists might rue the loss of homosexuality's subversive
charge, but it would lead to the integration of homosexuals into
society, to the extent that even mashima and pishima might not
take much notice
of the family with same-sex parents living next door.
Rediff.com (India)
http://www.rediff.com/news/2003/aug/19india-2.htm
August 19, 2003
9
Arvind Narrain, 28 Lawyer fighting for the rights of gays, lesbians
and sex workers
'India is becoming an exclusive elite nation' There is a sense of openness
about the people of India. When I was studying law in England for three
years I had this feeling of unfriendliness about the people. Instead,
whenever anyone comes to India, they find it a very welcoming place.
It's like coming home.
But there is a great degree of violation of
rights today - rights of tribals, landless labourers, gays, lesbians
or those affected with HIV. We don't seem to respect some people
as people and instead treat them with a great deal of violence. For
instance,
during litigation, I see violence inflicted upon sex workers by the
police themselves who rape them while in custody or ask for sexual
favours. In Gujarat we had a scenario where 2,000 people were killed
on the streets simply because of their religion.
This is one thing we cannot afford to have in India as it threatens
the culture of diversity of our country, a diversity that includes
sexuality, ethnicity and gender. This enormous diversity is the best
part about India. There is never any boredom when you are meeting
people in India. What we in our organization are striving for is
to make this
country a more just and human place. We want to see the recognition
of gay and lesbian rights in India. I say 'we' because you can't
be a part of a social movement process and say 'I.' Change has to
be brought
about collectively. Increasingly our country is being identified
with a smaller segment - the rich and urban India.
We are leaving out vast sections of society since they don't matter
much in our consciousness anymore. India is not an inclusive nation
anymore. It is becoming an exclusive elite nation. Among the things
I would like to see change in India is legislation like POTA and
the Armed Forces Special Pass Act that gives the an army officer
in Northeast
the power to shoot to kill. These laws target fundamental human rights
and they should go. Section 377 of the IPC which prohibits intercourse
'that is against the law of nature' should go as it treats homosexuality
like a crime.
We also need a genocide law in the country to avoid a repeat of what
happened in Gujarat. My vision for this country is one that treats
all its individuals the same, respects the rights of each one of
them and builds a more democratic process of looking at the law itself.
The law can become a tool of oppression at times. What I look forward
to is a country which looks critically at itself and the law and
brings
in a world where all of its citizens have the same human rights.
. As told to Priya Ganapati
Chicago Tribune, Chicago, IL
http://www.chicagotribune.com/search/chi-0309100079sep10,1,3090135.story
September 10, 2003
10
India's gays see small improvement in cultural outlets
Marriage-conscious society mostly frowns, but homosexuals are finding
a club here and a movie there that accepts them. It's a 'sea change,'
says one.
by Vanessa Gezari, Special to the Tribune
New Delhi - Under purple strobe lights, a man in a sleeveless T-shirt with "Daddy" on
the front slow-dances with a long-haired guy in a tight seersucker
blouse. At the bar, a slender man in a tie-dyed shirt whispers into
the ear of his muscular friend, who wears iridescent green sunglasses
despite the darkness of the room. In shadowy corners, under the stairs
and behind the half-open door of the women's bathroom, men embrace,
taking advantage of the relative safety of the Indian capital's only
gay nightclub to meet and flirt.
Others, unable to forget the stigma attached to homosexuality in India,
sit alone at tables, eyeing the men on the dance floor with a mixture
of admiration and anxiety. "If my family knew I was here, they'd
kill me," said Samir Agarwal, a 25-year-old businessman who attended
the weekly gay night at Pegs N' Pints, a New Delhi club, recently. "In
India, if a family knows their child is gay, it creates a big chaos.
Gays and lesbians are not acceptable. It's a matter of shame, a matter
of embarrassment." In traditional India, where marriage is life's
most important event and no family is complete without children and
grandchildren, homosexuality is rarely acknowledged, let alone accepted.
But increasingly, gay Indians are meeting in Internet chat rooms, organizing
marches, hosting parties and showing up at support groups, generating
a wave of activism that is bringing the gay community into
public view. "It's
been like a sea change," said Shaan Thadhani, 25, a fashion designer
who returned to India recently after several years in Britain and attended
the gay dance session at Pegs N' Pints, which is a bar catering to
heterosexuals six nights a week and a gay club only on Tuesdays. "Before
I went to London, we never had this. We had one support group. The
scene here is very new." In the last year, the Bombay-based Indian
film industry, known as Bollywood, has released several movies featuring
gay characters, including "Mango Souffle" in which two male
characters skinny dip in a pool.
Activist writes novel "The Boyfriend," a novel published
this year by Indian college professor and gay activist R. Raj Rao,
offers what may be the most detailed account yet of gay life in Bombay,
exploring the relationship between a journalist and his lover, who
is an untouchable, a member of India's lowest caste.
Neither the films nor the book have generated the level of controversy
that surrounded "Fire," a 1998 film about two women falling
in love that drew angry protests from the Shiv Sena, a right-wing Hindu
group. Lesbians are even less prominent than gay men in India, in part
because of the "basic inequalities" that hamper women in
most aspects of life here, said Geeta Kumana, chairwoman of Aanchal
Trust, a lesbian group in Bombay. In June, about 35 men, many wearing
jewelry and lipstick, took part in a rare gay pride march in Calcutta.
The Internet, which is easily accessible in India, has given the gay
community a relatively safe way to connect, while at the same time
exposing young people to the more permissive cultures of the West. "The
Internet has changed so much for the gay community," said Shaleen
Rakesh, an activist with Naz Foundation Trust, a Delhi-based group
that works on HIV/AIDS and sexual health issues. "The way society,
even in Delhi, has changed in the last four or five years, people are
so much more open to the issue of sexuality, and it's so much easier
to talk about sexuality and being gay." Activists from Naz, which
runs a clinic for people with HIV and AIDS, recently went to court
in an attempt to repeal India's law against homosexuality.
Under the law, enacted by the British in 1860, "carnal intercourse
against the order of nature" is punishable by life imprisonment
or up to 10 years in jail and a fine. In India, where there are an
estimated 4 million people with HIV and the number is expected to surge
in the years to come, police have used the law to justify harassment
and detention of AIDS outreach workers. A report by New York-based
Human Rights Watch said "police abuse" has sometimes prevented
workers from handing out condoms and information to sexually active
gay men. The Humsafar Trust, a gay non-governmental organization
in Bombay, offers workshops in how to hide condoms "because if you're
caught with a condom by the police at night, you can be badly beaten
up," said Ashok Row Kavi, chairman of Humsafar's board. "We
teach men to hide them in socks, in wallets." Rakesh said the
court appears to favor getting rid of the law against homosexual activity.
But on Monday, the government submitted a strongly worded affidavit
suggesting that efforts to repeal the law should be directed at parliament,
not the court, and that the law should remain in place because "Indian
society by and large disapproves of homosexuality." "Deletion
of the [law] can well open the flood gates of delinquent behavior and
be misconstrued as providing unbridled license for the same," the
affidavit said. Naz activists have three months to file a response.
Gay activists say that many gay men in India are married and have children.
Yadavendra Singh, 27, said that although he is committed to leading
a gay life, the pressure from his family to marry has been too strong
to ignore.
When he told his sister he was gay, she said it was "not possible" and
advised him to meditate, he said. Drum beat to marriage Soon afterward,
his family began pressing him to marry, sending the relatives of single
women to meet him and arrange a match, as is commonly done in India.
Singh sought help from a gay-rights group in Delhi, which suggested
an alternative: he could marry a lesbian, placating both their parents
and allowing them freedom to pursue relationships with others. Through
gay support groups, he met a young woman who agreed to the plan. They
are to be married in March. "I told my parents it was a love affair,
and that I had been with the girl for the last four years," Singh
said. "Now my mom is OK, [and she says] 'My son is not gay. He's
marrying a girl.'"
Hindustan Times
http://www.hindustantimes.com/news/181_370897,0008.htm
September 11, 2003
11
No 'unnatural' sex please, we are Indians!
Indo-Asian News Service New Delhi
Sexually adventurous Indians may be unwittingly committing several
crimes in the bedroom, including some punishable with life imprisonment.
If the Government has its way, homosexuality, oral sex and anal sex,
which are increasingly an accepted form of sexual behaviour in many
parts of the world, will not be legalised in India just yet.
The Government's contention in a court that homosexuality should
not be legalised as it was not accepted by Indian society has outraged
not only the gay community but many who believe the state should keep
out of the bedroom. The Government was responding this week to a petition
questioning Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code (IPC) that deems "voluntary
sex against the order of nature with any man, woman or animal" a
criminal offence to be punished with imprisonment for life or up to
10 years. "We expected nothing better from this Government than
the old bogey of Indian culture and society that is completely divorced
from scientific realities," Aditya Bandopadhyay, a member of the
Lawyers' Collective HIV/AIDS unit that formulated the petition for
the NGO Naz foundation, said.
"
How can you criminalise a whole community when it is scientifically,
sociologically, anthropologically and historically accepted that homosexuality
is not a depravity or an aberration?" The petition, filed in 2001,
argued that consenting homosexual acts should be legalized because
the fear of arrest and harassment from the police had driven gay people
underground, hampering the anti-AIDS campaign. Responding after a long
time, the Government told the court that Indian society was "intolerant" towards
homosexuality and repealing the law would "open the floodgates
of delinquent behaviour". It was argued that this was the only
law against child abuse and male rape. But Bandopadhyay retorted, "Why
not frame separate laws for child abuse and male rape?
Anyhow homosexuals and victims of male rape are harassed by the police." The
Section under consideration also bans acts such as oral sex and anal
sex that could be described as "unnatural" since they were
not "penal-vaginal". Said Sarah Fernandes, a students' counsellor, "Is
this a police state? Why should the Government decide how or who do
I have sex with?" Echoing the indignation, bank executive Yogesh
Mishra said the law could not dictate what consenting adults did in
their bedrooms. "People have the right to choose their sexual
behaviour. In a progressive society, such a law is redundant and should
be dumped post-haste."
The petition said the sodomy law was at cross-purposes with
the fundamental right to life and liberty. "The Government's view is shocking
and effectively means sex should be only for procreation, not pleasure," said
Lok Prakash, technical consultant with the Naz Foundation International.
Stating that this attitude was detrimental even to heterosexuals, Prakash
remarked that, legally, even a husband and wife could not have anything
but conventional sex. This is a strange irony for the land that produced
the most ancient treatise on sex, the Kamasutra of Vatsayana, and the
renowned Khajuraho temples that depict most explicit, and no-holds-barred
acts of lovemaking.
Noted sexologist Prakash Kothari refers to instances of homosexuality,
premarital sex and alternative sexual behaviour in Indian mythology
as well as scriptures. "It is true that many acts are not accepted
by society today, but between mutually consenting adults, oral sex
etc are acceptable sexual behaviour," he said. "There is
nothing like unnatural sex between adults - only alternative sex." Kothari
pointed out that it was better to have homosexuals satisfying their
relationship in their own way than becoming "destructive heterosexuals". "Laws
are meant for citizens' comfort and not discomfort. Under the present
scenario, IPC Section 377 needs to be abolished."
Sify News (India)
http://sify.com/news/othernews/fullstory.php?id=13250892
September 14, 2003
12
'Homosexuality okay if practised in private' New Delhi
The State will turn a blind eye if homosexuality is practised
between two consenting adults in private, a Central Government affidavit
suggests.
A Home Ministry affidavit, submitted in Delhi High Court, said the
basic thrust of the argument of pro-gay activists was the perceived
violation of the fundamental liberties guaranteed in the Constitution.
However, there was no violation of fundamental liberty as long as any
homosexual/lesbian act was practised between two consenting adults
in privacy as in the case of heterosexuality. This was contrary to
the estabilished law that if an act amounted to criminal offence, it
would be so even if it was done privately. ''In India, Section 377
of the Indian Penal Code has been basically used to punish sexual abuse
to children and to compliment lacunae in the rape laws. It has rarely
been used to punish homosexual behaviour,'' the affidavit said. The
provision became operable only when there was a report to the police
for either sodomising or buggering, it added. The purpose of the Section
377 IPC was to provide a healthy environment in the society by criminalising
unnatural sexual activities against the order of nature, it said.
If this section was taken out of the statue book, a public display
of such affection would, at the most, attract charges of indecent exposure
which carry a lesser jail term that the existing imprisonment for life
or ten years and fine. While the Government could not police morality,
in a civil society criminal law had to express and reflect public morality
and concerns about harm to the society at large. The Government's reply
came in response to a plea challenging the vires of Section 377 IPC
and seeking to legalise homosexuality. 'Naz Foundation', a voluntary
organisation working to prevent the spread of AIDS, had filed the PIL
seeking amendment to the Section which made sexual relations between
two consenting adults of same sex a criminal offence, saying it was
a hurdle in the AIDS awareness campaign run by the NGO.
It claimed that Men who have Sex with Men (MSM), who were very vulnerable
to the disease, were harassed by the authorities and the law enforcing
agencies, which forced them to go underground and came in way of HIV/AIDS
prevention efforts. Though acknowledging that a number of countries
had done away with the criminal content of homosexuality/lesbianism,
the Home Ministry affidavit said that there was no tolerance to such
a practice in the Indian society. ''In any Parliamentary secular democracy,
the legal conception of crime depends on political as well as moral
considerations... Public tolerance of different activities changes
and legal categories get influenced by those changes.
The social dynamics take into account the moral aspect also,'' it however
said. ''In our country criminal law, unfortunately, is not based on
a fundamentalist or absolutist conceptiion of morality and it reflects
shift according to changes in public attitudes.'' Acts which had been
glorified in the past, like dowry, child marriage, domestic violence,
widow re-marriage, had now been brought under the purview of criminal
justice. Therefore, changes in public tolerance of activities lead
to campaigns to either criminalise some behaviour or decriminalise
others, it added.
Mid-Day
(India)
http://ww1.mid-day.com/news/city/2003/september/63897.htm
September 15, 2003
13
Mumbai gays against Centre's stance
by Shibu Thomas
The Central Government's stand supporting Section 377 of the Indian
Penal Code that makes homosexuality a criminal offence has come in
for vociferous criticism from the lesbian and gay community in the
city. They feel the government's open support may lead to
increasing harassment and victimisation of the community.
"The government's
stand makes gay men vulnerable to extortion, abuse and violence," said
gay activist Ashok Row Kavi at a meeting in Santacruz that was
convened to evolve a counter to the government's stand. According
to Section
377, whoever voluntarily has sex against the order of nature with
any man, woman or animal will be punished with imprisonment for
life, or
with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend
to 10 years.
On September 8, in response to a public interest litigation filed
by Naz Foundation, the centre told the Delhi High Court that
homosexuality cannot be legalised in India as society
disapproves of such behaviour.
The government said "deletion of the said section can well open
the flood gates of delinquent behaviour and be construed as providing
unbridled licence for the same". Tejal, a member of LABIA (Lesbian
And Bisexual Women in Action), is concerned about the government affidavit
bringing lesbian women under the purview of the Act. "It
is scary, and translates into the government sending out a message
that it will
prosecute homosexual men and women.
The government has effectively said that its own notions of
culture override human rights," said Tejal. R Sridhar, a filmmaker who
was present at the meeting, believes that "society's non-acceptance" argument
is not valid. "Society has never accepted widow remarriage,
ban on sati and child marriage," argued Sridhar. His immediate
concerns, however, are whether the government can prosecute two gay
men who are
living together. Ernest Noronha, who works with gay organisation
Humsafar, believes the law can come in the way of HIV prevention
campaigns. "What
will stop the police from now booking outreach workers in the area
of HIV/AIDS intervention?" he asked. Row Kavi said Humsafar
might intervene in the case, since the government has questioned
Naz's locus
standi (the right of a party to appear and be heard before a court).
Times of India, Mumbai, India
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/cms.dll/xml/uncomp/articleshow?msid=18463
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September 16, 2003
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Mumbai to host film festival on sexuality
by Vidyottama Sharma, Times News Network
This time they are coming out in the open, and with a bang. The homosexuals
and bisexuals are going to celebrate their existence and the heterosexuals
are invited too, to partake in the debates and discussions that will
be held as a part of the festivities. Did someone hear Dr Alban crooning "It's
my life?" Well, to hit the nail on the head, come October
17 and Mumbai will play host to 'LARZISH', a three-day International
Film
Festival on Sexuality and gender plurality.
Larzish, in Urdu, means,
from the slightest trembles of the lip to the tremors of a revolution.
Replete with feature length, fiction, shorts, experimental, documentary,
animation or mixed media presentation, the non-profit festival will
deal with queer, gay, lesbian, transgender, bisexual, bent, deviant,
kothi, eunuch, hijra, panthi, queens and drag kings forms of sexuality.
"
We are dealing with nuances of sexuality and gender," avers Tejal
Shah, co-organiser (along with Chatura Patil and Natasha Mendonca)
and an activist. "The festival is an attempt to reach out to people
through visual medium on issues and begin a dialogue. In MIFF and IFFI,
we are left out and the right wing fundamentalist slant of the government
is very visible."
The fest is being organised under the banner
of 'Humjinsi', a lesbian and bisexual women's group, which is a part
of India Centre for Human Rights and Law. "It's a support group
and a helpline for women, who love women," informs Shah. The
festival, along with screening 40 films, will also have two panel
discussions
- one on issues of representation and media and the other on sexuality
and gender.
The former will have Mahesh Bhatt and Farah Naqvi as the panelists.
The issues that will be discussed and debated upon, says a note,
include lesbians, gays, intersex recognition, masculinity, campy
piss-takes
on mainstream media, autobiographical sketches of transgender and
transsexuals, anti-globalisation resistance and "loads of fun and fiction of
lesbian, gay, bisexual and bent themes." Of course marital rape
and domestic violence will also be handled. "It will, in a way,
mean like the other rising for gays, who will sit in the audience and
know how their subject is positioned and represented by the others.
Plus, they themselves will be able to display their beliefs and expectations.
It is a formal, proper festival wherein the panels will also have representation
from the parents and families of gays and lesbians," says Shah.
As part of the festival, LABIA (Lesbians and Bisexuals In Action,
formerly known as Stree Sangam - a lesbian and bisexual women's collective) will bring out a publication that will act as the catalogue and a zine
rolled into one. The magazine part will use scripts and submissions
by activists. Titled 'Scripts', this effort of LARZISH and LABIA will
see the revival of LABIA's magazine by the same name that was started
in 1998. It will also have an on-line edition that will be linked to
the web site. Interestingly, the opening (short) film in the festival,
Beauty Parlour is by Mehreen Jabbar of Pakistan. The other opening
(long) film, My friend Su is the story of a man who feels like a woman
trapped in a man's body. The film is by a Delhi based filmmaker Neeraj
Bhasin.
The closing night film, from the USA, is Brother Outsider: The Life
of Byard Rustin. This film deals with the life of Byrad Rustin, best
remembered as the organiser of the 1963 Washington March. It hints
that this master strategist and activist's amazing non-violent efforts,
largely went unreported because of his gay identity. "It is
not easy for the activists to completely come out in the open, because
of fear of reactions of families or at work places. We are inundated
with heterosexual images in our daily lives but our side goes largely
unrepresented. It is not that films are not made on these subjects
but people don't get to see them.
This festival will be open to public and we look at it as a political
tool to generate more visibility, facilitate a public discourse and
celebrate our various existences," avers Shah. "We are not
asking for legal changes but for broadening the understanding of these
subjects and articulating one's own right. The value of marriage and
family is made so sacrosanct that nothing is given sanctity outside
its purview." Shah is upset with the recent section 377 of the
government.
"
I think our festival is very timely because the government has taken
a very regressive stand on the issue of sexuality." The organisers
are hoping the collegiates to attend the festival in large numbers
and partcipate in the festival that will have films from Australia,
Belgium, Canada, China, France, Finland, Germany, India, Italy, Japan,
Pakistan, South Korea, Serbia, Sweden, South Africa, the UK and the
USA. "Our agenda is to primarily create a forum for showcasing
works emerging from South-East Asia, Middle East, Africa, Latin America
as well as other parts of the world. This festival is an attempt to
compliment already existing and on going work within the sexuality
and gender minority movement at the grass-root level," says
Shah.
The Times of India, Mumbai, India
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/cms.dll/html/uncomp/articleshow?msid=2393
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October 18, 2003
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Sexual minorities put up united front
Times News Network
Emerging from the shadows of public psyche, sexual minorities, including
gays, lesbians, transsexuals and bisexuals, have come forward
to form the India Network for Sexual Minorities (Infosem). The alliance, a
first of its kind in the country, will raise the collective demands
of various sexual minorities, including abolition of parts of Section
377 of the Indian Penal Code which criminalises homosexuality.
Other
issues include harassment by police and lack of proper medical facilities
for sexual minorities.
"
For years, several organisations have been working in isolation with
people of alternate sexualities," gay activist and convener of
Infosem Ashok Row Kavi said on Friday. "By banding together, we
will build strength in numbers and will be able to lobby more effectively
for our demands," he said. The alliance so far includes 15 organisations
working with sexual minorities.
"Membership is by invitation only," Mr
Kavi said. "Regressive laws, like Section 377, make it very difficult
for us to talk openly about issues like safe sex and prevention of
HIV/AIDS among homosexuals," said Manavendra Singh of the Baroda-based
Lakshya Trust.
In July 2001, five outreach workers of Bharosa, an organisation
working among homosexuals, were arrested in Lucknow while they
were distributing
free condoms.
"This is only one example of misuse and abuse of
Section 377, which forbids consensual same-sex activity and places
it in the same category as bestiality or sex with animals," said
Geeta Kumana, project coordinator of Aanchal, a lesbian group. The
law even hinders homosexuals from seeking medical attention for sex-related
problems, as doctors are supposed to report cases of homosexuality
to police.
A prominent member of the alliance is the Dai Welfare
Society representing the 'Hijra' community. Narrating the community's
problems
Lata Guruji said, "If we go to a hospital for treatment, doctors
often ridicule us by asking whether we should be admitted to the male
or female ward." Others narrated how they were often harassed
by police and ostracised by society.
Hindustan Times
http://www.hindustantimes.com/news/919_427185,00180002.htm
October 21, 2003
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Take lessons from gay, lesbian couples
Research shows that married heterosexual couples can learn
a great deal from gay and lesbian couples. According to the research, they
are more mature and considerate in trying to improve a relationship
and have a greater awareness about maintaining equality in a relationship
than do couples with no such affiliations or tendencies.
John Gottman, a University of Washington emeritus professor of psychology,
who directed the research along with Robert Levenson, a University
of California, Berkeley, psychology professor, says, "I think
that in 200 years heterosexual relationships will be where gay and
lesbian relationships are today." In the first of two papers published
this month in the Journal of Homosexuality, the researchers explored
the conflict interaction of homosexual and heterosexual couples using
mathematical modeling techniques. In the second study, they looked
at factors influencing gay and lesbian couples' relationship satisfaction
and dissolution.
"
In the modeling paper we looked at processes, and they look so different
you could draw a picture," said Gottman. "Straight
couples start a conflict discussion in a much more negative place
than do gays
and lesbian couples. Homosexuals start the same kind of discussions
with more humor and affection, are less domineering and show considerably
more positive emotions than heterosexual couples.
"The way a discussion
starts is critical. If it starts off in a bad way in a heterosexual
relationship, we have found that it will become even more negative
96 percent of the time. Gays and lesbians are warmer, friendlier and
less belligerent. You see it over and over in their discussions, and
their partner is receiving the message they are communicating. In turn,
their partner is allowing himself or herself to be influenced in a
positive way. With married heterosexual couples a discussion is much
more of a power struggle with someone being invalidated."
Gay and lesbian relationships seem to be marked by what Gottman
calls "the
triumph of positive emotions over negative emotions." "Negative
emotions have more impact in heterosexual relationships," he said. "This
is why our previous research has shown you need a 5-to-1 ratio of positive
to negative statements. This seems to be universal in heterosexual
couples. But it may be different in gay and lesbian relationships
where positive emotions seem to have a lot more power or influence."
Mid-Day, Mumbai, India ( http://ww1.mid-day.com
http://ww1.mid-day.com/news/city/2003/october/67152.htm
October 26, 2003
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Male callers harass lesbian helpline
by Priscilla Mehta
Sixty per cent of the calls that Mumbai's only lesbian helpline receives
are crank calls from men. "At least that's down from 90 per cent
crank calls we received when we first began," says Chatura, co-ordinator
at Humjinsi, the organisation behind the helpline. Started about four
years ago, the helpline that is currently operational two days a week
- Tuesdays and Thursdays, from 3 pm to 6 pm - has women from all over
the city calling for help. "It's primarily a helpline that provides
information and space to talk," says Chatura. "
We get about 20 to 30 genuine callers every month, a lot of them are
repeat callers.
We ask them to give themselves a name, but don't ask
for any identification as such. ''Each call lasts for about 15 to
20 minutes, but if it's a crisis, it can go on for up to 45 minutes.
We
do not direct people to make choices regarding their sexuality, we
only give out information. If they ask about safe sex practises we
can give out authentic information." However, through experiences
are organisers are able to say that if the callers are male, the calls
are mostly crank. "One kind is not sure and just calls to find
out what we're about.
Another type will call and verbally abuse us, or breathe very heavily
on the phone. Yet another kind of male caller will say, 'I'm a lesbian,
I don't know what to do,' or weirdly enough some others think we're
a sex line in the business of supplying women," says Chatura. "Occasionally," she
continues, "we get gay men calling us up for help, then we direct
them to organisations that work with men." Gleaning away the husk
from the grain, Humjinsi is able to say that the genuine callers are
either college students, housewives or working women and either English,
Hindi or Marathi speaking. "For women sexuality is a very tricky
issue, so it takes a while for them to open up.
Sometimes the husbands of the wives call first, we've never had a
parent call, I suppose that's because normally the first thing they
do when
they find out their daughter is possibly lesbian is to either get
her married off or treated by a psychiatrist. Recently we had a call
from
a man who told us when that his sister 'came out' he reacted very
badly to her. He was trying to grapple with the notion of it himself
and
was trying to bridge the gap between them." The infamous Section
377 and its implications don't hold back this organisation.
As Chatura says, "We've had the Shiv Sena call us up and tell
us, 'We know what you are doing, we're coming to your office', we
told them, 'This is a helpline, giving information is not a criminal
activity'.
And anyway the law is not specific and it is certainly not anyone's
business what two consenting adults do in the privacy of their space." Despite
this and other phone calls they wish they could just simply eliminate,
the organisation hopes to get Section 377 repealed and help more
women understand themselves better.
New York Times
October 20, 2003
18
Despite Widespread Poverty, a Consumer Class Emerges in India
by Amy Waldman
Urgaon, India Tarun Narula, a 25-year-old computer instructor, celebrated
Mohandas K. Gandhi's birthday on Oct. 2 by going to the Metropolitan Mall.
So did so many thousands of others that the parking lot was full, as were those
of the other two malls across and down the street. Indian-made sport utility
vehicles, cars and motorcycles fought for space, choking the roads of this
satellite city south of Delhi.
Inside the malls, young people sipped coffee at Barista Coffee, the Starbucks
of India. They wandered through Indian department stores, Marks and Spencer,
Lacoste and Reebok. Families took children to McDonald's, or the Subway sandwich
shop. Moviegoers chose between "Boom," a Bollywood film with a decidedly
Western touch of vulgarity, and "2 Fast 2 Furious." This is no longer
the India of Gandhi, among history's most famous ascetics.
The change in values, habits and options in India not just from his
day, but from a mere decade ago is undeniable, and so is the sense of
optimism about India's economic prospects.
Much of India is still mired in poverty, but just over a decade after the Indian
economy began shaking off its statist shackles and opening to the outside world,
it is booming. The surge is based on strong industry and agriculture, rising
Indian and foreign investment and American-style consumer spending by a growing
middle class, including the people under age 25 who now make up half the country's
population.
After growing just 4.3 percent last year, India's economy, the second fastest
growing in the world, after China, is widely expected to grow close to 7 percent
this year.
The growth of the past decade has put more money in the pockets of an expanding
middle class, 250 million to 300 million strong, and more choices in front
of them. Their appetites are helping to fuel demand-led growth for the first
time in decades.
India is now the world's fastest growing telecom market, with more than one
million new mobile phone subscriptions sold each month. Indians are buying
about 10,000 motorcycles a day. Banks are now making $15 billion a year in
home loans, with the lowest interest rates in decades helping to spur the spending,
building and borrowing. Credit and debit cards are slowly gaining. The potential for even more market growth is enormous, a fact recognized by
multinationals and Indian companies alike. In 2001, according to census figures,
only 31.6 percent of India's 192 million households had a television, and only
2.5 percent a car, jeep or van.
Foreign institutional investors have poured nearly $5 billion into the Indian
market this year, already more than six times last year's total. The Bombay
Stock Exchange's benchmark Sensitive Index has risen by more than 50 percent
since April, hitting a three-year high. Foreign exchange reserves are at a
record $90 billion.
After huffing and puffing in place for eight or nine years, "the train
has left the station," C. K. Prahalad, a professor at the University of
Michigan Business School, said of the Indian economy.
More than a decade after India began opening its economy by reducing protectionism
and red tape, slowly lifting restrictions on foreign investment and reforming
its financial sector, the changes are starting to show substantial results.
Companies that stumbled in the face of recession and new competitive pressures
in the 1990's have increased productivity and are showing record profits. India
is slowly making a name not just for software exports and service outsourcing,
but also as an exporter of autos, auto parts and motorcycles.
Nature has played a part as well. The seasonal monsoon that ended recently
was the best this agriculture-dependent economy has seen in at least five years,
with normal or excess rainfall in 33 of 36 of the country's sub-regions. That,
in turn, is putting income and credit in rural pockets, spurring a run on consumer
goods that will only strengthen when the harvest comes in later this year. In some places, the economic transformation is startling. Look at islands of
prosperity like Gurgaon, or Bangalore, and you see an India that many Americans not
to speak of Indians would not recognize.
It is a place where a young fashion designer like Swati Bhargava, 27, who works
for a company that exports clothes to American and French chains, can buy stylish
Indian clothes, eat at Pizza Hut, drink at Barista and contemplate the country
mutating around her. " The culture is changing," she said. "People are becoming more
broad-minded."One sign of change is the proliferation of malls. India's
first opened only in 1999, and its second in 2000, according to Harminder Sahni,
a principal in KSA Technopak, a management consulting firm in New Delhi. By the
end of next year, it will have almost 150.
Of course, truisms about what holds India back have not disappeared. The shortfalls
in infrastructure, particularly power and education, are staggering. Twenty-six
percent of Indians still live in poverty, and data suggest inequality is widening
even as the poverty rate falls. Overall employment is essentially stagnating.
The heavy dependence on agriculture, which still accounts for 25 percent of
gross domestic product and 70 percent of employment, means that a bad monsoon,
like the one last year, can hobble the economy.
The country remains politically dependent on subsidies that have helped swell
fiscal deficits that limit growth and investment in education and health. A
recent Supreme Court ruling suspending the sale of shares in significant state-owned
industries prompted concerns about the slowing of economic reforms, as do continuing
red tape and corruption.
Moreover, not everyone embraces change. Many bemoan the aping of Western culture
at the expense of a much older and richer Indian one.
Still, an acceleration of the transformation seems inevitable, in part because
the booming consumer culture is being driven by the young. The youth of India's
population is a demographic trend of such economic and cultural significance
that even the country's aging leadership recognizes its importance.
Yogesh Samat, the chief executive of Barista, which was founded four years
ago and now has 125 coffee bars across the country, said that before economic
liberalization began in 1991, "there was a great deal of guilt associated
with spending of any kind; saving was the done thing." But today's youth those
born in the 1980's never experienced either the shortages or the psychological
constraints of the country's socialist, Soviet-oriented past, he said.
" Consumerism as a term is no longer seen as a bad word," Mr. Samat
observed, "and the acquisition of material things is no longer seen as going
against Indian traits."
The young people at the Gurgaon malls would agree. Most of those interviewed
here work, a change itself from the past, when jobs for college-age students
were few.
Most of them have jobs in service industries, like hotels or marketing, that
now constitute about half the economy. They tend to live at home with their
parents, following Indian tradition, meaning that almost all of their income
is disposable.
Mr. Narula, the computer instructor, for example, earns $2,173 a year, more
than four times India's per capita income of about $480. He lives at home,
and has spent his money on a Nokia phone, a Maruti car and clothes. On Gandhi's
birthday, he spent about five hours with his friends at the mall, eating at
McDonald's and watching "Boom."
The lifestyle changes for this cohort have come at warp speed. Mr. Sahni of
KSA Technopak is only 35, but marvels at the variety open to young Indians
today. "When I was a young person, nothing was happening every
day, life was the same," he said. No longer. A year ago, India was in a national funk over China having surged
ahead economically. Now, there is a cautious sense that over time, India could
prove the turtle to China's hare, thanks to its entrepreneurial spirit, its
strong higher education system and its democracy.
" There's a lot of confidence in India today, even in respect to China," said
Jairam Ramesh, the senior economic adviser to the opposition Congress Party.
India now has a $500 million trade surplus with China, and Indian companies
increasingly see China less as a threat than an opportunity. A delegation of
Indian industrialists is now in China to market everything from steel to pharmaceuticals. Indian companies say the advantages of the country's high-skilled, low-cost
work force are outweighing the disadvantages imposed by its infrastructure
and bureaucracy, and even there they see improvement.
Ratul Puri, the executive director of Moser Baer India, which has become the
world's third largest producer of recordable media like DVD's and CD's, said
his company had recently built the world's largest production site for such
devices 1.5 million square feet in Noida, another Delhi satellite
city, in just six and a half months.
" Pre-1991, it would have been impossible," Mr. Puri said. "We
would have spent six and a half months trying to get the license for construction."
Associated Press
October 19, 2003
19
India Film Festival Examines Homophobia
by Ramola Talwar Badam
Bombay, India - One film focused on the life of a lesbian truck driver. Another
showed two older men lovingly feeding each other. In a country
where homosexuality
is a crime, and where gays rarely gather publicly, India's first
gay film festival was more about coming out than it was about filmmaking. "We
need to create public awareness and confront prejudice," said
Chatura, a young activist for a Bombay-based lesbian support group. "We
hope the film festival will dispel ignorance about us and our lives
and spark debate." Chatura, who would only give her first name, joined about 200 other
activists, college students and relatives of gays at the festival,
titled "Tremors of a Revolution." Organizers had a hard
time finding a venue for the three-day event, which ended Sunday.
In the
end the audience squeezed into a college auditorum on the outskirts
of Bombay.
The Indian news media published articles announcing the festival,
but photography was banned because organizers said audience members
were "in
various stages of coming out." Many of the 40 films featured criticized
Indian law, which defines homosexual relations as a crime against nature
punishable by 10 years to life in prison. "Homosexuality is abnormal,
it's an illness," said a frowning, unnamed police officer in one
documentary. Other films focused on the ridicule and discrimination
faced by same-sex couples in India. "Manjuben, Truck Driver" focused
on the life of a cross-dressing truck driver who said economic
independence helped her lead life on her own terms.
Another documentary showed the relationship between two men in
their 60s who see each other on the sidelines of what seems to
be heterosexual
lives. Each is married, with grandchildren. Most homosexuals in
India live with their parents, referring to their partners as "friends" for
fear of being disowned by their families. Those who live together
don't advertise their sexuality, for fear of being evicted by landlords.
But over the past decade, the Indian media and gay activist groups
have reported instances in which lesbian and gay couples privately
exchanged marriage vows in temples and mosques. The marriages have
no legal sanction.
"
We're getting more active and more bold and we're trying more and more
to get out," said Nitin Karani, 32, an activist with a gay rights
group, Humsafar Trust, which has 8,000 members in Bombay. "There
is guilt and shame in pretending to be friends and not lovers and meeting
each other on the sly," said Karani, who told his parents and
colleagues eight years ago of his sexual orientation. In June there
was a gay pride parade in Calcutta, in eastern India. In August, gay
rights groups in Bombay held a rare news conference to criticize a
Vatican document that urged lawmakers and religious leaders to campaign
against gay marriages. Filmmaker Natasha Mendonca said the film festival
would open people's minds. "Most Indian films are about marriages.
They don't reflect my reality or that of many other people. This
one does."
Mid-Day, Mumbai,
India
http://ww1.mid-day.com/news/city/2003/december/70126.htm
1 December
2003
20
City
homosexuals to march for their rights
by A
Mid Day Correspondent
The city's
gay and lesbian community will be out in full force
this
evening at Sion hospital. On the occasion of World
AIDS Day today, homosexuals will take to the streets in a
candlelight march to
compel Mumbaikars to open their eyes to the community's problems. "The
march is to highlight the ignorance and shame that surrounds homosexuality
in India, and the resulting grave effects on the physical and mental
health of the community," said gay activist Ashok Row Kavi. Geeta
Kumana of Aachal, a lesbian NGO said that not only gays and lesbians
but also heterosexuals would participate in the march.
Nitin
Karani, guest editor of Bombay Dost, a publication catering to the
homosexual
community, said the march aimed to raise a debate over
Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code, which prohibits "unnatural sex between
the same sex, either male or female". "The section is forcing
a lot of people to go underground and not reveal their true selves.
The act
makes it all the more difficult to teach them about safe sex and
also to counsel them and inform them about testing centres," said
Karani. Karani said the harm the act was causing was evident
as estimates by the National AIDS Control Organisation reveal
that
around 16 to
20 per cent of the homosexual population in Mumbai is
HIV positive.
The march will start from Sion hospital at 6.30 pm and will wind
its way up to Maheshwari Udyan at Matunga. Dr Hema Jerajani head
of the
department of dermatology and sexually transmitted infections
at Sion hospital, will address the gathering.